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Leilah (f)
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LOL at holy ghost pepper you'll need more than holy ghost pepper to tame them. Glad I don't live in nigeria!  PS is this missy he is all over married? I doubt it Shame on all you cheaters hard working wives at home waiting for you with all your favourite foods 
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n-guage (m)
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Sing this song to your wife when she finds out. She'll laugh it off and tell you to cheat more.
Thinkin' my heart don't got nothing to do with my p.ennis He got a mind of his own and he just be seeing shit And I don't want to cheat but I don't be saying shit I try to jack off he ask me who is you playin' wit? But I know he love you he told me you was his favorite
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lexington
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My brother,
When yu told your wife "i do" at the altar, you sealed the bond between the two of you so that whether you want to do and don't want to do, you have to do. Now, having an affair is simply telling yourself and everyone that loves you that you are not capable of keeping to your words. And you know your word is your bond.
How would your wife feel if she found out that you'r doing something like this. You don't "love" your subordinate your hormones are raging out of control, what you think you feel for her is actually your throbing privates at work.
Pull up a chair, turn out the lights and think this through. I can assure you'll come out a changed guy.
That woman at home that you think makes you unhappy is actually one of the best thing that has ever happened to you.
Be strong
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jandor (f)
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my advice is that, you should try 2 work things out in your marriage because its a life contract and stop flitting with yr subordinate.
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amaikama (m)
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Poster! follow your lustful heart and ruin your marriage or follow your heart to find what you are about to loose. 
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aisha2 (f)
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This marriage is doomed, first you find love letters addressed to your wife, and now your are in love with your surbordinate. Either you are in a marriage sanctioned by satan or your are a Nollywood Movie writer with an active imagination
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amaikama (m)
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Aisha! this is how it is, Satan sent the letter to tell the hubby that the wife is cheating, he now construct a scene where he will be lust with his subordinate cause the marriage at first was blessed by Satan so that a naija script writer would pick the piece together and write.  for u and me to wonder. 
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Frankies (m)
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I can't help but yawn and wonder when men will come up with better excuses for their illicit affairs besides"my wife made me do it". That phrase is getting rather old and boring. As for you poster man,I won't judge or crucify you but honestly,I don't know what you want us to say about your affair that isn't glaring. Thank God he gave us all the ability to discern good from evil.
Frankies, ease up on almondjoy,she was just trying to make a point, a valid one at that. almondjoy honey, silence would have been a better answer for him. Raining insults was not very nice regardless of what he had said.
You won't understand why I don't like that breathless and myopic fool.I don't mean to be rude to anybody but I hate it when some unacceptable walking robot will come in here and contribute blindly not knowing that people are influenced by what they read here. I apologise for my raw nature but I owe that slut no apology .I can only rest when I see this fool change for the better or better still , take her promiscuous nature to where she belongs. -A bothel. She will be suprise she met her above-match in a guy(A married one that so much loves and respects his wife, for that matter) instead of a lady. quite unbelievable to her.
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nankosa (m)
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Hi, Most of the posts have said it: IT IS WRONG; NOTHING GOOD WILL COME OUT OF IT; GO HOME AND LOVE YOUR WIFE; ETC. See this marital issue as any other challenge and find ways to overcome it for the good of your family.Remember what you went through to get married. Love is both a noun and a verb, but YOU HAVE TO DO IT B4 YOU CAN FEEL IT. All the best man.
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2dye4 (m)
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@poster, u don't crucifiction abi? wait till your wife descends on u!
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Frankies (m)
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Sorry, I am not that civilized. I am a Nigerian so I might as well act like one! In the only language understood by most Nigerian gutter snipes like Frankies. If I see who deserves respect--I will duly give it. Till then na gutter we go swim inside. Abi you hear say I dey find husband?  I am very good at that ghetto business too! When they kick us both out of this website then you all can have peace. Pickin when say im mama no go sleep--im no go sleep too! Rubbish! Let him come out again! Na im mama for village im go go insult oh and get away with am! Frankies the Nigerian Goat-phocker!!!!!!! Get this straight into that your blocked ''soft white tissue'' you called brain.( I can bet my dead granny that it is not). I don't need your respect , fool, I have enough from the people I meet everyday.So an insult from a decent being will be much more valued than a respect from a slut like you. So my ''deer''(Yes you are a deer) not dear, why not take a stroll to nearest bridge and do the right thing. Get a brain. you pitiable fucktard
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Gent
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D fear of God is D beginning of wisdom.
Whatever a man (or woman) sow, that they shall reap.
My friend, love and reconcile with your wife, RUN from adultery, it only lead to `, Had i known`.
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deekseen (m)
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Everyman thinks he's an action hero and will always try to surmount the insurmountable no doubt, but you're getting too far with the 'emotions' thing. You can't have that kind of emotions for two women. I'm happy that your conscience is not dead. Since it has started pricking you already all you have to do now is desist from your earlier plan of action. That woman may be human and all that, but believe me, that is the DEVIL in DISGUISE. Now is the time for you to stop the DEVIL before blaming the DEVIL when the deed is done.
I believe you're a wise mana word should be enough!
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zimba315 (m)
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i think that stuff is very deadly,even if u are not married office relationship is not easy and not advice to be engaged in it because am a victim of one and am still going through hell,please try and caution it so that it won't back fired.
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weebee (f)
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My subordinate wants me. Though married and unhappy, i feel the urge to give in.
We have kissed and touched the sensitive parts of each other but I am worried. She is very much into me now.
What do i do? Am beginning to fall in love too. Please don't crucify me!
I wonder what you are doing kissing and touching another woman's sensitive parts when you are married. Can a man carries fire in his blossom and not be burnt?
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chychy (f)
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I f you're d married one, what have u done to change your "unhappy" situation?
You r a guy so your wife will definitely 4give u, isn't that what we always do? 
If your wife is cheating on u, would u like it even if both of you're unhappy, she's still your wife innit?
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goldboy
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@ poster
please i beg of u stop and stop right away because it will just cause more hurt, pain and anguish.
just go to God in prayer now because u have already gone far by touching ursefs and doing all those stuff, repent now because when it starts the boomerang, u , your wife and kids will all pass through it together.\\
I don't know what is wrong woth your relationship/marriage oo but i want u to quickly resolve it because if u are not careful, this will lead to more downward falls and it will not be a sweet tale at all.
pray. fast about it and get close to God, the devil is at work and flee fast,
also, remember she is your surbordinate, do u remember Mr Ikemba Iweala's story(hubby to Ngozi Iweala.) or av u heard about the story of David in th bible??
GOD LOVES You.
SO FLEEE NOW
LETS know how it goes, I am praying for u
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angelq (f)
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man i really do think you should try your best possible to make your marraige work out for you. look out for the positive things in your wife behaviour try to communicaite withher as well because it is only then that you will gain real happniess. And do not forget to hand over your self and your family to God in prayers he alone has the fainal say to this problem. the Lord is your sthrength. 
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ehie007 (m)
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If she is yoruba please run because she might have magun. Beside that no comment, 
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moondust (m)
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u dey fcuk up o, guy
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idea (m)
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hi all,i think i have to invite almond & frankies to my court room.what is wrong with u both? u guys are educated and adults i believe.please let's be our brothers' keepers.please let's bury the past and move on.i enjoy it when people get assistance here after we profer candid and constructive criticisms & adivce.almond and frankies i would appreciate it if you sort out whatever grudges u have for each other.thanks in anticipation for your cooperation.
Nairalanders.this is for every one of us that rain insults for one reason or the other.please we are all one.thanks.
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hafees (m)
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My brother, no marriage is perfect, since u said she's not so hot about sex/romance, just try and teach her, cus some women even find sex painful and unenjoyable. for lack of romance, i don't know the no of children u guys have, its may be too much to cope with them, house chores and then satisfying oga. take her out som time where u can see couples necking or holding hands, so that she can see what she's missing. better still try create a good environment inside the house, play love songs, buy her suprise stuffs coming back from work, make her special on her birth day, am sure she would yield.
u never can tell maybe u shld also work on your love making stunts, when some women are not satisfied they may not want to 'waste' their time doing it. have you ever made her ask for more, you need to work, grap herbehind in the kitchen, kiss her at the slightest opportunity, say nice things to her, all women love it. she would change and i bet you will have a wonderful home, i started this 2 years ago and its working wonderfully. you can imagine now why my wife wants to get our daughter to bed earlie now. much depends on you. Good luck.
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trillions
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what is evil is evil, there is no other name to call it but evil. when u step on the pathway of a serpent, get prepared for the consequences for as long as the earth remains, there will always be seed time and harvest time. i will advice u to have a deep talk with your wife concerning the issue, tell her your needs and desires. also seek GOD'S face and help from good marriage counsellors. UR THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE, DON'T SWEEP ISSUES UNDER THE CARPET. BE BOLD TO FIND ANSWERS .
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almondjoy (f)
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Get this straight into that your blocked ''soft white tissue'' you called brain.( I can bet my dead granny that it is not).
I don't need your respect , fool, I have enough from the people I meet everyday.So an insult from a decent being will be much more valued than a respect from a slut like you. So my ''deer''(Yes you are a deer) not dear, why not take a stroll to nearest bridge and do the right thing.
Get a brain. you pitiable fucktard
An IT student doing internship in "Gboko" somewhere is a match for who?  You have already graduated to ITT -International-Thief-Thief. Can't even stay in school and graduate like your mates---Picking up prostitutes all over the place and Pimping your children on the streets of God knows where. Bloody Illiterate who never contributes any meaningful thing to any topic including those in "games" section on Nairaland. Pimp! Do you have a job? Please IT is not a profession these days--I think it has reclassified as a "hobby". That is what my kids use to Play Nintendo and Sony Games. Every 2 year old is a "Programmer" in the real civilized world. Go back to school and get a real job! You can only use that terminology in Nigeria---Once you step out of there, all you can do is work at McDonald's or "Throw Paper" at night as a Newspaper vendor like all your IT mates over here. So make sure you keep that shop in Otigba and continue yahoozeeing! Moron! IT? Locally educated tout! Please go back to school and read something other that how to "open e-mail" accounts for 419 and set up cyber cafes in Otigba! I will glagly "fuctard" a Hummer with my slutting capablities and employ you as one of my drivers I send to the market as errand boys! That is all you will be good for. Goat phocker! You will soon graduate to molesting "turkeys" judging from the size of your equipment in the "goat thread" and your picture will be posted all over Nairaland in the sexuality section like the last time! See Match of a guy--retarded SOB like yourself---talking of soft white tissue located in your rear end where your brain resides! I am waiting for you. You idiot of unknown parentage! Do you specialize in anything other than "Old toothless sluts"--since one gave birth to you? Please Happy turkey day with your Motel Six Wife--and who ever fathered those children you said you have!
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yinka rose
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you need to stop the extra marital relationship before it stops you and your career then it is your responsibility to love your wife you need the patience you used to win her you know that women are emotional beings study her and you will enjoy her
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spoilt (f)
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Here they go again. some people are ruining this thread for the rest of us. 
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kobopower (m)
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You are married and you're also touching, mingling and "doing kabukabu" with your unmarried subordinate? Now you're here to ask us what you should do? If no be sey I don change, I for talk sey the people wey dey follow you plenty no be small! You've already swallowed the poison. Make a quick u-turn and save your marriage, or continue with your "kabukabu actions" and crash on third mainland bridge. Yeye!
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yimiton (f)
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Wish we lived in a country where subordinates can sue superiors for sexual assault. Boy, some good money would have exchanged hands here and someone would have lost his job 
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Seun (m)
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It's not sexual assault if the two parties consent to it.
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yimiton (f)
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Not quite true if it's a superior. The company is whom you sue. The sex here does not matter, (female or male) especially if the act was perpetuated in the office. This may not apply in Nigeria but it does in other civilized countries.
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yimiton (f)
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Not quite true if it's a superior. The company is whom you sue. The sex here does not matter, (female or male) especially if the act was perpetuated in the office. This may not apply in Nigeria but it does in other civilized countries.
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