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wakagirl
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@ mellow yes o na word.
So your girlfriend no do man friend? ok i agree but she fit tell you how many guys don pass through her legs? Please be realistic what is the difference between a girl who slept with 5 girls and me who slept with one MAN and one 'guy'?
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freeguy (m)
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@poster,
Wonder they say shall never end! Sleeping with another man because of money? What an excuse.
Anyway, the deed has been done and she should move on with her life. She messed up herself because the boyfriend has known about it already. What the eye doesnt see, the heart doesnt crave.
How on earth do u expect the guy to behave to her? Accept her back and pretend all is well?
Personally, thats the last straw. She should have consider the dire consequences of her actions.
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uche_uche (m)
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bola, u sure na ur friend abi na u them catch wey dey chop another guy sugar stick. talk true make we know hw we go take help u. bt seriously, she or u (whichever is d case) no tell tell us which style them or una dey do when dey catch una. anyway sha, notin spoil, them dey talk say sharpman no be thief, na if them catch am na I'm e don become thief. but all this nairalanders when una yan like this, if any of u knows that he's without such a sin let him or her cast d first stone. ciao
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jamie0
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I wish you good luck!
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wakagirl
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''Wonder they say shall never end! Sleeping with another man because of money? What an excuse.''
What's the wonder? u mean you have never heard of that? Haba be real man!
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Bblak (f)
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What a disgrace to womanhood 
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sod4luv (m)
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Eyah! she no play her games well, wht a pity.
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groove
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Guy u have not told the whole story. I'm sure ur friend has always been a proffessional whore, only luck ran out on her and she was caught. Its obvious her guy loves her so much for still keeping her. Tell ur whore friend not to leave the guy because its only natural that he doesnt show her love as he used to. It will take some time for things to get back to normal. But if she doesn't have the patience to wait, then i guess its just that lose attitude again. Then she is not worth it afterall
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groove
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Guy u have not told the whole story. I'm sure ur friend has always been a proffessional whore, only luck ran out on her and she was caught. Its obvious her guy loves her so much for still keeping her. Tell ur whore friend not to leave the guy because its only natural that he doesnt show her love as he used to. It will take some time for things to get back to normal. But if she doesn't have the patience to wait, then i guess its just that lose attitude again. Then she is not worth it afterall
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rachiwise (f)
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@wakagirl thanks for ur candid piece. @topic though i don't believe in promiscuity or double dating,but at least if u have to do anything like that to survive,don't get caught. I believe anyone(man or woman) caught in the act,should be kicked in the butt out of the door.or made to suffer and sober up before acceptance(if there will be any  ). |
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dagashini
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did he shoot you?go back to him and tell him to shoot you.
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kerenti (m)
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wakagirl, you be waka girl true true,you sound very stupid?Are you sure you are matured? You think you are giving this person the right advice?Maybe i should ask you two questions, if you were to be a man,would you find a woman to pay you for having sex with her? Won't you struggle hard for yourself to excel?I don't care if you have slept with 30 men before i met you but for Christ sake,let it be one man at a time!So,you think you can never be successful without that man that sent you to school?What a shallow thought.Please,if you are morally rotten,stop corrupting other people that still have the chance to live a good life
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$ammy (m)
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The boyfriend even tried to have forgiven her
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oyekhanmmy
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what goes around coms around.why she dey do that
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wakagirl
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@ kerenti
thanks for that, if only every female here can be truthful then you sure will not believe what you are reading. You sure did not get me well, i had to go to school asked people in my church to help and three people who were meant to be my pastor, teacher and senior pastor attempted sleeping with me to support me i refused, i managed to buy jamb form myself and passed but i didnt even have money for accomodation i had a boyfriend who could barely provide for himself. I know this man who is a friend's uncle and i told him my hardship, he offered to help me without any condition like my church people and he gave me all the money i needed to start with, i was actually able to give my mum some and lied to her that i worked for someone, he provided for all i needed and about a year into that he made attempt to sleep with me and at that point i could not resist it i was thinking of how i could go through school.
How hard can you try in Nigeria as a poor girl with no one to help? You are entitiled to your opinion but that was the truth of what happened to me and i can boldly tell you that only these two people ever slept with me in my whole life, definitely unlike your girlfriend who will never tell you the truth just like i can not tell mine, how people like to be deceived!
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weebee (f)
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Na wa o! How could she now? And for what money?  If she had told me she fell in love with the other guy and could not help it i would have pitied her a little . Anyway the deed has been done and can never be undone. So my advise for her is to simply quit the relationship ASAP because the boyfriend may not likely trust her again. Ok girl friend it is well just try to be a good girl in your next relationship and don't double date let alone , another man. |
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kerenti (m)
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@wakagirl
Don't take this personal,I'm just trying to correct you/face the fact.Sure,everybody is entitled to his/her own opinion.But you know what I think is making you talk like this?GUILTY CONSCIENCE.You know you did something similar to what almost everybody agrees to be totally bad and you are trying to justify yourself.Like what my dad says "what is bad is bad and there is no other name for it". I still hold on to the point that I have seen so many people that suffered in life before making it and so many people that did not suffer and couldn't make it at the end.Determination is the key.I totally agree it's not that easy(I've been through it) but you can make it nevertheless.WILL YOU HAVE THAT CHANCE IF YOU WERE TO BE A MAN?
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adewex (m)
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Those are the reasons u need to fear the ladies, when they are with you they are yours, oboy if dey leave your side, Make u na fear fear
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wendymanda
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I guess it's his fault because if he knew she needed money and was too lazy to do regular job he should have helped her. Maybe laying on her back comes easy for her.
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hannydarl (f)
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why are men crying foul now? afterall they sleep with other women even when they are in serious relationships or even married they do it just for the sake of variety and they still expect their women to feel lucky that after they go obo hunting they still come back to them they say no matter howmany things they lick it doesnt change the fact that they still love their women so why is it hard for men to believe that though she did the other guy for the money she still loves her man? what ever is good for the goose is also good for the gander if I'm no wan do again he has the right to leave so she too can find her level thats all i can say.
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onmyown (m)
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ive always belived that the ladies want a three pack - someone with the dough: someone they love and is romantic: and the guy who knows his way around the port premises and environs very well. some are lucky and they get it in one guy. some others get to have them in different people.
the story about loving the guy and shagging another for the money is a test case scenario.
by the way this theory was given to me by my elder brother when i was sixteen. how true have i found it over the years? very close to true.
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onmyown (m)
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ive always belived that the ladies want a three pack - someone with the dough: someone they love and is romantic: and the guy who knows his way around the port premises and environs very well. some are lucky and they get it in one guy. some others get to have them in different people.
the story about loving the guy and shagging another for the money is a test case scenario.
by the way this theory was given to me by my elder brother when i was sixteen. how true have i found it over the years? very close to true.
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sammyjl (f)
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 Its never going to be the same, she can just hope he learns to love her like before, but its not going to be the same. If they reconcile, he might just do what she did to him because the worst part of all this is that the guy saw for himself, he didnt hear this from anyone.
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deevuu
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well, i think u did what u had to do to get what u wanted, because u wanted it, and in life we make choices and those choices affect us for the rest of our lives, u chose to sleep with someone else and God so kind u were caught, its ur choice and u av to live by it, so don't think ur boyfriend will love u like before, it aint possible sis, tins like that can be forgiven but can never be forgotten, be wise find yourself another guy, and next time act smart,
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Orikinla (m)
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What if she contracted STDs whilst doing it for money.
What a lame duck excuse.
She would do it again if another good bidder comes along?
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wakagirl
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@wakagirl
Don't take this personal,I'm just trying to correct you/face the fact.Sure,everybody is entitled to his/her own opinion.But you know what I think is making you talk like this?GUILTY CONSCIENCE.You know you did something similar to what almost everybody agrees to be totally bad and you are trying to justify yourself.Like what my dad says "what is bad is bad and there is no other name for it". I still hold on to the point that I have seen so many people that suffered in life before making it and so many people that did not suffer and couldn't make it at the end.Determination is the key.I totally agree it's not that easy(I've been through it) but you can make it nevertheless.WILL YOU HAVE THAT CHANCE IF YOU WERE TO BE A MAN?
my dear you are very correct, i never liked having to do it as a matter of fact, those times were not less worst than tying your face while someone you don't have any feelings for is kissing you. I wish in those days i was born to my friend's family who were very rich and didnt need to do that to survive. BUT funny enough some of the girls in school did worst than that even though they lacked nothing from their parents. I had a couse mate who happens to be a daughter to Sh, as ( anyone who schooled in OSU will be able to complete the name, one of the big names in Ijebu Igbo), she lacked nothing but i was an angel compared to her.
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wakagirl
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''why are men crying foul now? afterall they sleep with other women even when they are in serious relationships or even married they do it just for the sake of variety and they still expect their women to feel lucky that after they go obo hunting they still come back to them they say no matter howmany things they lick it doesnt change the fact that they still love their women so why is it hard for men to believe that though she did the other guy for the money she still loves her man? what ever is good for the goose is also good for the gander if I'm no wan do again he has the right to leave so she too can find her level thats all i can say.''
That's the point. I caught him twice while in school and caught him once after our wedding. What did i do? Listen to the sorry story and forgive him but it would have been the other way round if he was the one who caught me.
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bluehorizo (m)
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You Are Doomed!
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omobizle (m)
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that girl is a whore no doubt, very lame excuse.sleepin with a man for his money when she has a boyfriend.stick to one of the option babe.ur boyfriend or uncles,  .if i was the guy il leave straight up |
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theboy0808 (m)
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that girl is a whore no doubt, very lame excuse.sleepin with a man for his money when she has a boyfriend.stick to one of the option babe.your boyfriend or uncles, .if i was the guy il leave straight up Word! |
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uspry1 (f)
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@poster
That girl is a whore and two-timer to her boyfriend! No question about it!
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