Victim Of Rape (would U Keep:

Firstly, its a sad thing being raped, but i want to ask this question, Put yourself in the shoes of the victim, who was raped by an armed robber. Would u keep the baby?and Oh, if u were a virgin. Would u keep the baby knwing fully that the baby would always remind u of a sad story.

Post in and lets help those in this mess.

Hey Dear, listen its easier said than done u know?

U knw, i think u shuld be given a medal for this, because u've really answered well.

I certainly won't keep a baby with the genes of an armed robber.I'd save myself the pain of the lasting memory from the horrible experience,and save the baby from having to live with an unpleasant story about his father and birth.

I could never keep such a baby it will keep bringing back memories, memories which i very much wouldnt want to remember, besides, no baby would like the father to be some core rapist, some core rapist who raped his/her helpness mummy

no one can apprehend the meaning of rape until it has happened to them. first time since it happened i can say the word because thats what happened to me. something which i thought could never be possible.
ive lay awake many nights and had flashbacks of that early morning and thought how could i of prevented it but it all boils down to the fact i was in my house in my bedroom where i should be allowed to sleep or dress how i want, no one should be allowed to force their way into my bedroom. it doesnt end there, how can one be so cold and not take no for an answer. i didnt want him touching me but he wouldnt stop ,  he was so strong. i still remember crying and wanting him to stop, all i could do was lay there and wait until he finished, i didnt want to aggravate him so i did as i was told, i felt disgusted with myself, i hated my body, its only been 11 weeks since the awful tragedy which honestly still feels like yesterday, i can still feel the pain in my body most mornings when i wake up, i lay there crying, i try forget the incident but its so difficult, I'm ok for 3days and then not so good for the rest of the week. little noises around the house make me very apprehensive. i am now on antidepressants, I'm on a long journey to battle my depression ,  i hope one day i make a full recovery. as they say "what doesnt kill you makes you stronger". ive realised taking the easy way out  would only cause angst to my loved ones. i think of this as a test, i wont be destructed. the hardest thing ive had to go through and to relive it brings back painful memories which hopefully i shall be able to forget in time. i try to carry on as before but it wont ever be the same because this has changed me as an individual. I'm just not the same and i don't think i will ever be again. i don't wish this upon anyone, its the worst thing anyone can go through and I'm one of many unfortunate people who have had to go through it. all i know is i can't change the inevitable so i have to learn to live with what happened to me and get over it in time, even if that means i may never forget. just when i thought life couldnt get any worse i find out I'm pregnant and i have to face the difficult situaution, do i keep the baby or abort it?