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Grizzly (m)
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This question is aimed at the guys. Well i don't really know what sparked it off, but i suddenly found myself arguing with ma three sistaz bout this topic. I wuz like i will break his bones for him, and they were like they don't want nobody interferring with they family issues. what would u do, placed in that position. it sickens me to even think of anything else  |
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hot-angel (f)
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As a girl, if my sisters husband beats her alot, i won't beat him of course, i'll talk to my sister. If she needs help, i'll get one for her. so many ways to handle a useless man. But if my sister seems not to want any help. Well what can i say? She doesn't want any help.
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Okay did i just Type that? I mean I'll Hire area boys to go beat the hell out of him. Talk some sense to his head and show him how it is when you get beaten.
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Grizzly (m)
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Jeesus!  Ok i'm laughing hard. u won. Area boys is a sexy idea. |
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Seun (m)
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I don't know what I'D do, but one thing is clear: he'll get his bones broken and he'll spend some time in jail for battery and assault. |
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mamaput (f)
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And wile the old man is there with his broken bones and in jail.
Who will be bringing in the money.
Anyone going that far should also be ready to carry the sister with all her baggage to their house first.
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Seun (m)
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My sister is not going to be a poor helpless lady who needs an abusive husband to provide for her material needs. Her going to school is not for nothing. I have no intention of being a poor man; I'll be capable of supporting 10 sisters if necesary, while their abusive husbands are busy facing trial. Some women are too masochistic. |
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mamaput (f)
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I have seen so many women who stay with their abusive husband .
Its not that easy to just go.
What if the man is good to the kids?
Am not saying the woman should stay, but these kids will grow and will want to know why the dad was in jail.
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2cantango (f)
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My sister was in a relationship with a jerk who beat her a lot. I tried many times to convince her she didn't have to stay with him, but she wouldn't listen. Then one night I get a call in the middle of the night from her, begging me to come and get her. When I got there the place was trashed, he'D gone totally insane. Her face was swollen with bruises already, and her nose was broken. Our other sister helped me to pack some things for her, and we were hoping to be out of there before he got back. Unfortunately he came back before we'D left because my sister was starting to have doubts about whether she should leave. Trying to convince us that she'D deserved the beating It got very messy, he was swinging his fists at all of us. Thankfully a neighbour called the police and they soon sorted him out. She never had him charged, she stayed with me for a few weeks and then went back to him That was a few years ago, and she has since found the strength to leave him and move on. Sadly, no matter what you do, or how much you want to protect someone, it's ultimately their decision, and they will do whatever they feel is right. @mamaput: better to have the kids ask why Dad's in jail, than to have them grow up watching their Mum being beaten to a pulp. |
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baby4u2 (f)
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@2cantango. i wonder why she was living with him when they where not married in the first place? anyway its not important. one thing that strikes me though is that some men grow up with abusive fathers and hate the way he treats their mum. but some end up being abusive themselve!! putting a negative experience into practice. then again i wonder why some women/ladies/girl are so annoying/irritating/nagging (i don't have enough words) they drive men to beat them, making me even want to beat them also? both parties need to check themselves. i know married peoples business should be left for them to sort out themselves, hmmmm, i no go mind my business when it comes to any of my family members. me self i go join beat or better steal hire to beat. so since am not married yet i pray for God's gift to me and definetly he wont be a woman beater.
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sade511 (f)
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If my sister was in an abusive relationship and I found out. . . OOOOOO all hell would break loose.
AAA that man would know that blood is thicker than water. I would straight up go crazy and do something I'll regret cause mehn my sister is so important to me. And if she tries to go back to him I don't think I'll be able to talk to her again.
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chinani (f)
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I'D poison him.
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mochafella (m)
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I'D poison him.
yikes, remind me to stay on your good side.  |
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