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uspry1 (f)
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@almondjoy Hmmm! i still learn about Nigeria culture. Let me research what jibiti marriages is all about as @presido1 talked about. Secondly his first wife gave him ultimately choice: nullify current wife or 4 yr bigamy jail term. Now the poster already filed for his family/marriage lawyer finding a solution.  . Personally i don't think so that US hearing court will not dismiss him on the ground of bigamy crime, why he ran away to marry 2nd wife without filing for divorce on first wife, huh? |
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almondjoy (f)
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@almondjoy Hmmm! i still learn about Nigeria culture. Let me research what jibiti marriages is all about as @presido1 talked about. Secondly his first wife gave him ultimately choice: nullify current wife or 4 yr bigamy jail term.Now the poster already filed for his family/ marriage lawyer finding a solution. . Personally i don't think so that US hearing court will not dismiss him on the ground of bigamy crime, why he ran away to marry 2nd wife without filing for divorce on first wife, huh? Just viewed your profile--oh welcome to "jibiti marriages"!  Are you paying attention to what the poster is writing here? It shows he has never smelled anywhere near Morroco not to talk of US. He thinks his problem is "bigamy"? His main problem here is visa fraud--committed with a crime called bigamy!!!!!!! That green card filed by his wife on behalf of him is fraudulent on the grounds that he never disclosed to her that he was married. That is all the INS has to hear from "Christy" and the rest is history. When you leave the bigamy area---then you enter visa fraud. That is the main problem. He can tell that to Nigerians who do not know how laws operated outside MMA. I am sure Finland courts keep good marriage records. The INS can easily pull those records too. Christy kept her wedding ring and probably pictures of this guy maybe with another alias--who knows! Why did he run way? |
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predi (m)
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[b][/b] most times, i seem not to just understan d state of mind of people on nairaland bt wu am i to jugde una minds-simple Question that nids a simple reply has to turn to bashin.
the guy took pains to explain imself, thinking half of una had brains, but its obvious-most yu dnt av
ki lon gbe-ki leju ke!
please read well before replyin next time.
@poster
dias onetin i want to knw, did yu knw bout the pregnancy before yu bolted out of dia? or yu just bolted because yur naija babe got a green card?
my analysis
tell yur naija wifey[dnt knw y u ddnt do that 6 and a half years ago sha!] that while she was flexin mony in naija in those days, that the sacrifise was for yu -maryin a crazy finland woman. and takiin yur story for what it is, i think yu shld chil in naija for a while, try talk some sense into the crazy woman's hed[from afar tho]. if iwer yu, i'll tell my wife, y i married the finnish woman-which definately included takin kia of her own needs too in naija and get a divorce from her immediately,[to marry her later if she wants], den after communicatin wit d finn an gettin ur divorce from d naija wife, go back to finland and get a divorce from the finnland woman-try nd c ow u can make-up for lost times with yur daughter-followin due process[lol]. its yur fate, so yu av to work yur way round yur new found status. and i gess its a lesson for many of us.
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almondjoy (f)
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[/b] most times, i seem not to just understan d state of mind of people on nairaland bt wu am i to jugde una minds-simple Question that nids a simple reply has to turn to bashin.
[b]the guy took pains to explain imself, thinking half of una had brains, but its obvious-most yu dnt av
ki lon gbe-ki leju ke!
please read well before replyin next time.
@poster
dias onetin i want to knw, did yu knw bout the pregnancy before yu bolted out of dia? or yu just bolted because yur naija babe got a green card?
my analysis
tell yur naija wifey[dnt knw y u ddnt do that 6 and a half years ago sha!] that while she was flexin mony in naija in those days, that the sacrifise was for yu -maryin a crazy finland woman. and takiin yur story for what it is, i think yu shld chil in naija for a while, try talk some sense into the crazy woman's hed[from afar tho]. if iwer yu,
i'll tell my wife, y i married the finnish woman-which definately included takin kia of her own needs too in naija and get a divorce from her immediately,[to marry her later if she wants], den after communicatin wit d finn an gettin your divorce from d naija wife, go back to finland and get a divorce from the finnland woman-try nd c ow u can make-up for lost times with yur daughter-followin due process[lol]. its yur fate, so yu av to work yur way round yur new found status. and i gess its a lesson for many of us.
So easy? Like the Finland woman will readily give him a divorce on a platter of gold! Typical Nigerian mentality. You think most women are stupid and docile like most Nigerian women who do not know their simple basic rights--even when you serve it to them with a slap on their faces? This is a white woman who is out to nail the poster and you are here talking of negotiations like you are in an "Igwe or Kabiyesi"s" hut of a palace. Please any explanation that fall out of the posters mouth now is just damage control. You tell "truth" before and not after the fact! I don't know why people encourage others to tell lies! I guess it is a genetic problem with Nigerians. Lying just comes naturally. And you say you are fighting corruption? Please when you finish calculating how he can solve his problems with his two wives--tell him how he can also--escape the problem of the visa fraud that "christy" has already submitted to the INS. I hope she has already done that!!!! |
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debosky (m)
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This story is fabricated 1. I went to Finland 7 years ago - makes it earliest 99 right? 2. Got married in 2000 'to work full time' na so e easy to marry? and by the way, are degrees now 1 year programs in Finland? 3. Two kids 5 and 3, meaning you slept with your wife (in naija oh) by 2001, she delivered 2002 right? so marriage for less than a year and you ran back to marry 'your love'? plausible, but a very long stretch. In less than 1 year you got to finland, married oyibo, finished your course, worked full time, sent money to Teju? haba even superman no fit do that one o! oh i forgot, you impregnated her at the same time 4. Meeting a girl who comes up to you to say 'you look like my daddy'?? Oyinbo children are taught, from the moment they can suck breast - NEVER TALK TO STRANGERS, especially when you are in a FOREIGN COUNTRY, she's 6 and can recount all that story, in ENGLISH? she's Finnish mate, another lie If by any stretch of the imagination the story turns out to be true, then you are a very foolish man. You should have divorced her before going on. Serves you right. Many people do arrangee weddings without sex or all that, you had to chop out of the thing sha! |
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almondjoy (f)
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This story is fabricated If by any stretch of the imagination the story turns out to be true, then you are a very foolish man. You should have divorced her before going on. Serves you right. Many people do arrangee weddings without sex or all that, you had to chop out of the thing sha!  Real Ode Buruku! @debosky You have not seen some wild children at the grocery stores over here? them do pass that. Many years ago one stupid oyinbo pickin about 4 years old ran up a Black-American male customer standing in line to pay for his groceries je je. The man wore shorts with fine legs a no go lie that one!  This foolish boy ran up to him and shouted to him---in front of the whole store: Guess what? You WANNO know what my mama said? ---She said she want to touch your legs!!Shame no let this woman hide oh! A married woman. She apologised to this man till she left the store all red in the face and neck! Probably this poor woman was just gisting with her friend oh--complementing the guy's "athletic legs"! We know ALL naiaraland initial posts are fabricated. We can still have fun with them for the stories have basis in reality. Like it does not happen everyday? To teach those people a simple lesson--who go about contemplating such stupidity. THESE THINGS HAPPEN AND EVEN WORSE!I had a friend once who was in this green card business and decided that she wanted to tell the truth and went to report herself to INS because she became a born-again. She stupidly told the INS that her marriage in Nigeria was fake. Meanwhile she had a cooked up marriage certificate to back up she was married. On the grounds of her being married was she allowed to come into the country oh. Of course-- instant deportation proceedings were issued against her. Today she is married legitimately and guess what--her husband is a citizen. She can never qualify for a green card as a result of this 'visa fraud' thingy. They had to relocate to Canada! Another one male--as soon as divorce proceedings were finalized and he knew how much child support he would pay for the next 18 years as stipulated by the courts--just sell all I'm property run go Nigeria--abandon I'm akata wife and 2--twins children. The poster is telling us what he plans to do! |
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predi (m)
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@ almond
i wonder wats so hard to solve iwth this issue, the guy ddnt knw his crazy finn was pregnant, he bolted when his naija babe got a green a card-widout knwin he had a baby girl in a crazy finns belly, when dey decided not to hav babies yet{accordin to his story-which shld be tackled on face value because yu knw dey wit am, no sey na lie I'm dey lie}. divorce the woman hia first, and why shld d finn not giv I'm an izy divorce? after seein that he alredy got a divorce from d naija wife, he shld endeavor to start supportin his child if she alows I'm to nd if shes soo bitter nd doesnt allow him, if he can fight it, he shld or just bolt away again nd as for the naija babe- idnt c the problem in lettin her no the source of the lavish mony she was spendin while in nigeri den nd if she takes offence and wants to start sometin-den she can light the grinades. when yur boify enter finnland for a few years nd strt sendin mony wey she dey spend, den dey dash mony 4 dia? for me o-i dnt c a problem with d naija babe at all only wit d crazy finn
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debosky (m)
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@debosky You have not seen some wild children at the grocery stores over here? them do pass that. Many years ago one stupid oyinbo pickin about 4 years old ran up a Black-American male customer standing in line to pay for his groceries je je. The man wore shorts with fine legs a no go lie that one! This foolish boy ran up to him and shouted to him---in front of the whole store: Guess what? You WANNO know what my mama said? ---She said she want to touch your legs!!Shame no let this woman hide oh! A married woman. She apologised to this man till she left the store all red in the face and neck! Probably this poor woman was just gisting with her friend oh--complementing the guy's "athletic legs"! If na my pikin, that boy no go chop meat for 1 month yeye boy wan disgrace him mama. Its possible alright, but a kid would just talk to a stranger and tell him her entire life history in seconds 'i'm the only one without a dad, my mum is here to meet her boyfriend, they met over the internet' blah blah blah. When he no use winch dey follow the girl talk? all my naija pipo make una rush go Finland o, una go get degree+wife+full time job in 1.5 years who needs yankee? |
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mamaput (f)
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Even if the story is true, let the poster kep gods nameout of it and rot in hell
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predi (m)
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@debosky wetin concern yu if I'm fabricate d gist atleast ihn still fi fabricate stimulatin gist  |
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almondjoy (f)
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@ almond
i wonder wats so hard to solve iwth this issue, the guy ddnt knw his crazy finn was pregnant, he bolted when his naija babe got a green a card-widout knwin he had a baby girl in a crazy finns belly, when dey decided not to hav babies yet{accordin to his story-which shld be tackled on face value because yu knw dey wit am, no sey na lie I'm dey lie}. divorce the woman hia first, and why shld d finn not giv I'm an izy divorce?
after seein that he alredy got a divorce from d naija wife, he shld endeavor to start supportin his child if she alows I'm to nd if shes soo bitter nd doesnt allow him, if he can fight it, he shld or just bolt away again nd as for the naija babe-
idnt c the problem in lettin her no the source of the lavish mony she was spendin while in nigeri den nd if she takes offence and wants to start sometin-den she can light the grinades. when yur boify enter finnland for a few years nd strt sendin mony wey she dey spend, den dey dash mony 4 dia? for me o-i dnt c a problem with d naija babe at all only wit d crazy finn
You missed the point. He knew he was still married to the Finland woman and still went ahead to marry the Nigerian babe. Pregnancy is not the issue here. And you think if I am the Nigerian babe--I will give him a divorce too? When he was committing bigamy, did he consider me?  He should have divorced the Finland babe first before marrying the Nigerian babe. Now, I as the Nigerian babe is going to be the one without proof of marriage to show for it all? I say we are all going to stay married in that Nigeria and no one is going anywhere. The green card can go. But this man must sit here and raise his 2 sons! Shikena! |
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uspry1 (f)
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@Almondjoy
Where you said this poster is from Morocco and no talk about US? Let the poster DO THE TALK thinking he can get away with it, US bigamy and VISA fraud!!!
The poster will evenutally be deported to Nigeria, lose everything US Citizenship, US employment, and even US residence! Good bye his Nigeria wife and two children still lives in the US that WON US DV LOTTERY!
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mamaput (f)
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@Almondjoy don't make me laugh.
all of a sudden my kids are born out of wedlock and the name am carrying is not for me?
I will join to sue him before i lose my green card.
The poster is a very sellfish ape.
if the woman in Nigeria had not won green card he would never have gone back to her.
But maybe he is not that bad because the story is all made up.
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predi (m)
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yu re some funny woman almond
and yu think been an almond will solve this guys wahala?
bros no mind almond o!
just talk to yur wife she'll understand after spendin fin currency in those dayz, then pray d finn is not as crazy as almond-lol!
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predi (m)
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@ mamaput
when she dey spend fiin hard currency, yu think d poster was pluckin it on trees abi?
we all contribute in so many ways to d dirtiness that afflict nigeria and we claim logic at the first sign of un-vieling.
women!!!!!!!!! such species
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predi (m)
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@ poster
yu sef y u no kukuma tell yur naija wifey when una land yankee-she naija for God's sake she would have undertsood and this wldnt av come as a surprise. now yu av two bitter women to contend with.
omo mehn like someone sed, ur lawyers wnt save yu from this one o! yu must be real reasonable and ask for wisdom
gudnight guys[almond,mamput and uspry] gotta go sleep, work's heavy this days
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omoge (f)
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after all the yabis, am sure the poster will think again before fabricating tori for NLers lol. but then the yabis (teasings) still applies. They are on his head to carry along, true story or not |
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Leilah (f)
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You got what you deserved so white ladies feelings don't count? mmm interesting. I lived in Pittsburgh before. Funny enough I was married to an african american who also done a runner on me and left me pregnant too! I can tell you I had him in court for child support, he pleaded with me to withdraw it and then I did, silly me trying to get on the case again I am. Not only are you a bigamist your a racist too!
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ekiimogun (f)
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there is no harrison mall in pittsburgh, pa
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mamaput (f)
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And finnland is big. after calling all the names in the world he could not even call the town in finnland.
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presido1
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You got what you deserved so white ladies feelings don't count? mmm interesting. I lived in Pittsburgh before. Funny enough I was married to an african american who also done a runner on me and left me pregnant too! I can tell you I had him in court for child support, he pleaded with me to withdraw it and then I did, silly me trying to get on the case again I am. Not only are you a bigamist your a racist too!
I thought you are irish married to an Igbo man na wah oooh. |
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ufobabe (f)
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@ POSTER, I REALLY FEEL for you
I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT 2 SAY.
IT CAN HAPPEN 2 ANYBODY.
ALL I CAN SAY IS THIS," I WILL BE PRAYING for you"
THERE IS NOTHING GOD CANNOT DO. U WILL BE VICTORIOUS
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iceblue (f)
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i'm wondering - can u get extradited for bigamy? if you can't, u better sit ur ass down in nigeria, unless u want to join the convict record label. thass what u get when u think u can walk away from any problem or turn the other way. a dumped woman can kill you, and no one does this more than oyinbo women. as for your investments in the US, take ur pick. the way i see it, it's really a choice between ur investments and jail, which will depreciate anyway if you choose jail. i suggest - form like you're co-operating, sell what u can and take off. at least she no get juju to follow you come here. ultimately it's your choice.
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Leilah (f)
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yes I am an irish lady married to an igbo man. I don't like when men looking for papers try to blame the 'crazy oyinbo' when they want an easy escape. I am NOT referring to myself as thankfully this has not happened to me from my current partner (lets hope it doesn't ever either) |
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almondjoy (f)
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yes I am an irish lady married to an igbo man. I don't like when men looking for papers try to blame the 'crazy oyinbo' when they want an easy escape. I am NOT referring to myself as thankfully this has not happened to me from my current partner (lets hope it doesn't ever either) Leilah, don't worry--The good Lord is punishing the users and the liars one by one! Just sit back and relax! Just do your thing--the wicked will definitely never go unpunished as you can see in the poster's case. The hand of God finally caught up with him and he has deported himself.  I just hope the Nigerian "babe" is not stupid enough to grant him a divorce like the Finland woman has refused too, so he can remain a bigamist-polygamist for the rest of his natural life! At least she has her green card. Let her have all her kids first, then she can relocate to the US without him if he starts to misbehave in Nigeria. In the meantime is excluded from taking family vacations in the US and Finland for the rest of his natural life!  Let him remain in Nigeria and become a "house husband"! |
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naijaborn (m)
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yu ar the architect of yur misfortune so nah only yu go redesign am, either by goin to jail,divorcing yur two wifeys,running away, nah yu sabi  |
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Fredrika (f)
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Why did you have to reveal Christina's name? Why did you have to discrace that poor woman? Somebody here might regognise her. You could have write anonymously.
I think you should really beg Christina to forgive you, if you don't want things get ugly. Do it for the sake of your daughter. She does not want you back, believe me. She will never take you back, even if you wanted to. She just wants to revenge. So try your best so that she would forgive you, this is the only way out.
I think you got what you asked for, and I do not feel sympathy for you, using people is just UGLY!
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Outstrip (f)
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Since Nigerians are allowed to marry more than one wife then why will he go to jail. He did not marry the second wife in Finland abi. The story does not make sense. He certainly did not break the law in the US and he did not break it in Nigera or Finland. He has a second wife but that is not against the law in Nigeria and he did not bring a second wife to the US. Somebody correst me if I am wrong
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na2day? (m)
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u are 100% correct. the marriage didn't take place on usa soil. so the fin can go to hell Since Nigerians are allowed to marry more than one wife then why will he go to jail. He did not marry the second wife in Finland abi. The story does not make sense. He certainly did not break the law in the US and he did not break it in Nigera or Finland. He has a second wife but that is not against the law in Nigeria and he did not bring a second wife to the US. Somebody correst me if I am wrong
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