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Vernor (m)
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Long distance relationship, How did you cope.
She flash regularly before but now once or sometimes give excuse i can't find my phone i left my phone upstairs since morning i did not know you were calling. Are these not signs to, ?
HOw was ur and how did you go about it please tell d house
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ettehgate (m)
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long distance relationship is not good
one will surely decieve the other
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iice (f)
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Don't do thosenot for me!
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asada (m)
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To all people never,ever try this.EVER.
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presido1
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Some works but majority don't. Pray and keep your fingas crossed.
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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am about to venture on one ,,,,,,,, am not hoping for anything spectacular. I am just going to take it one day at a time.
@asada
sounds like you got burnt. care to share?
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lilrukevwe (m)
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a dynamite waiting to blow u p
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MoOdYLaDy (f)
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The most important thing is prayer  , because with God nothing his impossible. However, that doesn't mean you won't face some serious obstacles down the line, but with God guidance you will make it through
Trustworthy
Good communication
Patience
Understanding
Having a long distance relationship makes you love and appreciate your partner more
It gives you ability to test yourself, whether you can be faithful or not.
To see how strong you are, and also shows your weakness
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almondjoy (f)
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The most important thing is prayer , because with God nothing his impossible. However, that doesn't mean you won't face some serious obstacles down the line, but with God guidance you will make it through
Trustworthy
Good communication
Patience
Understanding
Having a long distance relationship makes you love and appreciate your partner more
It gives you ability to test yourself, whether you can be faithful or not.
To see how strong you are, and also shows your weakness
Hmmmmmmmm!  To all people never,ever try this.EVER.
Especially in a minus zero degree weather anywhere in this world! |
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Gemini II (m)
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Am in one right now and i think its working pretty ok. the lady is in Delta state while am in Abj, how we make it work is that she comes over every other month for about a week or two, and we call each other like several times every day. its a tough thing though because there are sometimes when you want to be with ur lurv and shes not there. anywayz am tryin to get a bigger apartment and meet her parents so she can alwayz be around more often - like parmanently  . i guess what made it work is the committment and communication.  |
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MoOdYLaDy (f)
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Hmmmmmmmm!  |
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buyaka (m)
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i enjoy it. all the girls i have dated have never stayed in the same town with me
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finemocha (f)
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long distance relationships wont work in nigeria, better if in uk or us
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slitty
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@ vernor
i am actually in one right now. saw my partner only once since febuary. and i hopefully think we would see next month sha. it could be terribly hard since we are both in nigeria, but i tell you, it depends on what you want from the relationship. both partners have to strive to make it work (really work at it). and prayers is very important because there are temptations everywhere i mean real big bold unavoidable temptations believe me it has been tough but am coping with God's grace.
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wakagirl
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Ask them in Ireland. 70% of married women lives there with their husbands in Nigeria of elsewhere, Wetin i don see there, yepa! i no fit talk
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Tioluwa (f)
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Long distance relationship is not easy but it is possible by being faithful,determined and prayerful,constant communication also keep the relationship romantic.  |
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jlee (m)
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Dealling with matters like this one have to be real commited to make it work.
devotion brings commitment and commitment brings archivement.
with commitment,truth,trust and above all love
get devoted in the realtionship and u will see the out come
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gbemmyniyi (f)
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as long as both parties ensure accurate communication,i guess faithfulness and trust is all that matters
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QUE`SHIQUE (f)
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Long Distance can work if both partners come to an understanding of committment, trustworthy, open communication, make quality time for each other. People need to know that when things seem impossible to them, will always be possible to GOD. The advice I can give is seek God's guidance, direction and pray feverently without ceasing. If a Long Distance relationship is not for you God will put a Stop order on it.
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hot chic (f)
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may not be as bad as people has portrayed it,have been in it for almost two years now and its been fine and some were there for about 5 years before they get married,it all depends on what you want from each other,obviously it won't work for a guy who needs a lady to warm his bed
But it can only work when the two parties are committed to it,with good communication,you will be alright.Though its tough ,its worth going into it,it makes you appreciate your partner and shows some of your weaknesses.
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ufobabe (f)
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it works 4 me.
i prefer it than being thesame environment.
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Appearance (m)
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It can be really frustrating if you have the minutest doubt about your partners faithfulness. The key is to be open minded and don't let your imagination run too wild.
I met my angel in P/H and a year later I moved to Lagos. She couldn't visit often 'because I was yet to get an apartment. For two years she visited only twice. But we knew what we meant to each other and distance instead of waxing cold our love, actually fueled our passion and desire for each other.
Things got better after I got an apartment. We are getting married soon.
Trust, communication maturity and understanding are key to a successful long distance relationship.
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Merinoz (m)
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I personally have been so much scared about this because I soon will be venturing into one myself.I just pray that God gives us the strength to live for each other despite any distraction that might come.I love my girl so much and wouldn't want to lose her.God help us. A-M-E-N! |
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Emmyzwon
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It's tough. But i stick wit it.
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rockiedink (m)
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@topic the issue is that you have to decide what you want out of the relationship. Appearance, ufobabe, hot chic and slitty have all shown us that it can be reall fun, nice and romantic because they made it work. that wanted it to work. but for those of you that think a relationship is all about the girl saying yes and the next thing is you tumble in the hay (or sheets or the back of your car or wherever), forget it! its not for you. But if you are in the relationship to settle down with him/her for good then it just might be roses and sunshine. |
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snugle
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I'm in a long distance relationship, and i can only describe it like a long wait for something,and it only comes once in a while.Before it settles down,its gone again.And the wait begins.
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