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drbigdaddyg (m)
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Is love a factor in boy/sugar mummy dating?
My fellow people, it still seems dreamy when I see 'mamas'[old women] dating boys. Can this be out of love? Let me know before I 'kolo' <edit: please supply interpretation of slangs you use on this forum>
Then, what can originate such affairs?
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mamba (m)
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[This is caused by] poverty! These boys are looking for money from the old women aka "sugar mommy".
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hot-angel (f)
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They both benefit from each other. The Old woman (sugar mommy), calls the young boy, her boy toy. And the young boy calls the old women, His source of income. If the woman isn't just a sugar mommy...i mean if love is a factor, i think it's okay. But if it has nothing to do with love. I think it's just crazy and probably fun.
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kazey (m)
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hehehe guys and what they do. Well i can't date someone that is as old as my mom. And i guess the reason a lot of this guys date sugar mommies especially those ones overseas, is to get financial support. They need to pay their fees, eat good food, drive nice ride, leave in a condo man  . You guys, just leave them alone, jare. Or you want one for yourself  . Dont lie.  If you know what they are enjoying, the topic would be, how well does your sugar mommy treats you? |
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tcherokee (m)
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Guess u and hot angel are right. it is mostly about what they can get from each other. for the guys it's money and the women......well i shouldn't have to spell it out. i must confess though, as someone who has been approached by a "sugar mummy" they can make their offers veeery hard to refuse. especially if your not content with what u have. even though nothing came out of the "approach" there where times i used to wonder, especially when i was broke, whether i made the right choice. That was then sha and this is now and I'm kind of glad i didn't fall into her trap because sugar mummies are very very possessive (considering what they spend on u, do u blame them?) and i don't need that kind of aggravation in my life |
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Olatunji (m)
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To me this practice is abnormal but it is like we now live in the world in which only the absurdities reign supreme.Anyhow, it is an indication that this sinful world will end soon or how do you explain a woman that is as old or even older than one's mother to be in love with her son? It sounds crazy!!
Infact, if there is any other word to use apart from that I would use it definitely!
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kazey (m)
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My cousin would say "Abi you wan Marry Am?". You see the truth, is most guys are liable to falling into temptation.
Imagine, a sugar mummy offers you 10k dollars monthly in your account, your apartment fully furnished and paid for, and a key to a flashy ride, Maybe a convertible kompressor, or something of that simple calibre. And if you are schooling, all fees paid for.
All she wants in return is 2 days in a week, regular service, with occasional suprises.
Is it not tempting? How many guys would fall for it. I for one, would think three times before turning it down. I just wouldnt, but it is hell tempting.
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CalabarMan (m)
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When I was in school I used to wish I had a sugar mummy who could make all my financial troubles disappear overnight, it was all wishful thinking, I wonder if I would have had the liver to do anything if one came around, Imagine a wrinkled up and all sagging sugar mummy approaching me, I sure say the thing for no gree cooperate.
But then what is all this big deal about sugar mummies our campus babes all have sugar Daddies and they perform their duties well and spend the money they receive from their runs on the campus boy friend, who might be aware but are not complaining eh..
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legs (f)
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just for the sake of clarification are u referring to fat or wrinkled aged-looking women or the chic classy 50+ years we see these days that look as well-put-tugether as the average 30 year old woman; would that make a difference?
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kazey (m)
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When i think of Sugar Mommies all i can visualize is between the age of "30-50". Most of the time, they are the "Kosi Arugbo ni Ghana" (There are no old women in Ghana) Type. There are normally well dressed, Well Polished, tend to frequent beauty saloons etc, Most are either starved or Single, or Career type. Anything above that age range is insanity. Thats what I have came across, so far. Still yet to come across the wrinkled ones.
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Tali-Tali (m)
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Well for whatever reason, its all wrong.
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kazey (m)
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What makes it wrong? age barrier? if so ? why ? Is it culture, health, or religion? Just don't say it is wrong.
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Latoya (f)
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Dating sugar mummy is not bad at all o. the older they r the more experince they have |
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nddy (m)
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8)i agree with Latoya
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drbigdaddyg (m)
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Anyway, I have come to understand from una contributions that there is nothing wrong in doing that.
As for me oooooooo, no go area.
No shortcut to wealth @those doing it to get cash. HIV/AIDS IS REAL
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Latoya (f)
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Hey,everyone knows HIV is real o,
but that is a different issue entirely
Now is Sugar moms good or bad?
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Tali-Tali (m)
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Latoya, let's keep HIV/AIDS aside for now.
Situate yourself with an aged woman in love making,
it is not equitable at all. I lie sister?
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hot-angel (f)
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Latoya is a girl. don't situate her with an old lady.
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Latoya (f)
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OMG  Tali-Tali,what did u just say? i will pretend i didn't read it at all else hell will let loose |
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hot-angel (f)
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I am glad you choose to pretend. I want to see heaven not hell.
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Latoya (f)
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For my HotAngel,i will relax Just because of hotangel |
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Tali-Tali (m)
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No hotangel and latoya, don't relax. go a little behind and get clear before you come to begin to swell yourselves around.
did I say she is old? And are you old?
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Latoya (f)
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No u didnt say i am old,neither can u say that.
y did u say i shuld Situate myself with an aged woman in love making,
then tell u say i be Lesbian?
i beg take your time o
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hot-angel (f)
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hahahahahah... oh me gosh. Latoya got me cracking up. mmkay oo. tali tali..slow down.
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Latoya (f)
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u better Tell him now
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hot-angel (f)
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I already did oo.
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gina34 (f)
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Oh my God,.......... rolling on the floor ................u pople won,t kill me.
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hot-angel (f)
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I pray they don't.
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gina34 (f)
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hot-angel please help me to beg them.  |
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hot-angel (f)
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Begging oooo..don't kill her oo.
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Tali-Tali (m)
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I know you girls fear old age alot. this tell why it will keep you the whole day crying. go ahead and cry. |
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