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Mustay (m)
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Virginity ain't lack of opportunity
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jeron1 (m)
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what time?who I'm i discouraging?did i tell u I'm discouraging anybody?
to hell wt all this virgin and respect ,or virgins making good partners ,what da heck is all this
how men respect their virgin wives?how many virgins make good partners?how many virgins are faithful to their partners after tasting d sweet fruit?
@all d virgins
u people should not misunderstand me,but d earlier u stop making it look as if d non virgins are stupid,way ward and useless d better for u
a non virgin might have a sweet character that even 20 virgins all together can't beat her to it
girl, don't take this thing personal. please be sincere with urslf for once. where u happy after the time ur did it for the first time, this thing is logic. its a euphoria. if u start doing it early u will grow old but if u stay put u will be very younger that ur age. think about it and do a study of it(assignment) |
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lady u
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girl, don't take this thing personal. please be sincere with urslf for once. where u happy after the time your did it for the first time, this thing is logic. its a euphoria. if u start doing it early u will grow old but if u stay put u will be very younger that your age. think about it and do a study of it(assignment)
u see,I'm not taking it prsonal,but wt d way d virgins post shits on this forum about good morals and so on,and how they make good partners baffles me a friend of mine who got married as a virgin is been used as a punching bag in her husbands house every other day,where is d respect in it?d fact that she married as a virgin does not make her mrs holy does it? lets drop all this viriginity rubbish abeg |
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whitelexi (m)
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I wont respect shit for being a virgin-shit, my mind is simple - if u end up there (Mrs) then u have my respect. But when critically analyzed, it will most likely be a non-virgin because one of the strenghteners of a good marriage is the skillz in bed - if i have to reduce my game to your level then it aint worth it - for me.
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lady u
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I wont respect shit for being a virgin-shit, my mind is simple - if u end up there (Mrs) then u have my respect. But when critically analyzed, it will most likely be a non-virgin because one of the strenghteners of a good marriage is the skillz in bed - if i have to reduce my game to your level than it aint worth it - for me.
lmao  its not as if I'm criticising d virgins,no I'm not,but let them stop this their holier than thou attitudes ,its irritating,afterall some of them r good head(bj) givers them go come dey act like say them too innocent,wats d diff now between them and non virgins i know of some virgins that will even strip themselves naked and engage in fore play wt their partners and also give d guy a bj,so werrin we dey talk about here,is it only d hymen we r talking about?what about d body.shouldnt it be respected too? abeg make i hiaaaa word 8 @topic i don't want a virgin guy on my bed,i will personally kick his butt off d bed  |
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Adekan (f)
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hey guys,
i am kind of new here. but what i will say is that, nobody should condemn another (the this-virgined the virgin, and vice-versa)
Life is about the choices we make, we either learn from them, and become better people, or we run from them, and still remain miserable as ever.
Personally, i think that it is very good to maintain one's virginity, until marriage. it does not guarantee future happiness, but it maintains your integrity, especially as a woman. more important than maintaining your virginity, is building your character, so that you would make, a man a very happy husband
now coming to the issue of sex, people get wrong. two people can have sex just like dogs, cows, and other animals do it. but what makes us different is the involvement of our souls in the act. the involvement of our beings. a man that truly loves you, will not seek his own pleasure or sexual release, he will seek your own pleasure, because, in turn, your pleasure will bring him pleasure, because he loves you. i am speaking from a woman's point of view.
the reason, we all talk like this is because, we are all self seeking, and not giving.
believe it or not, you will NEVER truly enjoy sex, until, you do it selflessly. and believe me, sex is worth waiting for. most women that lost their virginity before marriage often regret it, because in the end you feel used - I am talking from experience.
so please, if you're still a virgin out there, keep your head up, but more still, it's about who you truly are, how much character you've got. if a man can land a virgin, who has character, then, he has found a treasure indeed
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Ogboraph (m)
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@Adekan you ve spoken well i like ur sence of  But as you said u speak frm expo which mean you are not a virgin either. But don't say those who lost it wil regret it after marriage regret. And don't say keeping ur virginity will or is building ur Character, it is wrong. When you guy are analizing alway put your self in the shoe; what about Girls or women that were Rape or some stupied animalistic so called Men Took advantage of their Virginty by force or deciet. I ve meet virgin before but after my first and second experience with them i swore never to marry a Virgin. the third person was begging me " please do it for me i am ready and i feed you are the right man to take my Virginity" please i love you do it 4 me but i refuse after enough romans i told her i can not. Let her give it to another man; after she is openseceme then we will continue. Uptil today she hate me 4 that. She was my best friend but now hate me 4 not doing her virginity. I will love my wife mywife virgin or not |
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Amanijuls
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Are u a virgin?
Good luck!
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prophetwis
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marriage is covenant,when u are marrying a virgin the first contact will involve blood and that blood will introduce u to a binding covenant.ur two hearts now becomes one.that is what God meant that the two shall become one.if u are a virgin go for a virgin.if u are not u came marry any one.for Gem don't attempt it.
house note that a girls heart belongs to the guy who disvirgined her and the tendency is that she will be unfaithful to u.moreover a girl who is disvirgined has the tendency of comparing her husband to other men who have had her .if the husband is under performing sorry her ex might come in handy.most men today are raising children the never fathered as a result of this.to a virgin,her husband is the best performer and she is not comparing him to any other.with patient the can learn together and build a happy home
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kadijen
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marriage is covenant,when u are marrying a virgin the first contact will involve blood and that blood will introduce u to a binding covenant.your two hearts now becomes one.that is what God meant that the two shall become one.if u are a virgin go for a virgin.if u are not u came marry any one.for Gem don't attempt it.
house note that a girls heart belongs to the guy who disvirgined her and the tendency is that she will be unfaithful to u.moreover a girl who is disvirgined has the tendency of comparing her husband to other men who have had her .if the husband is under performing sorry her ex might come in handy.most men today are raising children the never fathered as a result of this.to a virgin,her husband is the best performer and she is not comparing him to any other.with patient the can learn together and build a happy home
when u want to give an advise,give it out,but don't criticise,condemn and judge all in d name of giving advise nobody is perfect |
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jeron1 (m)
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guy, e never do? any more discussion on this topic tin and i go kill sombody. make una go sleep and think of una lives
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success_07
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This is only an issue because we have allowed western influence into our lives in which the glamor that is attached to marriage on discovering that the newly wedded bride is a virgin. For once, let's ask our parents what this meant in their time.
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