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hendre (m)
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Time and again I have asked myself this question and it has to do with my relationships with ladies. I am in a relationship that looked liked it was made in heaven ( that was at the beginning) but now I am not sure where it was made right from the start.
I am in a relationship that at the beginning was clearly defined and accepted by the two of us to be heading to the altar. I had known the lady in my neighborhood long before the lovey dovey thing started but at the time I went into the relationship with her, I made her know that I was not in it for the show- after all I no be small boy and know what I want in a lady now. I am of the opinion that whenever a guy tells a lady that he loves her (meaning it from the depth of his heart and not the cunning proclamation) the guy should prove his love for her by taking her down the altar. And this has been my stance from the very beginning. So for me, it was not this lady proving her love for me by going to bed with me, but me showing her that my words to her were the results of a heart felt thing.
It went well at first but lately I have been getting some cold shoulder acts from this lady. I honestly don't know what to do anymore. All efforts on my part to make her see reason has not been making any headway. She went back to school lately and calling me and even picking my calls have now become a great task to her. And when she does, her comments and responses have a lot on nonchalances to them even with me broaching the subject with her. I know I love this lady and would love to walk down the altar with her but with what is happening now, I don't know what to do.
Can anyone please advise me on what to do and save a brother from a major heart break.
Sisters I need your help too as you might just know what my friend is up to. ( I pray not the demise of the relationship. SHG)
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cybersleek (m)
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To be honest with you, the babe don meet another guy wey dey rock her world. Take heart and know that life goes on.
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ifyalways (f)
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LIFE SIMPLY GOES ONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
take heart but accept tha is over.that way you can move on ! goodluck.
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iice (f)
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She has had a change of heart
Best be settling this with her so you don't waste both your time
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yewa-man (m)
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in the same boat with the poster, but thanks guys for the advice, much love.  |
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ptaller (m)
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@ poster
it's always easy for a guy to know when a lady you're in a relationship with is no longer interested or if she has started seeing someone that is rocking her world "that is if you are observant and not contineu being a mugun all in the name of love". I would say you are lucky that you got to notice all these over the phone. My brother I would say you make up your mind before she says it to your face which could cause heart break. One other thing you should alwyas have in mind when in any relationship is to always prepare for the unexpected, even if you are married, It's not easy and ladies are always funny, Don't give her the chance to date you out of pity but for the love she has for you, Hope you understand where I was coming from? I wish you best of luck in all you do.
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