My Sex Diary

Concluding part of A crazy experience
 

I trepidated until I got home. I drove slowly fearing that the car would turn over. I saw her beside me even though she had dropped off the car. Walahi I don enter my own. I believed I had taken my adventure too far. I got home safely. I relaxed a bit. I locked my door, changed my clothing and took a shower because I could not wait to do so at the Guest house. After the bath I became slightly relaxed. I felt like calling her, but I kept holding back. I got angered within me that what rude joke was that. I said within myself that after all we only had sex. My phones were far more than any fun we had. I gradually eased off the tension and concluded within myself that she was only posing a fake threat. In the evening I called my friend and we hung out together. I told him everything that ensued between Rita and I. He could not stop laughing. He said I should forget that nothing can happen. This gave me the confidence that I was safe. I got back into my house at about past 10pm. I slotted in a movie but slept off after 35mins on the chair. At midnight on the dot, my phone beeped. I had a text. It was from Rita. I shook. I remembered every thing that happened in quick succession. Fear re-engulfed me. She rained curses and abuses through the sms. She promised to do everything in her powers to make sure I pay for defaulting. I guessed tonight was the night. I believed within me that I had slept with a marine or related spirit. I dialed her number, she wouldn’t pick up. I used my two phones, to no avail. I hid my numbers, she did not goof it. NEPA struck, Power outage. I was stuck to the chair. Every where was dark and blank. My heart raced to my Bible. I used my phones to illuminate the room. The light level was inadequate. My heart beat was faster than usual. I sincerely don’t pray for a repeat. No be small thing. I stylishly crept into the room and turned my pillow where my bible resides except Sundays when I take it to church. God help us. Touching the bible I experienced gradual peace. I laid still on the bed expecting her to appear beside me on the bed. Nothing happened. I fell into a deep sleep. I was really tired. I woke up at about 6.30am.

For the first time I felt relieved. I said my prayers of gratitude that morning. I called her but she wouldn’t pick. Two days passed and nothing happened. I almost forgot about the event. Life continued as usual. Then she called. She threatened to come to my office to expose me. She went as far as saying she would come to my church to tell my pastor what I did. I wondered how she got my office details, only then did I remember that I gave her my card the first time we met. At this point I believed she had no occult powers. I threatened her back. I told her she was not safe if she dare tried any of those things she threatened to do. I ensured all my threats were on voice and not through sms. I had the inkling that she can report a threat on her life to the police and that can serve as evidence. I was to resume the next Monday. First day at work nothing happened. She sent me a text on Wednesday to show up on Friday. She asked I prepare well for her. I was confused. I told the security guys at the gate to refuse any lady seeking to see me entry into the premise. I shook all day expecting the worse. She did not show up. Saturday, my babe visited. She guessed I was bothered about something. She kept asking but I denied. At midnight again that night Rita called. She used another number. Hearing her voice I instantly knew she was the one. She started raining abuses on me. She asked how I felt on Friday. She said she has just started and I should expect her soon at a date best known to her. My babe kept staring at me. I politely told her to please stop calling my number at odd hours that I was not ready for a relationship, using that as a decoy to give an impression that the person on the other line wants a relationship. I disconnected the call and switched my phone off immediately. My babe asked to know what the problem was and I gave her a cock and bull story. I can post this because she is a banker and does not visit NL. On Sunday we went to church. We had fun after church with my brothers visiting. I was called out by one of my brothers to have a private talk as regards way forward in the family. Unknowing to me I left my phone on the table in the living room. Rita called. My babe picked it. Kasala don burst. I returned after the gist with my brother only to be faced by my babe. She looked impossible, calm but disappointed. I asked what the problem was but she kept looking. She later pointed to my phone. I picked the phone to check for any new sms, none. I checked received calls, I saw Rita’s. My heart sank. My babe asked why I did that to her. She told me that my phone rang and she was bringing it to me outside but stopped to pick it when she saw it was a female calling. She said immediately she picked all she heard were abuses and insults. She said Rita paused when she found out it was a female that picked the phone and asked who she was. She said she answered her (Rita) that she was my fiancée. She said immediately Rita started laughing and said you don’t have a husband yet because there are many contenders that I also lied to her to marry her and she would stop at nothing to achieve her goal. She said the line went off abruptly. She said she used her phone to call her back fearing that she might not pick up the call if she used mine. She said she kept persuading her to explain what happened but Rita wouldn’t bulge. I told her to disregard whatever Rita said. I lied to her that I met Rita a long time ago around the area my parents were staying and we had fun then. I said of recent we jammed again at a supermarket, and we innocently exchanged numbers, only for her to start pestering my life with calls of love and bullshit about remembering the past. If she believed me or not I can’t say. Before the end of that day this babe sent at least 3 text messages to my babe’s phone on how impossible I was as a person to marry her. She kept on telling her to think well before going ahead with her plans to marry me. We were both confused. She asked if had a vow with the babe in the past and ran, I said no. I said the only truth was that I disvirgined her.
She than said no wonder she kept on ranting. I begged my babe to call her and tell her that she was aware of my randy nature and that she has been begging God to help me overcome the habit. To also tell her that I have slept with her cousin and friend before in the past before we both got serious, but she forgave me. To my surprise she did as I said. She even spiced up the gist than I told her. Rita goofed it and from what I gathered from my babe, she even prayed that I truly change.

No one would believe it, that laid to rest all the pain and fear I had been nursing for days. My phones secured, no more threats, my liberty guaranteed. My babe was the saving grace. I gave her a gift. She did not understand why but I did. 1 month after, Rita called me and apologized for her behavior. She said she found it difficult to forget and she has withdrawn the phone issue. She really sounded remorse, like a reborn or new convert. I deleted her number from my phone to avoid any new wahala. She became very nice, always asking after my babe. She was back in school. We became good on the phone friends because she was always calling.

I did not want to set my eyes on her again not for a while. To my surprise she walked into my office unannounced. I was told at the gate that a lady was around to see me. She lied about her name and claimed to be a customer. I goofed it. I asked that she be led to my office. I became dumb on sighting her. She just smiled and asked to sit down. I obliged. She told me she was not spoiling for any war but needed to see me. This babe is pretty. We chatted for a while. I had quite a lot to do that day. 5pm elapsed and we were still in the office. My thoughts started running riots but I swore to conquer the temptations. Suddenly it was 7pm. I left my office for the other offices (no be say we plenty like that) to check, everyone had left. Only Rita and I in the office. The truth made me shake. My long thing became hard, wanting to tear my trousers apart. I could not control it. I untucked my shirt to hide the bulge below from her. She noticed as soon as I walked back to my office. Our eyes met, she was standing. We unleashed then and there. I locked the door to my office. At least the most senior partner who I report to was out of the country. We kissed like mad people. She kept on screaming baby I love you. That babe is hyper sexed. I spread her legs on the table. Sitting on my chair I sucked the hell out of her. She had her both palms on her breasts, rubbing them vigorously but in a sexy manner. She pulled my trousers down and sucked my privates. I pulled out my wallet, wore my umbrella and in her sitting position I banged her brains out. To me it was more of revenge. I squeezed her breasts at the same time hitting her hard. I left a hand on one breast and picked her clitoris in between the fingers of the other hand. It was more of three actions at a time. She wrapped her hand around my neck, gyrating her waist to my rhythm and sex song. I was out to kill. After she came, she sucked my privates. I came in her mouth. It was an experience. We both laughed. She joked that she would tell my babe. I begged her not to try it. She laughed and said she was only joking.

After that day we haven’t seen. She said hi on New year day. She even sent a message to my babe. Different people in this world. What an experience.

Cheers

@ blackman,
I know it sounds reali absurd. I can tell you 2day that typing this story brought back a lot of  fears i experienced before when it happened. The major reason this babe and I havent seen since the last time was because I don't want to repeat the mistake the third time. The second time was bad enough. Believe it or not this is a true life story. Could not help not giving those dry details you complained about. Nice criticism, but make una stop this issue of HIV or banging spirits. Afterall no be me bad pass

holy eye,    there berra be continuation on the last page o,  i'm here at no 4,  i go vex if i turn to page 5 and no see nada

ol boy, dese ur posts na true abi na rely of blue films wey u de watch? hmm. God abeg o!

Bros no long tin. no hard feelings either. We are free to post our observations. If no be me d tin happen to, possibility dey say i fit doubt am. I just feel i would not gain much from posting unreal stories

keeping it real

@Holyeye,
Well I wonder how u manage to write stories like CHINUA ACHEBE, WOLE SOYINKA, 

Its really crayzie u know, u sit down and compose such long stories with ur own ajasa just to make people read, U dey really try, 1 More plate please

@ Darellone,
Thanks for acknowledging season 3 with such good comments. More gists to come bro. 1love

@holyeye.

Bros i must confess that u can dare the real devil.

you are too much,

Holy eye nothing do you!

da holy yeye keep it up if i enter lagos shey we fit hook up i be young man with no fiance' so i no get anything 2 fear because naija chics don dey behave them selves and all dose misguided pastors if u can't read it and enjoy den at least shut up, God help u holy yeye sha ur bible house na under ur pillow and ee dey see daylight once a week??lol

bros, holyeye or whatever u call yourself r u the only one with sexual experiences? u should try writing a book if u noemally kiss and tell. i must agree with some of the posters that they are all in ur dreams. if proper investigation is carried out am sure u never shaft before, take am easy on the stories abeg.

@Holyeye,

As a master of f**Ks i believe you will still have other sexcapades. Would you try and keep the fire burning by Posting the next Experience?

Try and package your Diary for sale and see how much you will make from this adventurous Sex experiences.

I am indeed impressed at your generousity, for you to share all these thrilling stories for free.

I am convinced that you are a S*X Genius.

WHO ARE YOU? if  nairaland will give an award then you should be honored with  the MOST S*xuaL

NO LONG THING.

Peace Nigga!

na god get power

With men and women intermingling in various spheres of life that were gender-specific in the past (home, the workplace, sports, school), people of the opposite sex are discovering new common ground and more reasons to be friends. But with the media constantly showing male/female friendships evolving into romantic relationships, many are convinced that a long-term, truly platonic friendship between individuals of the opposite sex just isn't possible. Romantic interest, physical attraction and sometimes, the jealousy of significant others can threaten to sabotage a cross-gender friendship. However, those risks can be circumvented by setting boundaries from the start. It's tricky, but it can be done.

[edit] StepsDetermine how you feel about the person, and how they feel about you. Be honest with yourself .


Do you find yourself fantasizing about what a relationship would be like with them?
If you weren't in a relationship, if they were single, or if something else wasn't in the way, would you probably be romantically interested?
Do they seem to be romantically inclined towards you? Remember that actions speak louder than words. Trust your gut feeling.
Do you really believe that this person is better suited to you as a friend than as a romantic partner? Why? Your answer to this question is what makes all the difference, and what will keep the relationship platonic if and when boundaries ever become blurred.
 
Talk about it over coffeeDefine your relationship as a friendship from the start. In any relationship, cross-gender friendships included, communication is key. Presumptions can lead to broken friendships, misunderstandings, and other problems down the line. Egos aside, address why you both want to be just friends. There's a period in every opposite sex friendship that you question whether or not you should be more. Address it early on. Both of you must want a strictly platonic friendship and understand that's all it will ever be. No matter what anyone says, it is possible to be just friends as long as you have that understanding (and a commitment to the friendship as just that) from the start.
Talk to your significant other. Ask your friend to talk to theirs. Any insecurities or trust issues within a relationship will be magnified by a cross-gender friendship, especially if the friend is obviously attractive. The opposite-sex friend can often become a scapegoat for relationship problems, and a repeated source of contention. Honesty is the best policy.


Acknowledge any borderline feelings from the start, and provide a reason for friendship that outweighs those feelings.


"Yes, I do think she is physically attractive, because I'd be lying if I said I thought she was ugly. But I'm not friends with her because she's pretty; I'm friends with her because, "
"Maybe he and I could've been compatible as a couple, but it doesn't matter. I met you first, and you and I fit together. I'm committed to making this work because I believe it's meant to be."
Tell your significant other what they have that your friend doesn't. The more you can think of, the better.


"Sure, I can talk to Taylor about work and philosophy, but you're the only person I feel comfortable with talking about my dreams and regrets."
"Pat's really fun to hang out with, but big deal. A lot of people are fun to hang out with. You're fun to live with. Pat's a disgusting, lazy slob around the house. I would never want to live with someone like that 'cause I'm a neat freak, and you know that."
Remind your significant other that you're committed to the relationship, and why.
 
Double dates can ease tensionInvolve the significant other(s). You should make an honest attempt to befriend their significant other and include yours. Coordinate get-togethers that you all can enjoy as a group. Include your significant other in outings with your friend. Jealousy is much less likely to be an issue if your significant other can get to know your friend. It's going to take time, especially if they don't believe in platonic friendships. Likewise, even if you don't like their significant other, understand there might be a little doubt and jealousy over the friendship. Find out what they like to do and suggest an outing for just the two of you. By becoming a friend to the couple, the doubts and jealousy usually vanish in time.
Minimize sexual tension. Don't be "touchy feely" with your friend, even if you consider yourself to be a naturally affectionate person, and especially if either of you are in a romantic relationship with someone else. Sure, it's possible to make physical contact without inciting sexual attraction, but hormones can play tricks on us. Don't give those hormones a chance to confuse your status as friends. Limit hugs and physical contact to the same amount you share with a sibling or a co-worker, depending on what you feel is appropriate, and what you think your significant other (or theirs) would feel comfortable with. If you find the need to hug and touch them more, then maybe you're not just friends.
Prevent borderline situations. Don't give people a reason to think you're more than just friends. Having a night out together is fine, but don't bring your friend into social scenarios where everyone else has a date. That is called dating, not friendship. You wouldn't ask your same sex friend to accompany you to your sister's wedding, so don't ask your opposite sex friend! If you are going somewhere that might appear romantic (e.g. a movie or a fancy restaurant) but you do not want it to appear that way, invite another friend of the same sex. Even then, people may insinuate that you are more than friends; be prepared for those suggestions, and think of how you can deny them gracefully.
Reduce contact or end the friendship if the boundaries can't be clarified or upheld. If your friend is attracted to you as more than a friend and can't seem to put that attraction aside, it's probably best to take the friendship down a notch. Keep contact casual, conversations short, and get-togethers brief. If the friend continues to press for a romantic relationship when you've made it clear that you don't want one, if they constantly trash talk your significant other (without good reason), or if they let their own significant other demean you, then perhaps the friendship isn't worth keeping, and this person should just be more of a friendly acquaintance.



[edit] TipsEvery friendship is different. It's possible to completely ignore all of this advice and still succeed with a cross-gender friendship, but it's not likely because of widespread preconceived notions, natural impulses, and the fact that no relationship is perfect. Consider these preventative measures and adapt them to your own situation as you see fit.
If it seems awkward to bring this topic up with your friend, casually send them a link to this article. They should get the hint.
Don't flirt. Teasing is normal and acceptable to the extent that you'd do it with your same-sex friends (unless it involves lots of touching and/or sexual innuendos).
When you're all together, pay more attention to your partner than to your friend. Encourage your friend to pay more attention to theirs.
Don't hide your friendship from your partner, but don't fuel any jealousy either by excessive one-on-one time with your friend or talking about your friend endlessly.
In any friendship, the dynamics change over time. An acquaintance you don't really care for all that much today might be your best friend a year from now. It's possible you and your friend will develop deeper feelings after a long, platonic friendship. But like any friendship, resolving whether to act on feelings requires honesty from both sides. It doesn't mean you were never platonic friends. It just means the friendship has changed like all do. React to the new feelings in a way that preserves the friendship and makes both of you happy.
These instructions really apply to any friendship where romantic interest and physical attraction is a possibility, including a same-sex friends where one or both are homosexual or bisexual.
Refer to him or her as "buddy" often. Give high fives and pats on the back* whenever possible (*upper back).



[edit] WarningsNever turn to your friend for physical intimacy. It doesn't matter if you'll still be friends in the morning. It's just not worth the risk. It'll not only threaten your friendship, but it'll also threaten the credibility of your friendship to a future romantic partner.
Don't meddle in your friend's relationships. If their significant other finds out you gave some "helpful" advice that they view as causing more problems, chances are, they will not want the friendship to continue. Your friend will have to choose and, either way, will lose someone they care about. Don't put your friend in that position. Give advice, but unless your friend is in danger or being abused, never put down your friend's significant other to your friend.
If your significant other will simply not accept your friendship, even after you've taken all the steps above over a reasonable period of time, you may be in a manipulative or controlling relationship and you may need to find a way out. On the other hand, your partner might have a valid complaint. Counseling could reveal problems existing in your relationship and provide the tools you need to improve it.
However, if you have a healthy relationship with your significant other, and he or she has serious misgivings about your opposite-sex pal, listen and pay attention. Your significant other may sense an attraction coming from the friend that you can't see because you are too close to the situation.

Season 4 out soon.

Hp w all doing great? Enjoy.

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