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Goergey
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My subordinate wants me. Though married and unhappy, i feel the urge to give in.
We have kissed and touched the sensitive parts of each other but I am worried. She is very much into me now.
What do i do? Am beginning to fall in love too. Please don't crucify me!
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zignor (m)
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follow your heartbeats . . it works! 
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Nautillus (m)
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You are walking on dangerous grounds BE WARNED!!!!!!!!!! Besides, who's the married one? u or your subordinate? whichever, ITS WRONG. PERIOD!!!!!!  |
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MOCUMANI
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naaaaaaaaa!!!
Life don't work that way, you are bound to get burned sooner or later(believe me), its just emotions, be a man and put a check on them or you wont be any better than a dog on the street looking for bitches in heat.
peace man, i feel you
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omena555 (f)
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u should have asked for advice before u started kissing and touching your sensitive parts! well, i guess u have done it all! but for God sake, what u are into now is adultry and it is wrong. i think u should concentrate on making your marriage work. leave the lady at the office alone.
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ayoeze11 (m)
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The Devil is knocking at your door, please do not open
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jkpretty (f)
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The Devil is knocking at your door, please do not open
Nah! He has opened, he's just waiting for the consequences. |
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finekid (m)
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It's wrong! And I'm sure you know it's wrong, so I wonder what you want to hear from us. . .  |
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nennygal (f)
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I guess you are threading on a dangerous path, you should be very careful. It may look like love now but i can assure you its not.Be on your gurads!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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obyann (f)
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What God has joined 2gether let no man put asunder. Be careful before you cry HAD I KNOW!
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oje (m)
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I don't believe you!
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chikaima (f)
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Goergey, please resist the urge to give in, you are seeking happiness where there is none, rather go home to your wife and settle whatever is the cause of the unhappiness remember in every marriage there are gd & bad times and the ability to conqer the bad times is what builds every marriage into happy homes. Ask God to give you the Grace you need. Gd luck
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Emperoh (m)
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Please find out the tonic your marriage is lacking and buy a clue from this affair on how to make it work. Infidelity is unpardoanble. What if it were the other way round how jealous will you not be?
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conda00410 (m)
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take it slow man,,,,
seems like you're on the fast lane which leads to destruction,
take it real slow, real slow,
peace
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osculate (m)
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There are two rules:
1. never have an office relationship (the end result is always sour), before long she'll see herself as your second wife sorry office wife and she starts making demands on your time (everybody wants attention) which can't always fulfill and as such one day kasala go burst. And trust me whether u like it or not it will have an effect on both of u's output at work. Its easier if both of you are married because u both have something to lose but in a case where one is not married the other person is putting so much at stake because the unmarried one has got nothing to lose, the moment u want to back out n she still interested trouble go start o and whether u like am or not kasala must burst.
2. always obey the first rule.
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poochy (f)
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Why now? ? You shouldn't have done that. Now that u have done it, hope is not lost. You can still disconnect from your subordinate. Remember,once u are married, the divorce door should be slammed. I know there must be a way of making your marriage work out. Afterall, u don't know wot stuff the other woman is made of. There is nothing like a marriage in heaven,everybody just works hard to make theirs work out. Do the same. God doesn't take adultery lightly so,TRY ok? God help you.  Take clue from this illicit affair and look for the things that is making it grow, then add it to your own marriage,abi? Shikena |
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uche1 (m)
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give it to her if she needs it,
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yomola (m)
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What is the cause of the unhappiness in your home?, can't you and your wife talk it over? Who started touching who first you or your surbodinate?
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wakagirl
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Solution to unhappy marriage is definitely not engaging in extra marital affair except you are the 'me lolorun wi' otherwise you don't need her to make you happy. You can only derive happiness fromit which can never last but you can derive joy which last forever from your home if you make it work. Check what is not making you not to enjoy your marriage find solution to it and that's it! I know people who have gone out to find the happiness they can not get in their marriage and they end up getting more than they bargained for.
I know you must really be enjoying that relationship now but believe me it will not last and at the end you will still have your wife so why not iron things out at home.
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Goergey
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My wife is not just into romance/sex. i am and that making me
do what i ordinarily wont do. I am a handsome guy (apologies).
i started the office thing like a fling and now the lady is overwhelmed
and want me to touch her everyday. She is too much into me now.
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almondjoy (f)
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Crucify you? Not at all. Please you have my blessings. Like it is a new feeling? And you say you are married? All these lie lie threads sef! Are you not a man? All you have to do is eat a dish once or twice and it ceases to please you. Even me, I am like that too. So please I am not disappointed at all. Infact, you feel very normal to me and I empathize with you. Nuffing strange here! It is all about "African values"! Una yansh dey stay for one place? Like this is your first time of turning tricks. Please I am not impressed. You are an African man and it is your M.O. even with all the holy communion every sunday. Please come back and tell us about the next fling in about one week's time! This girl must be feeling really special! Thanks to you lover boy--Felix Liberty! Abeg commot make we see road! |
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autopilot
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get real! you know you are not in love.
you are just loving the exitement. better come back to earth and take a cold shower
because getting involed in the office will only bring you loads of wahala.
better go teach your wife the things wey you like before you mess up your marriage.
you hear?!
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D-reloaded (f)
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It'd be funny if your wife actually planned with this woman to test you.
I hope you are ready for the incriminating pictures. Rofl.
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Johnchelse (m)
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Man, you've enter into the institution. And remember, it is the greatest institution that has no end except you drop out.
What you need is the ability to control and manage your home. why are u looking 4 peace where there is none? Being in love with the other lass will not affect your marriage for better but add to the problem that has been evolving in the time past.
Find a way out of no way to control the situation in your family. I think that is the only solution to your problem now.
God will give help u. (Amen)
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saintade01 (m)
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That is Adultery , You need to flee . This can't be LOVE because because real LOVE brings no curse from God  |
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autopilot
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better think about it and end it now. . .
that is if you go fit,
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Sweet T (m)
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@Almondjoy
Please take it easy madam, you go give a black man hypertension o . The man is got a privates and if he wants to you use it, i see no problem other than he is married !
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pinfada (m)
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G,  Ever hear d tory about that fella when slice him wetin call off 'because d tin dey make am sin and bible say, d thin wey make u sin, cut am off? May be u need to consider d same. There is a disaster waitin' to happen as i dey see so. Flee from evil, and if u no flee, well enjoy it while it lasts ( 2 month or 2 years or, ) and then endure it forever. Na ya hand he remain.  |
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mynat
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@ poster please don't dip your privates[s][/s]pen in the company ink or else you will mess up your white shirt.
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