She Slept With Another Man On Her Birthday

I got attached to a girl after about six years of loosing contacts. We started building up a
relationship and got so fun of each other.  Apparently, there was no threat to the affair.

Just some days back, i told her i could not take a trip down to celeberate her birthday with her, for
a reason she knows about.

But i kept her phone busy all day wishing her the best.

What did i get back? That she visited a male friend, and the guy took advantage of her, not once but twice on
the same night. Without and with a condom respectively 

Begging me not to hate her, but to forgive her. That i left her and she was alone with somebody else,
that she is telling me because she feels guilt 

What am i to do, forgive her and wellcome her back? 
Am pretty confuse. She is a corper, and the relationship is less than a month. 
I like her, but she failed me.

Where do i stand?




 

she was in his place, he kind of force her without a condom. In the longrun he kind of have it in a proper
way ( with a condom ). I guess she gave consent to that.



Yeah, there is a distance thing here, we where together 3 weeks back, so what the hell?

Haba! If ya parents sabi the girl wetin them go tell u be say

make u waka far. What of if u go abroad? wetin for happen?

Abeg make u spare us the gist. MY GUY WAKA FAR!





MY PEOPLE WETIN UNA SEE TO THIS ONE OOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

These are the kinds of people you will keep meeting since you decided to sow your wild oats till almost 33 years old.  You should have been married at age 30.  So get serious with your life and settle down and quit horsing around.  As for the lady in question--when you are used to doing certain things it is difficult to stop.  The lady is only doing what she knows how to do best--jump from bed to bed--searching for validation and acceptance--since players like you have shaped and molded her emotional being.

So take heart--for you are only reaping what you have sowed in the past. As your lips are sealed not being able to spend time with her on her birthday--you too were probably up to no good!

The older you get the less "quality" people to chose from.  All you have around is a bunch of "recycled dysfunctional undesireble elements"--gambling away their lives in strange beds!---Medically and psychologically damaged goods walking around like human beings!


Ooooooooooooooooooooooooh---Thank you father for sparing me such heartache!

I really pity females not married by 25 and males by 30!  In this day and age?--With diseases every where? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!  God forbid!

Goodluck!

bust the sh,  ! pandon me

She be Ashawo!
What kind of apology is that? 
She should be going without any second thought, what if you're out of the country, what do you think will happen?
I knew the guy doesn't forced her remember! Just let her go please, she's a bitch and a punk!!!

We all know that ALL these stories are lies--but we can still have fun with the posters since their stories are real somewhere in this planet.  Hey, it is the Xmas season.

Tis the season to be jolly!

Make them dey bring the stories--all na cheap entertainment--costs nothing!

@ Poster,

My guy flee. Found myself in that kind of situation before. A relationship of 5 years. Couldn't see her in school on one of her birthdays due to something she knows about, but bought enough presents for her and drop in her house. Couldn't call, no GSM then. The result- someone else pick her up from school and sleep with her all through the weekend.

How did I know? She told me herself, said I was too nice to her and whenever she sees me, her heart troubles her. thought deeply over it, I forgave her and a year plus later she slept with the same guy again and still confessed it. Had to run. It wasn't funny. Had to beg GOD to free me from whatever feelings I had for her. At last my prayers were answered and I left without looking back till today.

For the past 5 years she has been begging to come back, calling herself a fool for allowing me go. She still called 2 weeks ago and sent me text on the fool stuff.

It was very painful then but when I look back now I laugh and thank my GOD for releasing me from her grip. Learnt a lot, the experience changed me for the better. You will be tempted to receive her, you will tell yourself things like "after all she was being honest" and a lot more, I did same thing. Whatever your decisions are,  I wish you luck!

@POSTER

NOW ITS YOUR TURN FU CKING LOKING FOR SYMPATHY? ABI, MEN OR WOMEN, YOU ARE ALL FU CKING CHEATING BEHIND EACHOTHER. WHATS NEW ABOUT THIS. MAKING ME LAUGH. GO AWAY AND THINK OF SOMEOTHER STORY

@POSTER

NOW ITS YOUR TURN FU CKING LOKING FOR SYMPATHY? ABI, MEN OR WOMEN, YOU ARE ALL FU CKING CHEATING BEHIND EACHOTHER. WHATS NEW ABOUT THIS. MAKING ME LAUGH. GO AWAY AND THINK OF SOMEOTHER STORY

hey fellas,

this is no cooked story, it did happen.

Do y'all knw that i took a trip down yesterday to meet up with her, just to hear her say it to ma face.

because i could not believe it through the phone, it really did happen. She could not tell me

the guy's name and what he does for living.

She even has the guts to pick up his call to let him know that was around her, it call lasted for 8minutes with enough
gist and laugh. He was even begging her to pass the phone to me.

I got so paranoid. I just slept off with anger and left this morning with a goodbye note


I would have giving her a silly hardcore fuuck  before leaving   maybe i did 

Spineless d ick

is that the rite word for ma  

Advantage my foot.

wow, she has no respect for you. She had the nerve to sit up there talk talk and laugh with this guy in your face. Give it up, shes playing you and you are letting her, whats so special about her let her go.

*nice story,when do we get to read part 2?*