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jintujinta (m)
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This thin is very simple. The girl is still single not married. Does he have to wait till a broken heartwd girl comes around crying? Just make sure you are not bending her relationship only to just "chop and clean mouth". If you don't have plans for her, leave her and let her sort herself out in her present predicament.
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fusty
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ma guy, follow your heart when its calling on u,but look well b/for you leap,
best of luck.
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scoscopiro (m)
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i'll advice you say away, since u know shes presently into a relationship, my guy,, ''what goes around comes around'' assuming you even won her heart,bros,, i will advice u don't trust her, Cos i know definitely shes going to mess-up, I've experienced such, u can read my story''poster's name=scoscopiro, subject=''MY GIRL IS HAVING SEX WITH HER EX-BOY, HELP PLS, !!!''
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mamanga
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The best thing to do is to forget about her,look for the one that is single.
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abanna (f)
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HI,
why e be say most guys prefer other guys chics?
if d chic agree, na still guys go shout fowl play.
Bros go mountain of fire go ask 4 your own babe b/c if u pour sand 4 another man garri,u go surprise say dt "point n kill " u wan chop go b xpired fish.
a word is enough 4 d ,
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Cecegrace (f)
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what a life? What made you think the relationship is bendable, beware!! Anyway talk to the girl sha, if she feels like dumping her man for you, all the best. But beware nothing goes for nothing |
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realcele
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Dog eats dog. go tell am, she can either say yes or know by remember the law of karma. Dont point her bending relationship no relationship is immune from that. If she comes to you be happy if she does not be happy and go for another lady there are plenty of them out. Enjoy
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ndumart (m)
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If u bend her relationship, someone else might easily bend u out that relationship.Its just natural.
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davotech01
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Well as a good christian you need to look for your own lady once you have detected that she already hand in glove with someone else.I pray that God will grant you your own bone in Jesus Name Amen.
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mariejane (f)
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For starters you should have shed more light on her relationship being bendable. R u saying that she is not happy wit who she is dating? is she just 'managing' him before a better gut comes along or there are some issues that can't be resolved? When u have unravelled the 'bending' mystery , u can then make your intentions known. Let me ask u a question, How long did it take u to fall in love with her?
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ralph_d001 (m)
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I think u hardly see a girl that isnt fixed up with someone,(not talking about married folks) that doesnt mean you should not ask her out.
If you do like her, go for it, and if you do love her, pray that the bendable relationship should finally break up.
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emelumgini (f)
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I think i love groove's idea.
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sheisnice (f)
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I was in a cherished relatnshp until sm1 stronger than i am bend and forcefully took him away, i nearly died but came out stronger knowing that we're in a world of survival of the fittest.
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lekanjimi
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well, i feel is really not easy to achieve this, but since the relationship is kind of bendth! it's definitely depend on the lady desire if really she does not want the present relationship any more, it is her decision to be made,
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seuniyanda
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depending on the lady, if you (the guy) want to give a try, why not?
go ahead bro
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kembaby
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@poster: u said she is not happy in her present relationship, have u taken out time to find out why she is not, from what u av said , as a woman i can give u 3 good reasons to keep your feelings from known to her. 1, a sensible unmarried woman who is broken hearted will never look for another relationship when one is not working, rather she will ask and work on why the present one is not if she is really in love wit the guy. 2, a sensible unmarried woman would ask herself why the families of her boyfriend in her present relationship does not want her and will work on it. a whole family can't be wrong about one person. 3, a sensible unmarried woman who is no more interested in a relationship would end the relationship and stand her grounds and not looking for an escape route. the fact that she does not know how to go about ending the relationship means there is more to the relationship than u were told u need to find out the facts about this babe, if her present relationship is not working what exactly is the root cause, it takes two to tangle , if she claims to be in a relationship and she is not happy why is she still in it. dnt be a FATHER THERESSA, who is trying to give a shoulder to someone. if u do u will only be giving love and not receiving, allow her to solve her issues wit her boyfriend and give her time to heal her wounds by herself, dnt help her heal it because u will end up falling in love out of pity. if you're positive what u feel for her is LOVE and its strong i will adjure u to pray about it, tell God what u want, he is God and he understands us even when we communicate wit him in our own language. am sure he will direct u and order your steps. also pray for THE GIRL and her happiness, by praying for others, u av your own case settled. always talk to God about everything in your life and u will be amazed ao he will show u things u dint expect. i av been in your position before and what i did was just to pray about it, though i was deeeply hurting i had to let go of the guy and after about 6 months he came back to me free and available and the relationship is growing stronger. send me an email if there is snything else i can do kemiadekore@yahoo.co.uk |
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bru
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boy i really do feel u. i m facin d same situatn here. in fact her guy is an aquaintance but i av really gone crazy about d chick n i think she nos it even if i av not told her much. i av just decided 2 stand n watch things unfold. sounds cowardly but it has worked 4 some of ma friends though not really in situations like this.
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echezz (m)
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@poster
my friend wake up your ideas! You see a girl, a single girl, you love her, you haven't told her your intentions yet. And you are considering the fact that she is in a relationship. You can't loose what you never had. How can you be dying in love for the sake of a girl you already know she isn't interested in the present guy. If you don't make the move this night maybe I'll help you with it.
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Pepeye (f)
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Take a chance and speak your mind to her as a man and see how she feels. She might be miserable in that relationship and wants out
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Ecomog
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Whatever the issue is with her relationship i believe should be of no concern of yours provided she is not engage to the guy.Do not discuss her relationship or the guy with her.Make your intention known to her,time i guess will tell who the "cap" will fit.
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stoneman91 (m)
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"Now how do i win this lady since i was told she can leave her presently relationship, as in it's bendable like i was told, ? wot and how do i need to get her"
well the above is your question, well i suggest you go to and read the article so as to get acquinted with five things that can attract a woman
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bicee
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well, i'll go with Yimiton's view.
make your feelings known to her but do not force her.
so many people are in a relationship because they don't want to be alone and so many endure
their relationships. it is left for the lady to choose.
try your luck.
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TerrySoft (m)
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Sometimes i wonder if most of us really understand the meaning of the word "LOVE". I've been in your situation and because what i felt was love for the girl, i encouraged her to stick to her guy. She got married recently and is ever grateful to me for the advice and has named me her best friend. Now that is what i call LOVE.
One good definition of love as contained in the Bible is that Love doesn't see it's own happiness alone. When i applied that i got a good result and now i've been able to fall in love with someone else who loves and adores me like no one else.
I will advice you to forget about the "bendable" name that her present relationship has been tagged because some girls are DANGEROUS!
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ohbiey (m)
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omowoleola, you are only a fake,a phonie,a pussy , a stain.I can see you are only concern with distant woman and trading emotions like bitches
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Dalby (m)
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I think u hardly see a girl that isnt fixed up with someone,(not talking about married folks) that doesnt mean you should not ask her out.
If you do like her, go for it, and if you do love her, pray that the bendable relationship should finally break up.
You are asking somebody to pray for another persons relationship to pack up . I am really lost here  I was in a cherished relatnshp until sm1 stronger than i am bend and forcefully took him away, i nearly died but came out stronger knowing that we're in a world of survival of the fittest.
 I really do not think so, if not we would all have been subjects / slaves to the Goliaths. It might take you a while to understand, but all good and so called bad things happen for a reason  @poster: u said she is not happy in her present relationship, have u taken out time to find out why she is not, from what u av said , as a woman i can give u 3 good reasons to keep your feelings from known to her. 1, a sensible unmarried woman who is broken hearted will never look for another relationship when one is not working, rather she will ask and work on why the present one is not if she is really in love wit the guy. 2, a sensible unmarried woman would ask herself why the families of her boyfriend in her present relationship does not want her and will work on it. a whole family can't be wrong about one person. 3, a sensible unmarried woman who is no more interested in a relationship would end the relationship and stand her grounds and not looking for an escape route. the fact that she does not know how to go about ending the relationship means there is more to the relationship than u were told u need to find out the facts about this babe, if her present relationship is not working what exactly is the root cause, it takes two to tangle , if she claims to be in a relationship and she is not happy why is she still in it. dnt be a FATHER THERESSA, who is trying to give a shoulder to someone. if u do u will only be giving love and not receiving, allow her to solve her issues wit her boyfriend and give her time to heal her wounds by herself, dnt help her heal it because u will end up falling in love out of pity. if you're positive what u feel for her is LOVE and its strong i will adjure u to pray about it, tell God what u want, he is God and he understands us even when we communicate wit him in our own language. am sure he will direct u and order your steps. also pray for THE GIRL and her happiness, by praying for others, u av your own case settled. always talk to God about everything in your life and u will be amazed ao he will show u things u dint expect. i av been in your position before and what i did was just to pray about it, though i was deeeply hurting i had to let go of the guy and after about 6 months he came back to me free and available and the relationship is growing stronger. send me an email if there is snything else i can do kemiadekore@yahoo.co.uk I think he should ask for GODs will for his life to be done reguarless of which direction the lady in question goes  @poster Please leave the girl alone and find your own. When she entered her present relationship, nothing could have been better but now u claim she is not happy. Take a chance and speak your mind to her as a man and see how she feels. She might be miserable in that relationship and wants out
The mouth when she take say yes for the relationship na that mouth she go take end am |
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holythug (m)
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plz try not to break another mans . . .?
whatever 
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holythug (m)
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plz try not to break another mans . . .?
whatever
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Don1DeMaco
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at this time the guy probably broken the relationship and also has a broken heart because someone else has also done the same to him.
abi i lie?
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adeboo (f)
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Stay away from her until she is available otherwise she will see u as a pest.
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