My Brother-In-Law And I

My brother in Law came visiting to spend the weekend with us.
He often jokinly admit that he loves my smell especially combined
with my sweat. I have had people say that to me even my husband.
That is his greatest turn on.
I could not go to church because i was a bit down and my brother inlaw offered
to stay and help out. We were both sitting in couch when he said i smell good.
He brought his nose close to my armpit, sniffed and bofore i knew it we were kissing.
It was so hot i couldnt resist him. We made love three times before my family came home.
He left on that sunday evening. Since then anytime he comes around, we get to smouch and
its getting into me.
I have made a mistake. I have told him we can't continue like this.
Somehow my husband suspect our closeness. what do i do?
I can't tell him the terrible sin i have committed.

u have really sinned against man and god am not here to critise u but all i am saying is that what u done is grevious and u have to get the courage to stop it before it breaks your mariage please
  If not for you but 4 your family and your kids if u got any please

Chei   See screw up! You're SCREWED! How could you?

chei 
trust me, if your husband ever finds out, that is it. your marriage is gone.

He can either save yourself, or fess up to your husband. Most people here would easily say that you messed up and need to tell your husband. But it's only a suggestion, and you can do whatever you want. But it's always best to have relationships. . .especially a marriage based on trust, and telling the truth. You need to tell your husband what has happened. There will be severe consequences, your marriage has a strong chance of ending because that is his brother.

wow, real mess up,be that as it may,I will strongly advised you ask God for 4givenes and get rid of that smell or scent.all the best.

it is really badoo, just stop the extra marital affair with your bro inlaws,
it almost happened to a my bothers friend wife. the husband based abroad,his wife with his people. her brother inlaw i.e the son of his mother's sister, started coming closer to her, being nice and all that, she being naive and so young, almost fell for him ,

well she was a bit lucky that her brother inlaw only fingered her,but still her husband is still feeling the pain after she has confessed to him. he is always feeling hurt and betrayed even after she has given him kids.

so you see just be carefulooooo

i am speechless, but the only way to this problem is for
u to ask for God forgiveness and he will make away
where there is seem to no way.

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Brother (in law). Can you imagine sleeping with your own brother? To me this is a bit like that and it's called INCEST. Maybe if you saw it in that light, you would stop any kind of feelings for this animal brother who does not mind sleeping with his own sister (in law)? I do not believe what happened between the two of you happened over night. It must have developed over time. You should have known it was inappropriate and stopped the feelings by rationalising yourself out of it.

I would  never recommend confession. You have to carry this cross for the rest of your life; that is if your brother(in law) does not let the cat out of the bag. Nevertheless, whatever the consequences, you have to live with it.

Best of luck, babe, because, only you can get yourself out of this mess and only you can live with yourself after this mess.

When you finally have a child, whose will it be?

Never mind, your husband and brother in law sure bear the same sur-name.

It's unfortunate the way we have come to look down on marrital vows, some of us are married and still go about as if we are in relations.
This is rather sad.

Meanwhile, I don't buy the idea of your smell turning your bro in law on, he lusted over you _{smell or no smell} and you encouraged him. Better wake up from your slumber and realize that you're a married woman now.

I have made a terrible mistake.
The least anyone would do now is cast
stones on me.many have condemned me but a
few shwed empathy. i have sorted out the mess
in my way through God's help.
Its only human to sin.But with God, there is forgiveness.
Though i love the perfume i wear, may be i should discard it
and just allow peace hold sway for me and those attracted.
I am happily married and nothing will break it down.
I have moved on.
Sorry if any got offended by my post.
i didnt want no attention. i wanted empathy and sincere and objective
criticisms. Any way thank you my friends in nairaland.
I love you all.

Me empathize with you? you dey craaa . aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaazzzzzzzzzzzzeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!


My colleague who was reading your post with me, almost punched the screen of my laptop thinking your face was there!

I guess the devil won that part,  but there's always room for change. No mind them wey dey condemn you. Who is without sin should cast the first stone! And that I just coated from the bible and if I am to judge you from that,  you husband have the right to know and the marriage had been unbefitting by you.
I wouldn’t advice you to tell him cause if it was me,  I would want to believe you had been sleeping with other men too and for that reason,  and moaning underneath my brother,  I wouldn’t ever want to have you as a wife anymore. Because the trust is gone and the love is sore!
I don’t know how you would carry sure secret for the rest of your life. It might be lighter to carry for you to tell me, but I know the loads of shame could be heavier. What if his the one sleeping with your sister? Can you understand that it was the work of the devil? Even after doing it for more than twice?
The biggest shame goes to the brother,  I guess you became weak for his charms and good looks,  sure he have a nice d**k too (I don’t mean this in a negative way).
And one last thing,  what is the perfume you used called?

_{*reads post,  makes the cross sign and shouts "BLOOD OF JESUS"*}



WONDERS SHALL NEVER END IN NAIRALAND