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dracosh (m)
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:d ;d ;d ;d ;d
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youlaw
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Thanks for your advice. 3 out 5 to go.
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Oracle (m)
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well i don't know what to say but i think u're in a very critical position
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DivineOke (f)
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8 girls!!!!!!!!  I really feel for your wife. You really were a player when you were young o. Anyway, you really have to let go of all of them. If any of them wants to kill herself, datz her business. You are married and you are married.They should hit their heads on the wall 4 all you care. Preaching to them or tellin them you have aids is not such a bad idea  :DWish u the best |
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eveseh (f)
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kick her out,
tell her that u are now a marrie man
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dollyp1cute (f)
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chai! I know guys can be playas but how did you manage 9 girls at a time (before choosing the wife). The strategyStart pestering them for money, large sums o like 2million e.t.c, I am sure 3 will bolt, leaving the 2 desperate ones. For those two that remain, anytime you are going to meet them rub some shit on yourself they will bulge after a while. If they survive that then you are in big trouble. On a serious note I really feel for your wife and all the bargage you are dragging into your marital bed, being unfaithful is deeper than most people know they just think it's a bit on the side. How come you have not told two of them you are married, you are just digging a bigger hole for yourself.  :oRepent
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tasiana
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did u say u re married? your case is tight, Only God can help in your situation.the earlier u turn to Him the best. Bestest of luck!!! |
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Jaguar1 (m)
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I don't usually respond to this kind of post because it's quite annoying to say the least but let me say that u think we are all fools to believe your bull shit story. You 're 28yrs, married, bla bla, 9 babes. For any guy to say he doesn't know how to get away from any babe even when he is married is so lame and annoying. Why don't u have the effrontery to invite them to your house and lay all of them at once with your wife watching? Who is the woman that can marry a baby he-goat like you. who do you think u are? Mr charming, Bill Gate or who the hell. I am so pissed wit you that if I lay my hands on you I will yank off that your little organ of magic  . I often wonder why some guys can't wait to get off their dippers before jumping into marriage. It has got nothing to do wit your age but your rotten mind. Thank God this is internet, I would have castrated you. Anyway, for your wife's sake I will have some mercy but that is assuming u actually have a story. My advice, next time, post something more real and sensible. |
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Rlst84sale (m)
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Brother,
I think you've had your moment as a single man, now it's time to just call it quit. You don't have to lie to let them for them to know where you stand. I think you must be enjoying it and I hope you don't forget that you are now a father and you have a daughter even if you don't have respect for your wife. Many times it's not the look that gets the women, it's what we tell them. There must have been somethings you told them or still telling them that make them not to want to let go.
What I would suggest is that you tell them the truth and then change city, job, phone number, email address and be dedicated to your wife and kid. Oh! another thing, I think an STD (Sexual Transmitted Disease) test should be done as well. I wonder too how you would feel if someone does the same thing to your sister/daughter.
I really don't think any of them would kill herself because you leave, besides who told you that you are the only one in their life. Stop decieving yourself brother.
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Rlst84sale (m)
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Brother,
I think you've had your moment as a single man, now it's time to just call it quit. You don't have to lie to let them for them to know where you stand. I think you must be enjoying it and I hope you don't forget that you are now a father and you have a daughter even if you don't have respect for your wife. Many times it's not the look that gets the women, it's what we tell them. There must have been somethings you told them or still telling them that make them not to want to let go.
What I would suggest is that you tell them the truth and then change city, job, phone number, email address and be dedicated to your wife and kid. Oh! another thing, I think an STD (Sexual Transmitted Disease) test should be done as well. I wonder too how you would feel if someone does the same thing to your sister/daughter.
I really don't think any of them would kill herself because you leave, besides who told you that you are the only one in their life. Stop deceiving yourself brother.
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big_bumper (f)
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You know dey fear jazz abi hin don catch you? Take am easy o, you don get wife and you don get pikin.
It is only two out of the eight whom are going to have their heart broken, the one who is asking when you are going to get married and the clingy, needy, desperado one. It is not the end of the world and I am sure you have broken loads of heart before.
The three who thinks there is nothing wrong in continuing to sleep with you are easily dispensable.
Your main palaver here-in lies with the three who still wants to marry you regardless of the fact that you are marrried. Obviously one of these whores called your wife. They are going to be the hardest to get rid of and will try and exact revenge on you by trying to destroy your marriage.
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finemocha (f)
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lololololol  goodluck |
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hot chic (f)
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The earlier you do something,the better it is for you,you have planned how to break up with this girls before marriage,there is no point keepin them till you're married,tnk God u are now learning your lesson.When you want to stick to a girl why don't u just stick to her and not playing around,i really pity your wife because i believe you must have it in your mind that u're going to marry her n break up wit all them girls.
Anyway that aside,tell the girls that u're married and your wife aint comfortable about all those sh*t,tell them off,change your number,ignore them,if they keep running after you,let them know that u are not bothered,none of them is goin 2 kill hersef because of you,dey are just bragging, all d best.
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slimfine (f)
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The did has already been done. He is looking for a strategy or a way out so that he can focus on his marriage. My advice, tell your wife period!!. You mension that you do not want to see her get hurt but marriage comes with burdens. Once she is aware, beleive me your mind will be as ease. mean while for them girls; ignore all of them. To be nice though, you may tell them that you have HIV or some form of STD or some thing. you don't want to risk your wife's life because themgirls may be furious enough to come after her. If they want to kill themselves becuase of you, they need a mental check up. And for you, this headche and your wife's being hurt by the news when you tell her, will be your punishment for your previous play boy life
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laudate
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Brother,
I think you've had your moment as a single man, now it's time to just call it quit. You don't have to lie to let them for them to know where you stand. I think you must be enjoying it and I hope you don't forget that you are now a father and you have a daughter even if you don't have respect for your wife. Many times it's not the look that gets the women, it's what we tell them. There must have been somethings you told them or still telling them that make them not to want to let go.
WORD!!!  Di bobo just dey yarn yeye gist for here, make we think say im dey hot! Nonsense! If a man makes it clear that he is available, why should he complain when women decide to stalk him? Abeg, tell am make he commot for road, jare! |
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darmy$ (f)
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they wont leave you or you wont leave them?
and what's holding your tongue from telling those
other girls that is not aware of your marital status, that you are married?
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tosinadeda (m)
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tell your wife,na only she fit help u o, if she finds out before u tel her, your marriage might end
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