Help Her Mother Is Insultive

Tell her not to take it personal, Just become more independent and be careful when she is around
Her mum is probably going through some financial/emotional messstress
she should be consoling her mum n she can talk to her mum normally when she is in a happy mood
n leave her alone when she is pissed 

_{she can either a burden or a rock} 

Whatever. I will tell my mom not to use that kind of language with me especially if my kids are around. I don't want them learning that kind of language. We can talk about whatever like civilized people.