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busywoman (f)
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Need advice. my husband junior sister had a fight with me what do i do?  |
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Seun (m)
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Why don't you tell us more about the fight? What is your husband's position on the issue?
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Rhodalyn (f)
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they're all jst like that!!!!!!!!!!!! tell ya husby n see wht he sees, if he dares tell U crap deal wit him da way he rightly deserves to be dealt with!!!!!!!!! anyway, jst as babymine asked, did she beat U??  |
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eveseh (f)
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don't let her enter ya house again if she comes to ya husband tell her to wait outside  |
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sweetberry (f)
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do nothing i.e don't start cussin & shoutin at her
some of these sisters in law are not worth the effort,
for the sake of your husband just smile & be nice & be friendly to her
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alfangco (m)
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@post
please she is your hubby's sister, treat her same way your hubby will treat her as a younger sister. Never force your husband make a choice between you and his immediate family. He will choose u of course but it will always prick his conscience for no man (nigerian) wants to feel like a woman wrapper, ready to kick everybody away just because he is married (What do u need an unhappy husband for). Remember in Nigeria marriage does not remove (but can only reduce) men's or women's reponsibility to their family.
MY ADVICE: Swallow pride approach ur sister inlaw make peace (even if u were right and she wrong). Your husband will be proud of u and your sister inlaw too will respect u from that moment for that. I DON TALK MY OWN FROM EXPERIENCE
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Carlosein (m)
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second alfangco  |
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michelin89 (f)
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@post
Please she is your hubby's sister, treat her same way your hubby will treat her as a younger sister. Never force your husband make a choice between you and his immediate family. He will choose u of course but it will always prick his conscience for no man (nigerian) wants to feel like a woman wrapper, ready to kick everybody away just because he is married (What do u need an unhappy husband for). Remember in Nigeria marriage does not remove (but can only reduce) men's or women's reponsibility to their family.
MY ADVICE: Swallow pride approach your sister inlaw make peace (even if u were right and she wrong). Your husband will be proud of u and your sister inlaw too will respect u from that moment for that. I DON TALK MY OWN FROM EXPERIENCE
Or maybe the sister will feel she can do as she likes. I hope she is smart enough to understand the reasons behind her inetentions to make peace. |
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Seun (m)
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What sort of advice do you expect us to give when you've not told us what caused the fight? |
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Da man (m)
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How many times have you your own biological siblings without it becoming an issue? why the fuse with a fight involving your sister in law?
My dear, deal with the issue and try as much as you can to overlook the personality involved.
This will at least save you the heartache.
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saha
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Inlaws are inlaws no matter what.give them their respect but don't be unreasonable yourself.since na woman she ma go marry then she go feel am as what goes around comes around.God dey poor man prayer
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Da man (m)
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sorry, my first line above meant to read:
How many times have you fought with your own siblings without becoming an issue?
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odiaseo (m)
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@poster
You need to give more details about the incident so we do not make assumptions.
From my opinion you should not allow the situation degenerate to the extend that you have to fight. Whatever happens between you and you in-laws should be settled in your bedroom. Let your husband deal with the issues you loose respect be exchanging words and slaps with your in-laws.
Haven said that, your home is your home, in-laws or no in-laws. You have full authority and control of what happens in you house. Your authority needs to be established and emphasised by your husband. How you and your husband go about establishing this hierarchy is a matter of your maturity and relational skills
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nossycheek (f)
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Ignore her completely but for person like me, I would have taught her a hard learnt lesson with my karate and kung fu. Na only God fit save her teeth. Go ask my sis-in-law, they now dread me since after I slugged it out with his junior sister though my senior.
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bluehorizo (m)
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What type of fight are you talking about? Was it a physical fight or mouth fight?
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Zandra1 (f)
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@ nossycheek, ur post got me laughing so much . Kung fu hussle . |
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ifyalways (f)
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How many times have you your own biological siblings without it becoming an issue? why the fuse with a fight involving your sister in law?
My dear, deal with the issue and try as much as you can to overlook the personality involved.
This will at least save you the heartache.
word ! ! ! |
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OMO IBO (m)
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How many times have you your own biological siblings without it becoming an issue? why the fuse with a fight involving your sister in law?
My dear, deal with the issue and try as much as you can to overlook the personality involved.
This will at least save you the heartache.
co-sizzle. besides sisters will always be protective of their brothers when another woman is involved. u gast to understand |
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big father (m)
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Wetin be cause of the fight ? |
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Cadet (f)
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realized that this thread is 2 years old.but if there's any possibility that anyone might have the same problem, my suggestion would be to talk it out with your husband's sister, then if she refuse to listen, take the problem to your husband. you can't live with a rival, esp. if she's dear to your husband. this kind of things spoil marriage.
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