Nigerian Babes And Flowers

flowers = romance and the women love romance :-)  even Nigerian ones.

however, basic needs like food and shelter are more important when absent.

when dating a hustler or someone who isnt loaded, you have to demonstrate your ability to feed, clothe and shelter before you start acting all romantic.

remember, they don't complain about your lack of romance until they have actually given u face beforehand.

in short thy appreciate flowers but they would prefer to recieve them on a full stomach!

dakmanzero,
if you follow the posts so far, you will realize that this mathematical equation doesn't apply to 'all' naija babes. . . . _{just peeped in though}

I don't mind flowers at all, i think they are lovely, but the shouldnt be only thing the guy should have to  offer sha, some koole and chopee would also be nice 

This topic still dey here???

Must we copy evrything the Westerners do???

Flower ko

Bush ni!

now am confused

chicks don't like flowers


i had invested so much money

buying roses and hoping to get it sold

it seems hungry babes don't dig flowers. hedge your bets and sell some jolof on the side.

ideosyncrasies-that is all it is. different people like diffrnt things and so, mr. man, find what your g/f likes.



   but i want  to believ that, the whitie wu like and cherish flowers is not just because of the color, or the scents that re dabbed on em, but they tend to cherish flowers because, its a one of those things that re simple{cheap} that does not suggest to the lady that u re buying her 'affection out' wit expensiv stuffs and what nots. i think that is what -the flower tin signifies to the whites and western people alike. its a bunch of biutifl,simple and cheap garden in a wrapper that shows affection, it shows-"hia baby, this symbolises ow biutiful u re,u shine and glow ich time i c u and as biutiful and radiant as u re, yet so simple and down to earth" that is what i feel flowers symbolise to them.

  but come to Nigeria and u discova- that flowers cost so much, even more dan jewelry and that even removes the real essence of the 'flower givin' art. heck i cld buy a luvly gold pendant for 8k dan buy a bunch of fresh flowers for 15k, i could buy a bag of simple tins-cocktail mix of so many lady-like tins for a naija girl and she would appreciate it more dan a bunch of flowers and yet twill not cost me so much.
   i was into this lady sometime ago and i bot a cocktail mix of so many tins, from scarfs to lingeries to hair clippers to beads and wrist bands and a customised underwear and all this di not cost me mur dan 10k and i bet she luvd them mur dan if i had given her a bunch of reds.

     itumo?

the itumo hia is that, flowers represent thse kind of sweet notins to the average westerner,shows u went out of your way to express your affection through this token that doesnt suggest ure buyin her ova and that is what we should emulate hia in Niaja too- if u really crave flowers, y not a bunch of fresh hibiscus[used for sobo drink ]just kiddin, but u get d point- its not just flowers, its what the flowers represent

conclusion!

flower givin in Naija does not represent such affection to us in Naija, heck we cldnt afford it anyway if we wanted to- unless u want lemon grass or hisbiscus flower or the local fly infested bunchs!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nice 1 @Predi

I must say that this is interesting

sorry @ariblaze for all your investment
may be you should consult nairlanders next time before you invest

but come on
this thing tire me oooo

how come almost all the babes don't like flower

so wetin una want?

money as earlier pointed out is not everything and only few babes want cards

guys make una take note ooooo

may be we should start a new topic, WHAT DO LADIES WANT from their guys (apart from money)

AND MAY BE WHAT GUYS WANT FROM LADIES (apart from their bodies)

ndubest, this is the one million dollar question that runs in the minds of almost every guy that is out to impress his babe, and at the end most times, all the effort put in will just be laughed at? abeg let the babes answer oh? so wetin una want??
_{another peeping in}

There are many Nigerian girls that like flowers.
I love flowers as gifts.
They don't end up in the trash.

I put them in a beautiful vase with water and flower food in my kitchen and when they dry up,I pluck out the dry flowers,put them in a jar as pot pourri.

I think a gift of flowers are so romantic,especially when delivered at work on valentines day with a  message on a card that simply reads

                          because, I love you

That is absolutely romantic


and when he adds a box of fine gourmet chocolate
mmm,mmm,mmm.
even almondjoy will melt

Igbo men and soup with stockfish lol
The thing is like a curse.
go to a restaurant and eat fine oyibo meal,come home and 1 hour later,he wants to eat semo.
I think some of them may go into withdrawal symptoms if denied "swallow"

Eba romance!
Whatever works my sister.
They say there are no rules in real love.
Whatever works for Mr Almond
If he wants eba,give him eba.
roll the balls dip it in his soup and place it romantically on his tongue
If that doubles the pocket money.

We woman have to be smart you know.
Study the man well well and find his likes.
give it to him and he'll become jelly in your bare hands.
Men are not that complicated
some women are just not smart enough to take time and study them.

@ariblaze
poor unfortunate businessman. keep them in a greenhouse till february 10 2008. you will exhaust it then

@predi
you no well o!!! ^{see as your talk carry me troway for ground dey roll too yakata}

@topic
we have all heard it. de babes them say them like am but them no want am as number 1,2 or even 3 for that matter. if you must buy flower, make sure you have already bought chocolates, jewellery (almondjoy's recommendations, and perfume too!!! magana yakare. shikenan!!!

Retarded almondjoy has spoken

why is everyone calling me poor

i ended up selling all my flowers to ufobabe