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OyinboNo1 (m)
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What is the deal here. I am christian. I really like this babe. We are seeing each other. Will her parents freak out? How liberal are muslims in Nigeria?
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cgift (m)
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What is the deal here. I am christian. I really like this babe. We are seeing each other. Will her parents freak out? How liberal are muslims in Nigeria?
Make sure her brothers are not th type that wear Micheal Jackson's length of trousers with their beards to their abdomen  |
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ajile2
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hi, if you ve read my most in pg 2 of "dating outside ones religion" maybe u ll understand me more, if you ve not seen it please go read it, all these things we re talking about doesnt matter. what matters is our whole individual equation of life. you can't blame your prospective in-laws. but what i ll advise you is be sure of what you want and can stand, if you re the onbe that can not stand seperate religion at home make sure your wife is ready to change before you go into it(also make sure she is not forced to do it,don't let her do it for love or out of pity)let it be what she can do without any regrets.but if you can stand the difference then just iron out your children initial faith,by the time they can make there choice they ll go for it.THAT OF HER PARENTS IS A SMALL ISSUE,NO PARENTS WANTS their KIDS TO BE UNHAPPY,ONES THEY DEE YOUR HAPPINESS COMING THEY LL GIVE THEIR CONSENT. let us remember that in heaven ll re all on our own,no parent ll speak for any child,so lets carry our cross from earth all the best dear!
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OyinboNo1 (m)
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Thanks Ajile - I'll have a search for your post.
I'm not against two religions at home, and if my children decided they wanted to be muslim, I would support them, so long as it is not assumed.
Her family do seem quite liberal, but I'm not sure if their daughter's boyfriend's faith is a line in the sand which they won't cross.
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nwando
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make sure her dad does not have a bow and arrow. Those people can shoot without missing |
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dafidixone (m)
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Will a good Christian be confused on who to marry?
Pray hard for God clear direction.
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olabowale (m)
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If you are serious about her, then there should be no sex before marriage. Further, you should go and learn about Islam and convert, before you marry her. Thats the greatest achievement. If she is from my family, you will have to deal with me, if you go out of the boundaries set by Islam.
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cgift (m)
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Further, you should go and learn about Islam and convert, before you marry her. Thats the greatest achievement. If she is from my family, you will have to deal with me, if you go out of the boundaries set by Islam.
Who says? You want to produce another victorious terrorist? I think, she should be the one to convert. (just kidding). On a more serious note, the guy in qustion is obviously not a serious christian or at best, a one by mouth. Brac yourself, get to know Christ. Get his leading. If His spirit leading shows that she is your wife, then go for her and seek to build a good christian home together. Anything other than this shows you are probably lustful. |
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OyinboNo1 (m)
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Thanks for the input, particularly the constructive comments. I'm not pretending to be the greatest Christian, but I lead my life in a good way, and happen to really like a muslim girl. I'm not going to convert to another religion, nor abstain from pre-marital sex. I was just hoping for views from people who are muslim / close to muslim families, on the likely reaction from what seems on the outside to be a fairly liberal muslim family. If a LTR is not allowed within the terms I have mentioned, I'll have to reconsider my options. Thanks guys.
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olabowale (m)
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If I were to be able to speak to the Muslim woman, who is performing Zina, fornication with you, I will advice her to leave you alone. To run away from you, immediately and very stay far from you! You defiled yourself, even though you claimed not to be a good Christian. Whats worst, is that you could not keep the secret between her and you, secret. If anyone who know you and her and did not know that you used to sleep together, will know it now, by the entry under your name.
If that Muslim woman, has any fear in God and wants to have sex, she should be married. She should marry to a muslim man, who is at least decent enough, but a believer in God, which is what you are not. There are Muslim men in London, and i do not know what she wants in a man who can't keep secret like you and who can even clean himself properly, when he does either numbers 1 and or 2!
This goes to my primary argument all along, that Christians, by and large have little or no shame at all.
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