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wahala2007 (m)
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i don't flaunt,i am down to earth but the moment i meet agirl the next thing is that they start asking for money.(i met a girl once ,the next 30 mins ,she asked for cash).wHEn will the love me unconditionally?please help.
What diplomatic steps ,so i take because i dnt like turning people down (both male and female) when they ask 4 money.I believe they are (esp girls) taking advantage of this my cheerful life
please help
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zignor (m)
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i met a girl once ,the next 30 mins ,she asked for cash) If it is true, then you must have boasted about your cash 
And she want to verify . . . .seeing is believing  |
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niceuzor
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: zignor - that's trash  let's help the guy out because i'm facing same problem here ! 
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sillyboy (m)
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@ topic what do u expect girl to fall in love with if not for quids?. . . . . . . d*ck?. . . . . . hell no! Every man has got that, but not all men has got money. |
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zheroes (m)
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solution: be real, you seem to knowingly or unknowingly give the impression you ve got loads of cash that even when you are dry they still want to suck your ass out.
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wahala2007 (m)
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the bad thing is that after they have had their fill,they just jilt you or they start a quarell.When can i find a true love?  |
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wahala2007 (m)
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contrary to popular opinion I don't give any impressions,i just live my normal life but people just ask for money (even guys).Maybe I am born to give and not to be loved |
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zheroes (m)
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possibly you meet the naughty ones all too often, birds of same feathers flock together.
but you are not naughty
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zheroes (m)
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hey man you have said it all, you simply need to change your attitude.
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zheroes (m)
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i have met girls that first contact with them all that comes to your mind is have sex and dump them, i guess same goes here in your case, they need ypur wad you know.
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zignor (m)
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@niceuzor . . .you don't mean it
@Thoniaslim . . .thanks, dear
@zheroes . . .thank you for educating the dude
@poster . . .use your tongue to count your tooth
zignor is cool 
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niceuzor
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zignor - . . Did i just said i'm facing same problem . . OMG  . .Hell NO. that's Nairaland Error " N/L 404"
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zignor (m)
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maybe, it is a slip of keyboard
lol
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excanny
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Sometimes this 'girl and money issue' is a pain in the neck. At times, you don't even flaunt your wealth and you still get asked for money by girls. Due to the bad programming many girls recieve from childhood, for example their fathers giving monies to the mother, its become a natural cycle for some girls when they meet a guy.
Another issue why they are always asking is you. Not that you flaunt as you claim you don't, but i think your problem is showing too much interest at an early stage. So those girls percieve you as desperate and their prices go high. Remember Economics 101, the higher the demand for her attention, the higher the price for her attention. When you meet a girl you like, just chill out.
But no matter how cautious you are, you still come across girls that will always ask even before you finished talking. What i do is this. Over the years i have realized that some times its a woman's way of testing you, while sometimes it's really to 'chop you'. So what i do in order not to offend the right girl is to give them when they ask, but i make sure it's 'peanuts'. A good girl will appreciate the act of giving,not the amount involved. Thats my personal technique. Hope it helps your unfortunate destiny and any other guy's
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