He Wants Me Back: Wrong Decision?

@iice has said it. @Kangu, if I was in your shoe, I would not definitely go back to the guy who treated me like dirty! Stick with someone who love me dearly even better than old flame.

My ex-husband whom I divorced 14 years ago, at that time we were married for 5 years with horrible, loveless, constant workaholic freak, money-spending recklessly, family negligence and verbal abuse, he told me that i was not good enough for him and very paranoid thinking that i was one of those women (too materistic).

All of sudden 8 years ago after my finalized divorce, my ex-husband approached me admitting that he was foolish seeing how successfully, happiness and independently i raised with two teenagers soon became grown adults no matter how much i struggle to survive managing my own financial obligations so well. He did not see that I do not spend lavishly like him, because i am very consciously and conservative type.

My ex-husband doomed so many times to lose everything he have, too many evicted from apartment lease, too many car repossessed that he not able to pay bills on time. He does not sleep properly---work so hard on the job more than 80 hours a week and eat too much junk unhealthy food he went out too many fast food restaurants. Because he is still gambling addict spending his money RECKLESSLY don't give a damn about family support or health.

He now is very sick with 3 cancerous spread that already been removed by medically surgery. I have no pity or no feeling for him for a long time. NOTHING!!!

Dearie,i better tell u at this juncture that if he could tell it to your face then.then hey!!!!!!!!!!!1when u accept him back,who says he still  cannot do same.if i were u,i would look beyond the words and feelings he has for Uor those he probably have been whispering to you, You have survived without him all this while huh?so what's the  problem, think o