I'm 27, She's 16: Should I Disvirgin Her?

please don't do it.she 's still a minor.

why not wait for like say 4 - 5 years time? if you really love her you should be able to wait.
what of if she is your junior sister nko.

"if u don't do it sumone else will do it"

so a 16 year old girl's pum-pum has become a playstaion??

hotta faya on all u peadophiles, R Kelly type modafukkas, what kind of sik thot is that???
what makes your dik rise in a 16 year old, u no dey shame
hold your dik ! get broads your age
ans all the idiots sponsoring that shyt. . . . bullet !

God bless u my dear. Guy u no dey shame a 16 year old girl that u are meant to take as your sister. 11 years older than her, habaaaaaaaaa. if i go out with someone 11 years older than i am, he beta be a brother than be one that ones me to turn into his sex machine. 


Thunder fire u.

infact seun isnt this really disgusting 27 against 16 isnt that child abuse?

Daz bad if u try it because u hv got gals within u.r age bracket and if i,m right u have dated them because from all indications u,r not a virgin so why would u say that? I think daz why people say there r much gals in the world than guys because when u were within that age u would hv dated gals of u.r age and dumped them. when u dump them and go for sweet 16 whom do u want to marry them. please if must do that i think you're old enough to get married so why dnt u marry her and disvirgin her after u.r wedding day.

Hii poster

  Is a pity that most of lander members respond to questions without having an indept knowledge or not looking at the rudiments of the story.
 
Dont respond because you want to say something,You must not contribute especially when you don't have any reasonable contribution.Do not response based on your sate of mind at the moments,is goes a long way displaying your wisdom.

Have u ever asked Landers whats the age differnce between their mum and  Dad,people are opening their mouth saying Child abuse and all sort of things.
Poster, what you have to do is to wait like she is 20yrs,if you really like her and she does may be she will wait,but have it in mind that someone else might do it for you but be optimistic.Just give her sometime, when she will not be too naive and gullible of her actions.

Just take it easy, just try and configure her they way u want now that she is bendable.


Engr Kelvin

I guess you are confused right ,do not do it.

my guy your d type makin things hard 4 we teenagerz i c d reason y i av gotten a girl in my age range if an adult like u goes out with a girl that should b your  nephew galfriend. Please wake up come 2 reality. Go luk 4 a girl at least 22yrz nd leav d poor girl alöne plz

I try not to respond to threads like this so no one will say i am a shameless old man (and for 37, i do sometimes feel old), but really someone here in this forum said that we all act like saints, and we sometimes are unneccessarily critical,

so what if the girl is 16? most of us made the university at 15, had our first sex at way younger, agreed mostly to our mates or slight older or younger depending on your gender. And sorry to burst your bubble, most 16 year olds these days are not naive (anywhere in the world). Far from it, i think that went with last century.

But to tell the man to look for someone his age, i find that funny, I probably wont do a 16 year old because they are mostly not emotionally matured for me, however, quite a few of them are, and if this 16 year old is, then i have no problem with the guy wanting to make love to her. What are we against? The fact that the girl is 16, or the fact that the guy is 11 years older than her? I think we all just feel scandalized because we are mostly so old, so we see 16 as so young,

27 and 16, 31 and 20, 45 and 34, what about ojukwu and bianca? And we talk like someone making love to another one (even if she is younger) is such a terrible thing,

@poster
If you feel she can handle it, go ahead and do what comes naturally, otherwise, apply the brakes, you don't some emotionally challenged youngster to be spoiling matter for you in the future,

@every other person
crucify him, crucify him!!! i guess that's what i will get from now on, but hey, its okay.

A 27 year old man does not have any business with a 16 year old girl, just think about it, have you ever heard a 16 year old being referred to as a woman. why would you want to sleep with a a child, there are many adults out there looking for men. How would you feel if some 27 year old guy messed with your 16 year old sister or daughter.

  Dude if you were in the US, you would be charged with Statutory rape!!!, please for your own good and that of the girl, end this so called relationship before it gets you into trouble,

Uche2nna,

Agree with most of your points, The only difference is in the nature of our generalisation. We agree that most 16 year olds have sex. And that they do it because they think they are in love. Some of them also do it for the heck of it.

If I have a sixteen year old, i am going to some day, i will really not want her to be slept with by anyone, in fact one of the things I must learn to come to terms with as a father of a girl is to imagine ANYBODY sleeping with my daughter, in and out of marriage, i still shudder when i think about it, lol, but then again, you don't have a choice in that matter.

- a 27 year old guy and a 16 year girl is a no no (i mostly was playing the devils advocate), its really taking advantage of the girl, most of the time.

- However, we all tend to just jump into the rivers of discuss with generalisations that doesnt quite cut it. And thats the point I tried to push.

- And in my opinion, there is no difference between 16 and 18, so for all of you who are asking the guy to wait till 18, maybe you are just trying to avoid a statutory rape jail term, because an 18 year is not a lot different from a sixteen in terms of naivety, or social and psychological difference.

LETS SAY  SOMEBODY ASK YOU THIS TYPE OF QUESTION WHAT WILL BE YOUR RESPOND MA GUY. IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS GIRL THEN YOU MUST KNOW THAT SHE IS A SMALL GIRLD.DON'T EVEN TRY TO START THIS.

hmmm i wonder y we r still answering this question the question was asked nov last year, the guy has probably done what he wanted to do anyway,

Maybe you don't know Nigeria has a law against cradle snatching. If your something is scratching you let go of her and go in search of your match. Better still seek the consent of her parents to marry her, abi? I wonder what advice you'd give to your 27 year old in a relationship with a teenager.