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skysunny (m)
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Hello my fellow nairalanders
well am new to this site and i realy need some advice on what is happening to me i met this girl 7 years ago and we ve been together till update she is good and fun loveing to be with i intend on marrying this girl and i ve never asked her for sex becouse i want to have my first sex with her on our wedding night and this is what i have promised my self due to the fact that i was not brought up in a weyward way so i want to do it special with her but the problem now is that she wants me to have sex with her and she have been giving me such body language but i always ignore her and its becoming too much and unbearable for me i don't know what to do.
should i should i broke my promise and have sex with her or should i still waite till my wedding night?
guys/girls i really need ur help and advice
what do i do.
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kerzakov (m)
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dear, am not trying to be hard on you but your spellings should be worked on. as for the girl, i praise you for not falling till now. if you want to remain upright then flee from youthful lust. the only way you can do that is by dumping her. period. no hard feelings
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RED DEVILS (m)
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O boy you you dey mess up. Bring am make am mess am for you. To be serious if you don"t mess her she will seek it somewhere else. 96% of girls are no longer virgin> even i you dump her your next girl will also want you to mess her you can"t escape it
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gabe_logan (m)
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guy u better test what u want to marry oh so that you would not regret it when u carry her home oh!
make sure u test her
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c33b33 (m)
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If she wasn't giving u body language since but recently, u better watch out if she's pregnant before u do!
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topup
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dear, am not trying to be hard on you but your spellings should be worked on. as for the girl, i praise you for not falling till now. if you want to remain upright then flee from youthful lust. the only way you can do that is by dumping her. period. no hard feelings
Very very extreme advice, so he should dump the girl after 7 years of a loving relationship??? LOL!
Anyways, just talk to her, do not be afraid to share you deepest feelings with this 'girl' you are thinking about getting married to her after all.
I read a post about the possibility of her being pregnant before, I pray to God that that is NOT the case here.
I don't know, maybe she is just trying to see if you are attracted to her after all these years of not 'touching' her.
There are so many reasons, but just take it slow, I know you've been doing this for 7 years, but the 'truth will out', also talk to her, find out for yourself, we can't tell you what's on her mind. |
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HR.hotness (f)
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I am a firm advocate of sex befor marriage. . . as the saying goes
Try before you Buy!
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first_lady (f)
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skysunny
don't mind what they are saying. All you need is to see some one that can counsel you . Or the both of you should see a pastor or Priest for counselling.
Good luck.
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Having spent 7 years with her and never went to bed with her is comendable. I will advise, just like one of the posters said that you really need to sit her down and talk to her, sometimes ladies need to be assured that that they are loved. she may be feeling insecured and feels that your taking her to bed will make her more secured Tell her that you still love but that this the vow you have taken, let her understand that.
Best of luck
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chamotex (m)
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Hello my fellow nairalanders
well am new to this site and i realy need some advice on what is happening to me i met this girl 7 years ago and we ve been together till update she is good and fun loveing to be with i intend on marrying this girl and i ve never asked her for sex becouse i want to have my first sex with her on our wedding night and this is what i have promised my self due to the fact that i was not brought up in a weyward way so i want to do it special with her but the problem now is that she wants me to have sex with her and she have been giving me such body language but i always ignore her and its becoming too much and unbearable for me i don't know what to do.
should i should i broke my promise and have sex with her or should i still waite till my wedding night?
guys/girls i really need your help and advice
what do i do.
broke the promise jare and also broke anything brokable   |
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buttkick
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beware, a few things could be happening:
she may just have realised what she is missing and wants it from you this time around
she may have gotten pregnant and needs to dump it on you
she may be at hedge of giving it to someone else who is mounting the pressure and needs to be relieved by you
you may just be the one to open the dam for the watershed to flow
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lexicon (m)
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Question: Is the girl a virgin girl ?
Answer:YES. then talk to her the implications there and let her know that once a soldier is always a soldier(once debe, always debe) and do you finding to be sure that she has not done it elsewhere
Answer: NO , f**c her or let her go
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todan (m)
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i think i support kerzakov on the issue of spelling, don't ever do that again. did you say sorry,oh no prob. concerning your girl, do what ever your heart tells u. left to me i don't really trust nigeria girls when it comes to holding their body for long, if u can't do it, someone else will help u out.
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