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omowoleola
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Fellow nairalanders, ,
There is a lady i just met of recent. I met her through her best friend who happens to be a coleague of mine at my work place.I really love the girl but i was made to understand that she is already in a relationship BUT that relationship is bendable, Her best friend through whom i met her told me this, but i ave not discussed the issue with her since i feel we just met and its too early to start talking about her relationship.She is really getting on well with me and she has been so nice, Now how do i win this lady since i was told she can leave her presently relationship, as in it's bendable like i was told, ? wot and how do i need to get her, ?
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opokonwa (m)
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@poster You want to bend another man's relationship and you think yours is going to last?You think you will have peace after messing another man's own up??  Let's watch and see: WHAT GOES AROUND DEFINITELY COMES AROUND |
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angel101 (f)
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rflmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Joey82 (m)
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@poster You want to bend another man's relationship and you think yours is going to last?You think you will have peace after messing another man's own up?? Let's watch and see: WHAT GOES AROUND DEFINITELY COMES AROUNDCome to think of it, if u're waiting for a lady that's free b/4 going into a r/ship, u hardly will find one. Its always about winning her to your side but make sure d person she might be going out with b/for you came in is no close relative of urs. i believe that in r/ships, battles must b fought, won and lost. @poster, if u want to bend d r/ship she's presently into, make sure u're 4 real so u wont get her regreting. |
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jkpretty (f)
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@Poster
Make your intension known to her, she decides whether to stay or leave.
A man hunting, should always have it at the back of his mind that its either he wins or looses.
Not every girl girl was completely this-attached from a guy before they found their true love, many times its survival of the fittest!
@ joey
Hi dear
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bebe2007 (f)
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I hear the guys here saying you should go ahead and make your intentions known. So when the girl finally decides to go with you what happens to the other guy? He would call her a cold hearted B, ch rite!!! He might even come to Nairaland to complain and we (including these guys advising you) will all turn around and abuse the living daylight out of the babe for dumping him. Its a circle o!!! think well.
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cybersleek (m)
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All is fair in love and war, so do what you have to do. best of luck!
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hot chic (f)
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what made u think that the relationship is bendable?
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dapsycool (m)
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Life o life oooh life o life, duh duh duh. Life's bullshit  |
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janami (f)
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well wot if u guys were meant to be? i mean she's not married yet. what am i saying sef?  how do u mean bendable? |
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Pain
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If its so bendable, doesnt that mean she so so unreliable. What makes u think someone else wont bend her even in matrimony?
Anyway, Go-abending if u like. But I prefer we all stay Love-abiding.
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onyeka_ng (f)
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WHAT GOES AROUND ,DEFINITELY COMES AROUND
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groove
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You already said it, she is in a relationship. Its not for you to say whether its bendable or breakable. Put yourself in her boyfriend's shoes, how would u feel if someone was snatching your girlfriend in the name of "BENDABLE" ? Incase its still not clear to u what i'm saying,LEAVE THE GIRL FOR HER BOYFRIEND OO!
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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@topic
then leave her alone for her man.
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c_blow (m)
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@ poster.
i'ld rather go after some lady that is free if i were still searching, than break a heart to find my own joy, it never works that way. havent u heard them say CARMA is a b***h?
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londoner
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All good things come to those who wait.
If you take her away from this guy, all you are doing is making sure your own relationship with her is unfruitful. There is a thing called karma.
Are you sure you love her? I hear that word just thrown about these days.
Is it the fact that she is out of bounds that is fueling your "feelings" for her? There are some men who like the thrill of the chase.
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akeye (f)
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tell her what u feel
its left 4 her to choose.
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crazykid (m)
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It's ok to be friends with her; but wanting to force her out of a relationship just to please yourself isn't advisable.
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lilrukevwe (m)
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some one would hustle her from u really soon how does that sound
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omowoleola
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i tot some nairalanders will ask for more info if they don't really understand wot i meant rather than crucifying me, i said bendable because she is really complaining about her present guy, that she is not happy with her relationship and that the guy is just tying her down for nothing,
@ cybersleek, crazykid, jkpretty, akeye and londoner, thanks so much for your advice, i don't intend to bend another man's relationship, im only in love with a girl that is already in a relationship that she is not happy about and and wants to leave, im only asking for a way to win her heart because according to her friend, she is not interested in any relationship again, and how do i convince her that my coming into her life will make a difference, ?
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Scopium (m)
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what made u think that the relationship is bendable?
Good question. After bending somebody's relationship you think it's going to be straight for you? Rather than bending them, let them bend themsleves then later you can go and straighten her up. |
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yimiton (f)
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It will be wise for you to wait a while and ask her. If the relationship is actually not working out, she just might give it a thought.
Fact is that a lot of people are in relationships because they don't want to be alone.
If she insists that she wants to keep her relationship, then, let her be, otherwise. . . .
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onyejify
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You av heard it all. just follow your mine.
For me, give her a trial; u'll surely make a diff.
Tell nairaland oh when u win her heart!
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yewa-man (m)
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she is in a relationship, but she is not married,
my advice is this its not over till its over.
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pcmecom (m)
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wetin all of una dey talk sef!!!!!! my guy no listen to all these people, make your intention known to this girl, then zero in, after all she is not married or engaged to the guy.As far as I am concerned it is still an open contest.Look if you waiting for a free girl, sorry for u, u go wait tire.  |
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Seun (m)
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As long as she is not married or engaged, you can do whatever you like.
If the boyfriend wants her off the market, he should marry her.
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uche1 (m)
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well be freinds with her and if you love her that much im sure you wont be with any one else and when her ralationship fails then try telling her how you feel then if you do still feel the same way, her ralationship may last a while it may not but with in the time you wait for her to become singel youll find your feelings may fad away a lttle bit or a lot which will make it easier for you to move on.
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akeye (f)
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havent u broken sum girls heart? |
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omena555 (f)
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the r/s she's in rite now is bendable! so u want to become an iron-bender for her sake abi?  go ahead and be looking at another man's girl. but remember u are sowing a seed oh!  |
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