How to Attract Your Kind Of Man (for ladies)

You won’t believe it, but every woman has the in-built ability to get any man she wants.  But it is so sad that too many women just settle for any thing that comes their way or nothing at all. If you do decide to get married, it should happen.You don’t have to be embarrassed, pressured and feel useless because you are not married.

Your good qualities should be more than physical beauty.  Inner beauty is a meek and quiet spirit - You are not threatening those around you, you do not compete, you don’t demand your rights, and get your way all the time. Meekness is not weakness.  It is strength under control.

Most women re their own problem. They don’t act right, look good, and are very greedy. Some women are naturally gorgeous. But majority have to make an effort. Men are sight motivated. Your looks will attract him before he gets closer to know the real you. Some men might watch and study a woman for years without her knowing before finally making any move.There are 2 kinds of attitude.

One attitude says "here I am."    (the focus is on "Me.")

The other says "here you are." ( the focus is on others.)

Which one are you? Many men are thrown off by the here I am woman. She is good for a fling, but not good enough to be a wife.
In your entertainment and social life, watch what feeds your mind. You find out that the most useless men are the ones you find in most useless places. If you're sure your circle of friends are good people. A good man will locate you.

Here re tips on what women do to put off a man.

To attract a husband, you must have the qualities of a wife & be able to submit. Men don’t like aggressive and domineering women. For some women, every man that shows a little interest, they see as a potential husband. That will scare any man away. even if you like a man, At that stage of the relationship, don’t show it. Be smart.
secret.  If you treat all men you meet as a brother and a friend, you will win the heart of some man.and he will begin to imagine you as wife.

Some women are just so talkative. They talk a mile a minute. You will always get into trouble if you talk too much and anyhow.  If a man is interested in you, and you act nice, but not interested, believe me, you got him.
All men love challenges.  It is that lovely well behaved woman, that everyone says is hard to get, that most men will go all out to try to get.  Men I lie?

I believe there's a difference between the kind of girl one would want to marry, and the kind of girl one would want to have fun with..

If you can get both in the same place [or in the same person rather].. then you are blessed for life... 

Not every girl would a guy want to "take home to mama"... [if u get my drift.. ]

Very true.  For example, I'm the kind of person that simply doesn't appreciate the 'hard-to-get' game.  I believe that if a lady wants a relationship she should go for it, otherwise she should simply say "I don't know, ask me again next month" if she's not sure or "no" if she's sure she absolutely doesn't want you.  I find the idea that you should say "no" when you really mean "yes" absolutely ridiculous!

Attracting you man in any outlined procedures read in a book or gotten by any means either as an item of advice from a friend or as a calculated procedures in your mind will make you, the lady, appear as a babe material to the man and not a wife material

He would simply say "this lady is in her heat period. If I were not available any other man, his social disposition not a factor, would have done it for her. But I am lucky to be around, she is a notorious flirt after all."

And he will not remember such a lady when he considers the issue eof getting a wife.

So, let's dance to the rhythm of the drum in relationship matters.

If not he will assume the lady is crazy dancing off rhythm

humm, sounds good.  But I still think it's better everyone should be themselves. One man's food is another man's poison. There are no rules in relationships...except if you are playing games.


uhmm Uncle jogego. Taye diggs Isn't in "two can play that game." It was Morris Chestnut and Vivica A. Fox.

Uncle Jogego.. It's all good. 

Pinky sorry to say not all men like hard to get girls. In fact u could see some guys who get pissed off by a girls excessive hard to get game and go after her continuosly just to punish her afterward 4 putting them through much stress . Life does not follow one particular pattern. What one guy is crazy about is a complete turn off 4 others.

@sage trust me most men like girls that play hard to get.. but of course there is a limit.. that is why i said that you have to be smart about it

SO what after 3 months or 6 months she hasnt melted, are you saying, you will continue? What is the longest time, you have chased a babe?

i cld prbly have said me sexy legs but wrong. he has not seen me before so i would say me lovely personality .

 the legs are sexy though.....

Hey, why hasn't anyone asked pinky if she belongs to the category of the hard to get? 

Play am small small and cool too 

i am here to answer all ya questions. i don't intentionally play hard to get.... at times the approach of a guy makes me play hard to get {not very hard} & there re times i will do it unintenitonally, but then, when it comes to playing hard to get for some thingies {like kisses hmn mnn} am a PRO
u need to see how guys become babies when am playing hard to get.. it's fun for me tho

kazey, When it's official, i can't deny him..wont i look stupid doing that?? when i say i play hard to get in some thingies, am talking about the wee {early}times of the relationship i.e when the courting process is still on. have i answered your question?

Hum? Must must you play it hard? Setting boundaries is not playing it hard? It is......................

haha.......Kazey if i were u, will take the back seat immediately.