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jessy-gal (f)
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 so sorry to hear about de hectic story, its just don't worth it does it?  ?? of not!, actually, i had some sort of sad news too when i was in high school, my guy was seein a new girl in my class , i never knew he was seein her ,not untill this fateful day as people do call , mennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn i came to de class and guess what both were snogglin face to face i was daunted at what i saw, i din't waste anytime ,i just ran outside and went home straight away, mennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn couldn't bear comin to school de next day, my parents were almost crossed with me, but i took de courage to face de next day without regrets of what de previous day had brought, Actually, i came to school optimistic 2 see him runnin 2 me with apologies drainin all ova him, i just rebuked him and told him that de only thing i need now is my braveness to face de class lessons and not to be consoled okkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk he took that as a warning though, i faced my clASS members with courage and boldness though was obsessed with what happened last time, mennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn thanx to Jah because i got ova it, but with much therapuetic session, If u ask me to suggest what u'D like me to say will only tell you to get ova it, good things are not easy to get though, but be consistence with your love and care , u'll not miss a good girl, go out dere have fun with your friends it will keep u away from thinkin hard about your split, with her[ callous,uncarin, unappreciative, ] mennnnnnnnnnn just chillout with reasonable ones out dere and give yourself time to think on startin a new fresh r/ship, with someone who worth your love, okkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk don't get it wrong boy, ''just play it'' kool'', GUD LUCK
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Delta007 (m)
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I no dey too contribute for all these nollywood scripts, but if this na true story, ol boy, hit the highway sharp sharp; don't turn back like Lot, unless u just wan dey sample am on a regular basis with no plan for the future, and even at that, that's risky especially when emotions are involved, the girl loves u but forgot that when she was nakking your bro? What's the guarantee it wont happen in the future? Her words? Are u kidding me? There's absolutely no excuse for that especially with your brother. Guys are different from girls, Guys just need a place to have sex, Girls need to get in the "mood", they need to be turned on etc etc. That's why when u meet some chicks, e fit take centuries to nak them whether u buy heaven and earth but the cheap hoes will sell out to anything, even recharge card. This your babe, when agro hit am again and u are out of town, maybe na your landlord or driver go dey service am for u, Dont get me wrong, peeps change but I wont risk a long term relationship with someone that betrayed the trust with my own very brother. If na another person, hmmmm, maybe i go rethink am. You seem like a decent guy who's set on kickstarting his career, u need a woman who would respect u and appreciate the fact that despite your tight schedule, u are still making her a priority. Cheap hoes will sell out to anything, them go wash, clean, cook, chook, etc for nada, so don't buy that ish. Just my 2-kobo. Hello everyone. I'm sure many of you would want to know what happened after the whole episode. Things have surely happened, but i still don't know whether i should just leave the girl or forget the whole episode and accept her back like some of the latest posters have implied. I've really tried so hard to get her out of my mind, but i just can't.
During December, she sent me several text messages and "I'm sorry" messages to my box, pleading that i forgive her and at least listen to her. Her older sister i mentioned in one of my earlier posts too has been on my neck to forgive her younger sister and take her back.
Both of them even came to see me one weekend before sallah. I happened to be the only one at home that morning as my dad had gone down south with my mom(who just came in from the states) for the sallah and Xmas break. I had told them i'll be down with them before sallah.
I was watching a film on TV that Saturday morning when someone knocked on the door. i opened up and saw them both. When i saw the girl, my heart just went out to her as she had really gone so lean in just a month. I didn't want to show that i still felt something for her as i told her that she shouldn't kill herself because of me, as i had already told her that it was over. She started crying again that day. Although her tears really moved me, i tried hard not to show it, but my eyes betrayed me. Her older sister(she's about 15 years older than her) sat both of us down and had a serious talk with us. I don't want to bore any of you with all what she said, but she later made her younger sister kneel down and beg me. She just fell down in front of me and further burst into tears. She buried her face in my laps and wept."Deji, am sorry, Deji, im sorry, i promise i won't do it again, i love you so much darling, please forgive me, " she kept on sobbing. honestly i felt like bursting into tears myself at that point. i tried pushing her away but she held on fast to me.
At the end of the whole crying episode, I just had to do something, if at least to spare myself of the pain of seeing her weep so much. I told her that fine, i'm not upset at her anymore, but before i could think of taking her back, she'll have to prove it to me that she's really sorry for what she did to me. In other words, she'll have to earn my love and trust again if i was to consider taking her back.
Since then she's been at it oh!!! It even got to a stage that me sef thought of it and wondered "haven't i punished this lady enough? If we actually look at it, to err is human, but to forgive is divine." Such things do happen in this cruel world. I wouldn't know whether she's just playing me or not, but all what she's been through just because of a simple guy like me proves otherwise. I'm not rich, I'm just a Corper, I have just the basic things every comfortable young guy has(though i drive a small Toyota). She's a very pretty young lady who has several men on her trail begging to date her, but yet she refuses their advances and is going through all this just for a simple guy like me to forgive her and take her back.
i had to come back to work before xmas. When she heard from somewhere(where, i don't even have a clue) that i had returned, she left Lagos and came back. She literally spent the whole xmas and new year here with me, cooking all my meals, cleaning the house for me, and spending most of her time at my place. There was even a time then that she collapsed out of exhaustion when she was cleaning up my room. Luckily for her and will i say unluckily for me, my instincts were faster than my mind and i leaped forward to grab her before she fell. she landed in my arms. i looked into her tired eyes which were half closed from exhaustion, and before i could stop myself, i had started kissing her. I quickly came back to my senses before it led to another thing.
so peeps that's where things are at the moment. Everyone has said i should forgive her. Both my parents had a talk with my brother and I during the sallah break. You know there are things ones parents say which will make one's head swell and listen to them. i hugged my brother and told him i had forgiven him. My mom then said that i should take my time in thinking on whether i still want to date my girl again, and whatever i decide will be fine with her.
I'm still pulling back though. i know deep within me i love this girl so much and from what she's shown since, she loves me too, but something is still holding me back. Maybe i should still give it more time, or what do u all think?
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kingsikaz (m)
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this scenario replicate what happened b/w Esau and Jacob. your brother is a supplanter! u've got to kill spare him. make una call family meeting and settle d score. well sa be careful with this brother of urs so that he will not hijack your wife from a day prior your wedding day!
all d same, let brotherly love continues!
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lisvebs (f)
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hello,
what if your boy is not around u and u don't know when he will come back home
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kola oloye (m)
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@ poster,
There is nothing new under the sun. Worst things are happening there in the world.
May be your brother needs deliverance,let them cast the spirit of lust out of him by fire by force.
AT THE SAME TIME 4GIVE & 4GET,BECOS BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER.
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kingsikaz (m)
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@ poster, There is nothing new under the sun. Worst things are happening there in the world. May be your brother needs deliverance,let them cast the spirit of lust out of him by fire by force. or by thunder!  AT THE SAME TIME 4GIVE & 4GET,BECOS BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER. which kind sinful blood? |
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beautiquin (f)
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guy i really feel for you and my advice is that you should forgive the girl and forget her sins, or do you want to have a dead person on your neck? the suffering and trauma you are putting her through is enough. please am begging on her behalf. put yourself in her condition. Anyway guy we all go through good and bad times. i think this is one of your bad times and i think you should forget and get on with life with her. She is sacrificing her self, feelings, body, health and most importantly her love and heart for you, please you too should sacrifice your heart and love for her. A word is enough for the wise.
Wishing you luck as you do this.
may God help you (amen)
Bye
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kingsikaz (m)
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u sound somehow religious! all d same u post is nice.
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naijaborn (m)
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@poster Be careful of d advice yu adhear to. . . i strongly believe;there's a need 4yu to move on n move on alone. . . sometimes a man's gotto do wot a man's gotto do  stop holdin yurself back by seein reasons wit herthis is afrika,naija 4dat mattatalk 2yah brother like a big bros shuld ok! nah yur bloodnd e be like say nah him save yur head from coconut struckin!!!  wierd abi?! well sha move onbecause it can only get betta! 
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chisco82 (m)
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bros i'm very soorry just forgive your brother,
as for the girl don't ever have anything to do with her again,
@nalo please can u just help him to fill the vacant position left by the whore
since ure one of the buetiful young ladies out there .
@aysometin & jypretty u girls should help this guy
i mean u no, fill up the v p
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chisco82 (m)
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@ BUETIQIUN
sacrificing herself by sleeping with a younger brother for matter.
i tire for you o,
did she sent u on her behalf
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tunde @
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its quite unfortunate that it happened to be your bro.u will have to forgive him but it will be difficult to forget.just take it easy as for the girl loose her
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rman
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Dump the girl and don't listen to any form of explanation. Stay away from that brother of yours for the rest of your life.If he has an opportunity to kill you for his own selfish reasons he will. MOVE ON!
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ty4real (m)
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@Poster! I pity u sha!its good enough you ve 4given your brother and the lady!But I don't support you dating that girl again ooo!Cuase theres no way the fracas wont keep unning through your mind,But if you are okay withh it,no wahala!After all, its your life!But if I were you, I wont date that gilr again,in order to injure her cause you are likely to do something to her that is way beyond what she did to you!Sefini |
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