Ever had an unforgettable Ex?

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K2
Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« on: July 21, 2005, 02:25 PM »

The mere thought of him makes your love tunnel moist and the mere thought of her gives you a woody.  Can this fella or chic still hit it even though you're no longer apart or with someone else because they are that good? (Okafor's law)
Share Grin

Please Mod move to Sexuality forum.  Thanx.

<moderator: I'll do that when people start responding.  Why don't you tell us about your unforgettable ex?>
Fox (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #1 on: July 21, 2005, 07:02 PM »

If you've ever been in love and I don't mean petty petty secondary school "i love you talk your own" love but the real thing then you know that you cannot forget your ex.  Since we're talking about the sexual part of not forgetting the ex, you will always remember the little things they did, maybe it's the way she <snip> she scratches your back.

The worst part is when you subconsciously want your new girl to do the same things but this won't happen.  The best way to get over it is concentrate on what the new girl brings to the table <snip>. Wink
Seun (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #2 on: July 21, 2005, 07:10 PM »

Fox, your answer makes sense.

And it is is one of the reasons why some of us are shouting "no!" to premarital sex.  Obviously someone who has not had sex with the "ex" would have less trouble forgetting her or him.  So why do we make make life so complicated when it can be so simple?  Perhaps it's less about morality but about simple peace!

 Huh
jogego (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #3 on: July 21, 2005, 08:33 PM »

@ Fox, if you want your new girl to do something, why not simply tell her? COMMUNICATION is a real bonus in any relationsip and believe me, simply talking makes life so much easier. Instead of remembering old girl, simply tell new girl what u want her todo.
Seun (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #4 on: July 21, 2005, 08:50 PM »

And may God help you the day she finds out that the reason you are telling her to do certain things is because your former girlfriend used to do those things!
Fox (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #5 on: July 21, 2005, 09:05 PM »

true talk jogego
lol @ seun

jogego, note that these things I'm saying that the ex used to do aren't necessarily what I need to get off.  Maybe it's how she used to hold the bed when I'm handling my business....there's no way one can tell a girl oya hold the bed like this...no not there, hold the headboard, aha that's better now let's start again.  no go
dablessed (f)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #6 on: July 22, 2005, 12:14 AM »

Fox na wa o! You are beginning to talk like elders Calabarman and Jogego.
buddy (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #7 on: July 22, 2005, 12:27 AM »

well, i had an ex that i didnt have any sex with but still remember, sometimes there's  just that feeling that may not be replicated in the new person, not saying that you don't love the new person as much.
hot-angel (f)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #8 on: July 22, 2005, 07:09 AM »

 Cry Cry  Yes i do have an unforgettable ex. I loved him, i love him, and i will always love him (maybe not). But anyways we were cute couples. I am not stuck to him, but i still think about him. You know he was kind of like a real first love thingy. He was actually my greatest enemy..but then i loved him because i hated him. Complicated you say. Anyways..he's my unforgettable ex.  Smiley
loma (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #9 on: July 22, 2005, 07:15 AM »

hmmn,hot angel. In elementary school?

Yeah,exes are dificult to forget,the thought comes up when you'D rather forget
hot-angel (f)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #10 on: July 22, 2005, 07:17 AM »

Elementary school?? nahh.. Say Junior High School. We were couples till after High School.
Chxta (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #11 on: July 22, 2005, 08:33 AM »

My ex, we broke up 5 years ago, any questions?


* Ada.jpg (24.46 KB, 272x400 )
hot-angel (f)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #12 on: July 22, 2005, 08:39 AM »

If you are heartbroken, i understand! She is too cute to be forgotten.

5 years ago...and you still can't forget her? Sorry. I feel ya.  Smiley
DASKACE (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #13 on: July 22, 2005, 12:13 PM »

@Chxta u don't need to post her pics for us to believe you. Guess she might not be happy if she sees this.
jogego (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #14 on: July 22, 2005, 01:04 PM »

Is it only me, or doesnt anybody think its not healthy to still be holding on to pictures of someone you broke up with 5 years ago?
pkrix (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #15 on: July 22, 2005, 01:52 PM »

@ Chxta

That girl is hot!

Can I c her or at least have her contact.

You've failed, so let others try.
anugirl (f)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #16 on: July 22, 2005, 03:56 PM »

can't u see u're thief...see I'm mouth... ole buruku!. y u no go look 4 ya own 4 anotha place Roll Eyes....nonsence
Chxta (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #17 on: July 22, 2005, 04:02 PM »

5 years ago. Come on people, I have gotten over her. Yes I know she wouldn't appreciate my posting pictures of her online, but who cares? I have since moved on.

She has a new boyfriend now (3rd since me I believe) like I have a new girl (2nd since her) whom I hope to marry.

And I don't see any reason to throw away her picture jogego, methinks it a sign of immaturity to be throwing away pictures of someone you have fond memories of...

The next picture is of one whom I don't have so many fond memories of, except...


* Ijeoma.jpg (54.88 KB, 800x528 )
Chxta (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #18 on: July 22, 2005, 04:04 PM »

@ pkrix, the first one is Ada, for her number, check ya PM...
CalabarMan (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #19 on: July 22, 2005, 04:35 PM »

You guys would never believe what happened to me today eh.. I ran into the first babe I ever dated (not the first one I slept with, remember my definition of what constitutes a relationship) and later in the afternoon I saw the second babe I dated. Today na whao..I am really tempted to invoke Okafor's law on the second one whom I haven't seen since 1999. We were just flowing like before today, I told her she appears exactly the way she was 6 years ago. The babe allowed me to touch the package just to confirm it's still the same, na whao.. temptation high o!

Looking back I actually dated the 1st one for 3 years, she came for her IT when we met and hooked up, it was fun while it lasted but in her final year on campus she started worrying my life about marriage, asking me to buy her a ring, come and meet her parents, discussing wedding colors with my friends babes, telling them we have picked a date, haba, I never even talk that one with the babe then. When she realised I wasn't forthcoming on the ring, she bought one and used to tell everyone that I gave it to her. When matter come tire me I told her I needed some breathing space to think because she was just crowding me, as at this time she had practically moved into my house. When she refused to budge I introduced the second babe into the equation.

I met the second babe at a colleagues birthday party and we flowed very well from day one and started dating without any preambles (she never played hard to get) we were together for 3 years until we drifted apart when I transferred out of warri, we never really called it quit just lost touch. The babe was just too good never bothered my life one day, very easy going. She told me today that she really loved me back then and that I was the 2nd person she ever went out with. The biggest shocker I got was when she told me she was only 17 when we met, she actually lied to me then that she was 20. If I had known she was underage I probably wouldn't have gone out with her, na whao o!, but I don't regret the relationship. We plan to meet up later this evening I just hope Okafor would not come calling...but make I no lie o! the babe still hot.... my people make una pray for me ooooooo!
jogego (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #20 on: July 22, 2005, 04:40 PM »

You must validate Okafor's law for us jare...we now have a chance to have empirical evidence that the thing dey work. After you doon touch the package abi you get plans for tonight? TGIF

Meanwhile the first babe, has she finally married? Just out of curiosity.
dablessed (f)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #21 on: July 22, 2005, 04:46 PM »

The elders are in the house. *All rise* All bow*
Chxta (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #22 on: July 22, 2005, 04:56 PM »

What is Okafor's law?

CalabarMan (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #23 on: July 22, 2005, 04:58 PM »

@Jogego the two babes are not yet married. The 1st one used to call me regularly before but has cooled off in the last one year. She was very business like today, just greeted asked about my brothers and sisters, you know all those idle gist and then she excused herself and left. I know she was really really hurt when I called it quit, she tried using my friends to come back but I no gree simply because I wasn't ready to marry and didn't want to tie her down. I actually thought I was doing her a big favour back then by calling it quit.
tayotina (f)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #24 on: July 22, 2005, 05:06 PM »

Hmm..........na wah oh!!
jogego (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #25 on: July 22, 2005, 05:11 PM »

My brother, you did the right thing jare. Of the things you can marry a babe for, feeling sorry for her is not one of them. And better you play and decide its time to settle rather than marry and still continue playing.

Girls tend to think they can change a man. For where? Babanla error. Any ways good luck tonight we are waiting to hear your jist.

CalabarMan (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #26 on: July 22, 2005, 05:17 PM »

Shoooooo I been think say you go pray make the temptation comot for my front. I don test okafor's law before, the thing dey work, I am very sure it would work tonight if I make that little move. After we go talk say na women be the weaker sex, my people that one na big lie o! men are the weaker sex especially in matters like this no let people deceive you o!.
jogego (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #27 on: July 22, 2005, 05:23 PM »

 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Okay, tell me you are not this very minute remembering all the stuff you guys got up to? Or that you have not sometime in the past 6 years, wondered how it would be to hook up again?

Abeg stop posing jare....you know you want to hit that booty....
Chxta (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #28 on: July 22, 2005, 05:26 PM »

Bros Calabarman, what is Okafor's Law?
CalabarMan (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #29 on: July 22, 2005, 05:28 PM »

Ok make I confess yes I have thought about her plenty times within the last 6 years and yes I no go mind to chop again, but should I ....YES, NO, YES, NO, YES, NO, YES, NO, YES  I don tire my brother e be like say the program don jam.............

Okafor's law states that a properly shined congo can always be shined again and again, I beg no ask me wetin be congo?
jogego (m)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #30 on: July 22, 2005, 05:34 PM »

GO>SHINE>AND FEAR NO MORE
mosiate (f)
Re: Ever had an unforgettable Ex?
« #31 on: July 22, 2005, 05:37 PM »

i'm lost some should help me out.
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