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toluwalomo (m)
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Read up on Karma Bra!
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uchetobi (f)
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If u can take a girl from a man, another guy can take the girl from u
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denony (m)
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My man abegi! na another man show u wan spoil ooo! what if the same be done to you. The relationship is bendable and u want to help them crush it. if you really love her wait for her to decide she no longer want the guy and was agreed by the two  whats so ever you do to the list of my brother  My question:  What about your own girl friend. Question No 2. Are you always helping people strengthen their bending relationship, even women in marriage. KEEP OFF MILITARY ZONE |
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rockiedink (m)
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has anyone here heard of Okafor's theory? It say that for any guy to get a babe, he must be ready to de-babe another guy. for crying out loud the girl isnt married to him yet. if she like you when you tell her, my brother carry go jooo.
I tire for naira landers sef.
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Onyema1 (m)
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Mr. Iron bender, oya carry go! but be ready to fight another supper iron bender. Ensure that you donto brate the girl while trying to bend her.
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omowoleola
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dear nairalanders,
thanks so much for all your advice,
i do appreciate them, seun osewa, thanks so much.
let me reiterate that what i said earlier that i do not intend to break anybody'd relationship, im only deeply in love with a lady who has lost interest in her present relationship and wants to leave but doesnt know how she will go about it, we ave been getting along and she has come to see me at my place of work, she even dropped her assignment for me to help her with But i ave not told her about my feelings for her and i even think she is very much interested in me too, if not she wouldnt ave come to see me.
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randa (m)
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its easy for us to condemn him, but hey listen to this. lov is all about battles both male and female, we have to battle at work to be the best and to make sure we are relevant in the scheme of things so also is love, u have to prove day by day that u the real deal, so if she is bendable it means that she is not satisfied with her current relationship and she wants to move on, there is nothing wrong with that,,, i have a relationship and i keep on working on my woman to make her realise that i am the best and she does the same for me, there is no relationship if the other party is not satisfied for whatever reason, good or bad, lets not castigate, maybe she is an abusive realtionship and she wants out , or she is just plain tired, shit happens no be naija we dey?
the only advice i have for him is to have an open and frank talk with her, understand what kind of babe she really is before making his move
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omowoleola
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@ randa, alexis and hafees,
u ave all said it all, i just got to understand that she rushed into the relationship with the guy because she feels age is no longer on her side and she needed to hook up with somebody, she was afraid she was getting old and entered the relationship, the said lady inquestion told me today that the guy's family doesnt want her, so what wrong have i done by being in love with the girl, ? does being in love with her now means i want to break her relationship, ? abeg nairalanders please talk ooooooooooo, comments please.
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goodboybad (m)
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my man, this is my advice to you:
Have no hand in the breakup of her relationship. Let it self-destuct on its own.
Just be her friend, and when the time is right, make your move.
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spoilt (f)
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you want to bend another man's relationship huh? I hear say na 'babe-thiefing' dey reign now oh!  |
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colo
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Please,try 2 knw if d guy realy love d lady,if he does please never brk dia rlatioshp.
If u've exprience rlationshp brkga u will never try it.Put yourself in dt guy's shoe.
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VIC4U
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@ randa, alexis and hafees,
u ave all said it all, i just got to understand that she rushed into the relationship with the guy because she feels age is no longer on her side and she needed to hook up with somebody, she was afraid she was getting old and entered the relationship, the said lady inquestion told me today that the guy's family doesnt want her, so what wrong have i done by being in love with the girl, ? does being in love with her now means i want to break her relationship, ? abeg nairalanders please talk ooooooooooo, comments please.
WELL IF THE GIRL LIKE You AS You SAID THEN I WILL SAY GOOD LUCK! BUT DON'T FORGET TO INVITE ME ON UR WEDDING DAY. |
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metro (m)
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since is not married and her present relatinship is not workin out so well, den make your inentions known if she is not intrested its all about trial u bon her. i was told the greatest risk is not takin risk
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adubiay
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I don't know what all of you are talking about, none of you has really attended to this guy request. He only want to try his luck, it all depend on the girl choice. Omowoleola, just tell the girl how you feel about her and proof to her that you are for real, then is left for the girl to decide.
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mellow (m)
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I don't know why we are here screeming wolf. what if the babe in question is weening for him?
That the girl's friend told him the r/tionship is bendable means that the relationship is struggling
to survive in other words, the girl need a prince in shinning armour to come rescue her, so why
not our man here?
My dear poster, just woo her like you will any other girl and let things flow naturally. What's yours is yours
and what's not will always find a way of escape, so the hunting continues. The babe has the resreved
prerogative to either flow with you or remain with the incubent. The decision is not yours, the other guy
or even the nairalanders for that matter.
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AB Engine (m)
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na wa o!!!!!!!!! its quite quite clear you are in love with this chick wetin i go say na: FOLLOW DUE PROCESS!1. You COULD WAIT TILL HER LOVE FINDS You or 2. MAKE UR INTENTIONS KNOWN TO HER and 3. LOOKUOUT FOR HER RESPONSE but 4. DO NOT IMPOSE IT ON HER! i bet 5. IF SHE'S SEROUS WITH HER GUY SHE WOULD LET YOU KNOW yet 6. IF SHE ISNT , WHOOLALA! LALA! LALA! YOU ARE GAME!
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israelite (m)
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Bros, abeg dnt even embark on that decision,wht will be your reaction if u ar in that guy's shoe will you be happy that your girl is being taken away by another guy, besides i see no reason for u to propose to her because u know shes already in a relationship, or you want to do CHOP AND GO, so look for a girl u know nothing about her, and put this at the back of your palm datin a stranger is far better just try it budy.
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TCUBE (m)
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move on with your life,
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beila05
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if my eyes weren't deceiving me you said the reason you can't make your intentions known to her is because you think its too early!! well that is to say its also to early to think of bending,perharps you are simply carried away by her good gestures and you mistake it for something else.shit like this happens everytime, every relationship has trials thats not to say she is not happy in her relationship, if you go bending you may never see those that would go amending your relationship, cause magnet attracts magnet, law of karma  |
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roberts24
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u can never find a babe thats not into one r/ship or the other, tell her your oiwn mind, forget one dirty karma,  |
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ussyman
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I realised one thing in this life: Most people are married to the wrong people, And mostly due to aformentioned circumstance. So go for her. You could be her right man, who knows? Let's the other guy go and snatch somebodyelse's somewhere. This love is all about snatching and de-snatching. The bad guys have snatched 3 away from me but I think I have just snatched a big one now for real (serious). More greese to your elbow, my guy. |
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uchy
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Well, if you feel she is okay for u, u can go and tell her your mind. But where by she said yes to your request what happen to your Girl friend in Jos How will she feel about it. Which means u have broken someone's heart eh!!!
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Mr. Turkey (m)
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then try your best to unlove her then
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Rosietimes (f)
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@ Seun Oh boy! you harsh o! So women now are commodities that are bought and sold in the market. I can imagine like second hand clothes there must be second hand women then. Sad!!!  |
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Hotepo (m)
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Hmmm if you ask me, I would say a capital NO to your intention, man there are million of ladies out there and everyday you wake up, you’ll always find a new one and controlled by your “am in love thing”.
Hey man, I just want you to know something if the lady feels for you, the only way I believe you can catch her is be outside the you love her thing, all she needs in you is friendship which would in time decay and then germinate to love, but that is if your intentions are not limited to bed alone. No offenses.
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moyosore85
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if you don't know the guy, then try your luck but if the guy is your guy then back off. i agree with joey's first post- life is about battles that must be won or lost. i'm going to use that quote.
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chipeter (f)
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hi, i hope u are ready for a relationship in the first place. If u truly love her,don't even suggest that she should break her present relationship. Just show her your real self then being a woman that she is,she will definitely choose the right person for her.
And what you think is the best for u may not actually be the will of God for u.I had a similar experience before i got married to my sweet husband.
I had a serious relationship when i met my husband and i told him about it when he started toasting me but he wasn't perturbed because he knew God was actually leading him to me.But somehow somewhere i found myself breaking my previous relationship and then falling in love with him and then to the altaaaaaaar we went.
so GUY just keep praying about it ,remain calm and just be yourself no pretenses please things will work out soon
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dot2002 (f)
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go get someone else punk azz
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geedanos (m)
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this is lust and not love. bros just look else where! u will surely find urs. listen to your heart
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freshope87
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Why do you want to steal what does not belong to you and you hope to enjoy it? Think twice and know that what goes around comes around surely. Let her alone, that is the massage!
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