I'm Married But I Need A Male Friend

I MAY LIKE YOU BUT GOD LIKES U MOST, I MAY LOVE YOU BUT GOD LOVES MOST. U MUST UNDERSTAND THAT MARRIAGE HAS A LOT OF UPS AND DOWNS, SO YOU MUST BUT THE CLOTHING CALLED PATIENCE AND GLUE YOURSELF TO IT AT ALL TIMES. IF U INSIST ON HAVING A MALE FRIEND. HERE IS MA CONTACT. jonnycool005@yahoo.co.uk 07035287603
BUT U MUST KNOW FOR REAL THA I AM A BORN AGAIN CHILD OF GOD WHO NEITHER FLIRT NOR WOMANISE.
MAY GOD BE WITH YOU AND CAUSE UR HUSBAND TO CHANGE FOR GOOD

MYOMY
I want you to take note that  relationship with persons of the oposite sex most time leads to intimacy and sex.
You may have a good intention as first but as time goes on you friendship with the guy will become stronger and may draw you two closer  and will eventually lead to sexual intimacy.

If you want a friend and not  to satisfy your sexual desires if any, you may want to pick a female friend instead.
Wish you all The best.

divorce the mfucker 

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i think u shld go and repair ur home while u also luk up 2 God 2 change d situation.going for a male friend/sex partner is not d solution. thats my take on it anyway.cheers

ewwww

i do rather advised that u try and brace up maybe change ur wardrope, get smart and neat and make yourself sexier  i think ur husband will come back to u, having a male friend and thinking u wont flirt with him is a great lie, so since u want to remain chaste better forget about male friend as they will do u no good.

What is this world turning into?
I don't want to believe that all these guys droping numbers and mail id's are actually willing to get it on with a married woman.
look at that one that looks like a zoo escapee even posting his pic

To the original poster:

This is an old thread but let me say one thing.  I was once in your situation and my husband was shamelessly carrying on an affair.  I was a born again Christian wife who withheld nothing from her husband.  I submitted to him and attended all his needs as I was aware of them.  He did not want that type of life.  He found another lady and wanted the good wife at home and the hell cat in the street.  I fasted and prayed for 1 year and God gave me a friend, a female friend, who was going through a similar situation.  We studied the bible together, sought the face of God together and were one another's shoulder to cry on.  You know what, neither marriage survived.  She has remarried a wonderful man and is very happy.  Her former husband is a wreck.  My marriage ended in divorce as well and I prospered spiritually and physically.  My exhusband married the woman he had an affair with and had 2 children.  Well, the lady got on cocaine and has had numerous affairs in their marriage.  My exhusband is reaping what he sowed.

I did not discuss the marriage closely with other men.  There were plenty of men interested in me.  One pursued me diligently but I could never respond favorably to him because I was a married lady.  I would tell the Lord all the time:  "God, if I did not enter this marriage according to your will and if I was in error, please at least let me leave it as you would have me leave."  My husband left me.  I was freed from my bondage.  God truly blessed my life for all the hurt and pain.  Do not curse yourself.  Your desire to have a male friend is understandable.  You want the affirmation of a man because your husband has withheld it from you.  But, do not be deceived!  You are setting the stage for you to act out your true desires.  You want to be loved.  There is no shame in that but do not break your marriage vows, and do not make life convenient for it to "just happen."

Seek Godly wisdom.  God will not fail you.  Pray and ask God to forgive your husband, forgive the other women, and to forgive yourself.  I prayed all the time whenever the affair came across my mind for forgiveness to us all, but most of all I prayed that I not be bitter after it because I have seen so many women ruined by bitterness.  I hope this season has passed u by now, but if it has not, please consider my words.  And if there are any other similarly situated men or women, please do likewise.  It is so much better to try to do right in the beginning than to repent in the end.

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