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tyboy
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nairaland help me , she want me to disvirgin her but am scared
am 25 in my final year , she is 23 also an undergratuate.
i don't want to put her in the family way yet and even i don't want to
disvirgin her because i don't know if i will eventually get married to her
but i still love her, and also do she.
what do i do
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OyinboNo1 (m)
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you are scared? lol
what have you got to lose? if she's up for it why not? wear a condom.
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tosinadeda (m)
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Follow ur mind my guy
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ufobabe (f)
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ladies are dangerous.
who knows! maybe she wants 2 trap u.
guy! be careful. DON'T DO IT.
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Siena
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nairaland help me , she want me to disvirgin her but am scared
am 25 in my final year , she is 23 also an undergratuate.
i don't want to put her in the family way yet and even i don't want to
disvirgin her because i don't know if i will eventually get married to her
but i still love her, and also do she.
what do i do
You're a refreshing change! Good to see a guy actually thinking about his girlfriend for a change.
From what you say, you're pretty responsible, and have her best interests at heart. I think you both need to take stock, I don't doubt you care for her a great deal, and she feels the same way, but I feel she's trying to push you into something you're not prepared for.
You're both still young, I'd at least graduate first, remain friends, and who knows? You might still feel the same way in a year or 2 (I'm not sure what year she's in) it may be ok to take things further. Whatever happens now, will affect both your lives in the future. At least once you've graduated, and decided what you want to do work wise, the picture will be a lot clearer.
Good luck!
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j-girl (f)
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tell her to wait. At least we thank God for your kind. While some others are trying to disvirgin 16 year-olds. Hissssssssssss!
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klassyguy (m)
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Try and talk her out of it, give her reasons why you don't want to do it, and if she's still adamant, like someone said earlier, shut ur trap and wear a condom. period.
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crazykid (m)
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nairaland help me , she want me to disvirgin her but am scared
am 25 in my final year , she is 23 also an undergratuate.
i don't want to put her in the family way yet and even i don't want to
disvirgin her because i don't know if i will eventually get married to her
but i still love her, and also do she.
what do i do You claim to love her and also she loves you; yet you don’t know if you would eventually marry her. Sounds more like a joke. If you really love her and trust her, then wait until you’re financially stable and man enough to take up and responsibilities that you may encounter. |
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babson2b4 (m)
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guy, I think klassyguy is right, I support his idea,
Try and talk her out of it, give her reasons why you don't want to do it, and if she's still adamant, like someone said earlier, shut your trap and wear a condom. period.
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Idera .N (f)
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FOLLOW YOUR MIND, IF SHE IS STILL ADAMANT ABOUT IT, THEN LET HER GO!!! it's not by force and since you are in your final year, take things easy so nobody will spoil your future. ciao  |
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kkycee (m)
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guy see if she wants you to do it that means she likes you .see do with precaution.
if she knows herself well she will not be pregnant.
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ozigbo (m)
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fire down end of story men.
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tkb417 (m)
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guy! be careful. DON'T DO IT do it |
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agbonax (m)
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 doitdoitdoitdoitdoitdoitdoitodoitdoitdoitoditdoitdoitdoitdoi tdoitdoitdoitdoitdoitdoitdoit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If u don't, u'll look back and probably regret it, trust me on that, i know,
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cybersleek (m)
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Like Nike says' just do it! a trial will surely convince you.
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akeye (f)
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na wa 4 all of una
when girl no gree una go complain
now ur chic dey ask 4 and u dey waste time
beta give her what she wants lol (just kidding)
just do what ever u feel like doing
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lamidebaby (f)
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@topic
then don't do it. Period.
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Ralvy (m)
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ladies are dangerous.
who knows! maybe she wants 2 trap u.
guy! be careful. DON'T DO IT.
I agree with that! |
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wakagirl
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Ask her why she want to do it, why will a virgin girl be begging to be disvirgined, she may have a different agenda so try and use your head. I did that when i got a man who was to sponsor me in the university and he wants to be sleeping with me, at the time i had no choice he was the only one who could assist me to accomplish my aim of being a graduate and i was a virgin then and had a boyfriend who know i was virgin, i had to make him (my b/f) sleep with me so i could give way for my 'sponsor'. I could not bear the man disvirgining me and i need his money to go to school, my b/f disvirgined me and i started sleeping with the 2 of them until six months after i got a job. I feel guilty until now because i am married to my b/f but at least i have achieved my aim now i have a good job, husband, cute kids and very very comfortable.
So watch out find out why if you must or free your mind and disflower her and life continues
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bennygee (m)
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hmmm!
nairalanders,lots of pretenders.
most people call against sex threads yet the threads get the most reviews
@ poster,
if you can't do it i'd gladly help out.
reply my post and tell me where to meet you.
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holythug (m)
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av u been circumcised  |
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holythug (m)
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infact don't ever try it in ur life again  |
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holythug (m)
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lol @ wakagirl i can see that from ur username  |
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zigbo (f)
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@topic with all that space i thot u wanted to draw the girl?
don't worry nairaland will help u.
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Femonjay
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FOLLOW YOUR MIND, IF SHE IS STILL ADAMANT ABOUT IT, THEN LET HER GO!!! it's not by force and since you are in your final year, take things easy so nobody will spoil your future. ciao seconded |
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holythug (m)
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guardiance n counselling or is it can - selling
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rosquare (m)
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@poster
hope u know that sex in a relationship is an act of commitment.
moreso when the lady involved is a virgin.
are you ready to be commited to her???
because if you do HIT AND RUN, abi na chop clean mouth
your conscience will not be at peace with you.
i'm sure you are experienced in the area of sex.so why
don't you sit her down and educate yourselves on the issue.
i mean the fun,risks,and the after effect.
come to think of it, how long have you been together?
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ufobabe (f)
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@ rosquare
u too spoil. who told u sex is committment?
sex only strengthen a relationship, it doesn't commit oh
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ndumart
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she wants u to disvirgin her, then do it. U r onlt granting her demands. Period.
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ettehgate (m)
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nna na wa o life self na wa so your babe de beg you to shag her, naim you carry her come nairaland abi? hnmm your kini de work so? if the thing no de work, email me ebiraoiza@yahoo.comI GET HERBS WEY DE CURE IMPOTENCE. [when a man say him de scared, na impotence be that] |
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