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baby4u2 (f)
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nolongthin so what are u feeling like. the DON. na so,
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Aa`LiyaH (f)
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could someone please tell me what shakara means  |
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kimba (m)
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@Aa'LiyaH
Shakara, playing hard to get, posing,
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Coco29 (f)
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4play this is for u , you should respect the choice of a woman.
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Aa`LiyaH (f)
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cheers Kimba  |
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kike001 (f)
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yes i think so u don't ve 2 come 2 cheap i guess
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michy (f)
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its good but its up to an extent
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magneto (m)
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lol! funny thread here, got me laffing  ok, for me shakara aint such a good thing. honestly it makes a guy lose interest fast. i mean, if a guy has already come out and asked u for a relationship, its a straight answer he's lookin for. . . yes or no!(ok so maybe some guys don't get it , but generally it is so). if u dig the guy, n u've been waiting for him to ask then don't waste time, because believe it or not his heart is real tender at that moment. posting him will only hurt his feelings, and he'll only stick it out just to save face. once u succumb and he hits it, BAM! he's gone like that! but if u don't want to feel cheap or sompn, u could tell him "let me think about it" or sompn like that, even tho' u already made up ur mind.  then give him a reply asap! |
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angelchi (f)
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play hard to get only if u ve to, bt no over do am o.
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deb (m)
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This should be a matter of maturity.
Even if a girl wants to play hard on me I still expect her to give me
some green light else I will stop chasing her. Its easier for us guys
to lose interest when the chasing is becoming too much. We'll soon begin to
realize she's not all that afterall
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tulk2mi
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I had this chick that i had been on her case for about 8 months now, i really liked her and there was a stage i felt she could be the 1, suddenly i just got tired of her games but just still chasing her because i had spent so much of my time and as an experienced hunter i knew with women , u never say never, to cut the long thing short i finally nacked her this week and it wasn't spectacular, maybe if she had succumbed earlier i would have still been crazy about her, but as at now i've discharged, Plenty shakara builds up anticipation and expectation, it wasnt like she wasnt good but d shakara has made u feel like when u get it, it will b somthing out of this world but it aint. this kind of thing has actually broken up a marriage on their first official assignment because the guy felt he was conned into marry her since he felt her refusal to have sex with him while they were courting was because she was a virgin. Secondly they say the best things in life are 4 free, if u r feeling the person give it 2 him has a gift that is when it has value not has a prize because if i feel i worked hard 4 it, then i will feel justified that it is wage 4 my hard work, so i can scram without any regrets. n most often than not we scram @ POST If theres chemistry shun shakara n be yourself .  |
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Hannibal
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Howdy all,
I met this guy bout 2 weeks ago. Therez this chemistry that we both can't deny. He seems like a very nice person. He thinks we should work on a rship. this may sound silly but don't u think a girl needs 2 play hard 2 get for sometime? just so she doesnt seem desperate.
Comments PLSSSSSSSS
Playing hard to GET might come back to bite ur ass REAL HARD. Why waste time when u already know chemistry exists between you 2s. . . . Ya playing hard to get might get him bored which may drive him to other chics. Get real. . . . Take whatz yours!!! |
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ibkaye (f)
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@topic
sometimes, but don't go overboard
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CH3COO (m)
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Playing hard to GET might come back to bite your ass REAL HARD.
Why waste time when u already know chemistry exists between you 2s. . . .
Ya playing hard to get might get him bored which may drive him to other chics.
Get real. . . . Take whatz yours!!!
Completely agree. She came calling 2 weeks later asking "how come you ain't called me since"? Dear, I moved on. |
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j-girl (f)
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Playing hard to GET might come back to bite your ass REAL HARD.
Why waste time when u already know chemistry exists between you 2s. . . .
Ya playing hard to get might get him bored which may drive him to other chics.
Get real. . . . Take whatz yours!!!
As usual! Guys saying how bad it is to play hard to get. On a personal level, I don't play hard to get but that gets me in so much trouble because the guys don't cater to me as much as they are supposed to. So girl, make him work hard for at least a month. Guys only appreciate what they work for, not what they get so easily. You need to play hard to get to get them to cherish you forever and ever. Don't mind Hannibal's advice. He's only talking this way because he's on the losing side of the fence. Play your games, it keeps them on their toes even in the relationship. |
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ibkaye (f)
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As usual!
Guys saying how bad it is to play hard to get.
On a personal level, I don't play hard to get but that gets me in so much trouble because the guys don't cater to me as much as they are supposed to.
So girl, make him work hard for at least a month.
Guys only appreciate what they work for, not what they get so easily.
You need to play hard to get to get them to cherish you forever and ever.
Don't mind Hannibal's advice. He's only talking this way because he's on the losing side of the fence.
Play your games, it keeps them on their toes even in the relationship.
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CH3COO (m)
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that's the kind of game you were playing with me |
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ibkaye (f)
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that's the kind of game you were playing with me
you think so? not at all |
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j-girl (f)
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CH3COO and ibk . . . . . . please get a room. I'm about to puke with all this flirting.  |
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Hannibal
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On a personal level, I don't play hard to get but that gets me in so much trouble because the guys don't cater to me as much as they are supposed to.
So girl, make him work hard for at least a month.
Guys only appreciate what they work for, not what they get so easily.
You need to play hard to get to get them to cherish you forever and ever.
Don't mind Hannibal's advice. He's only talking this way because he's on the losing side of the fence.
Play your games, it keeps them on their toes even in the relationship.
Work hard for a MONTH?? God knows i won't be there by the time she comes back to her ground state. Keep who on a leash for one month?? Although i must agree there's a thin line between the schitzo. If a woman has your number and has declined two of your invitations without mentioning the possibility of a future date, she's not playing hard to get; she's playing hard to never get. If she were interested, she would call you at some point or at least apologize for being so busy and give you a future possibility, like mentioning that next week is much better for her and that the two of you can go out then. If she's busy all the time and makes no attempt to keep the window of possibility open, it's clear she doesn't want to waste either of your time. Move on, game over. |
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ibkaye (f)
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chineke, me? am not flirting o, just friendly conversation |
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j-girl (f)
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chineke, me? am not flirting o, just friendly conversation Saucekid must hear this one. Bonafide Olofofo like me. I must live up to my TMZ name. Work hard for a MONTH??
God knows i won't be there by the time she comes back to her ground state.
Keep who on a leash for one month??
Although i must agree there's a thin line between the schitzo.
If a woman has your number and has declined two of your invitations without mentioning the possibility of a future date, she's not playing hard to get; she's playing hard to never get.
If she were interested, she would call you at some point or at least apologize for being so busy and give you a future possibility, like mentioning that next week is much better for her and that the two of you can go out then. If she's busy all the time and makes no attempt to keep the window of possibility open, it's clear she doesn't want to waste either of your time. Move on, game over.
If the girl is dazzling enough, she can hold you for 3 months if possible. There is a thin line but it's hard to place which is which until at least the first 2 weeks. Bottomline: It's advisable to play hard to get for as long as possible till you notice he's beginning to lose interest. Don't mind the guys in here. All of this is just NL. I'm sure they have girls suspending them for months with no answer yet. They just have to prove tough in a forum because they can't be called wussies. If the girl has it all. She's fine, sexy, daring, and is a career woman all-in-one, you'll see how many guys she'll be suspending. It depends on the the way the girl looks too. Wowo girls don't make shakara too much because they know what the chances are. |
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ibkaye (f)
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lool gbeborun |
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CH3COO (m)
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you think so? not at all It's important we set the right foundation. Sauce kid or not, follow your heart. I'm not a rapper but I'll have you forever dancing to the hymns of my eternal love. |
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ibkaye (f)
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It's important we set the right foundation. Sauce kid or not, follow your heart. I'm not a rapper but I'll have you forever dancing to the hymns of my eternal love.
lol you've got me on the floor |
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Hannibal
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If the girl has it all. She's fine, sexy, daring, and is a career woman all-in-one, you'll see how many guys she'll be suspending.
It depends on the the way the girl looks too.
Wowo girls don't make shakara too much because they know what the chances are.
There are many pebbles on the beach. . . . Fine, sexy. daring and a career women. . . . .They are 2 for $5 everywhere u turn. While u are playing hard to GET. . . .A woman with more qualities is hoping n praying to land a man to stopher endless sleepless nights without a man. Women can't make decisions to save a life. . . . .what if, what is, why, how, when and all that. Although men are less likely to commit to a relationship, when they do fall for a woman in particular, they are usually surer about it than their female counterparts. Men aren't as likely to ask hypothetical questions such as "what if I meet someone at work?" and "what if she's not Ms. Right?" Women, on the other hand, ask themselves too many questions in order to figure out whether you're the man they have been looking for their whole life. Buncha time-wasters!!! |
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j-girl (f)
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There are many pebbles on the beach. . . . Fine, sexy. daring and a career women. . . . .They are 2 for $5 everywhere u turn. While u are playing hard to GET. . . .A woman with more qualities is hoping n praying to land a man to stopher endless sleepless nights without a man. Women can't make decisions to save a life. . . . .what if, what is, why, how, when and all that. Although men are less likely to commit to a relationship, when they do fall for a woman in particular, they are usually surer about it than their female counterparts. Men aren't as likely to ask hypothetical questions such as "what if I meet someone at work?" and "what if she's not Ms. Right?" Women, on the other hand, ask themselves too many questions in order to figure out whether you're the man they have been looking for their whole life. Buncha time-wasters!!! Oh jeez! 2 for 5 dollars? That's it! I lose all the faith I have in you. Women are good decision makers when it boils down to it. When it comes to clothes and men, there are so many options and just enough resources to pick just one or a few. Men ask women out not to commit to them but to be in a relationship with them. Relationship is different from commitment because guys in relationships still make commitments to other girls outside the so-called "relationship". It's purely sickening. Men are more likely to say "What am I doing here?" and "Why buy the cow when I can get the milk for free?" Women ask so many questions to be sure. Nowadays, I advise women to have a main boyfriend and then have as many backups as they can keep away from each other. If a woman can handle 5 guys, so be it. Guys of today do the same and whatever is good for the goose is good for the gander. This is the same reason why I think playing hard to get is a waste of time. Say yes to all 10 of them and cut them down one by one. The process of elimination has proven to be one of the best. |
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Hannibal
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If u lead the way, others would follow. Look at this polyandrist. . . . . .5-10 boy/fs at a time. You forgot the whatchumacallit has a meter that reads?? The nuisance value will be so high, it will drive your bride price down to decimals in Cedis!!! |
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j-girl (f)
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If u lead the way, others would follow. Look at this polyandrist. . . . . .5-10 boy/fs at a time. You forgot the whatchumacallit has a meter that reads?? The nuisance value will be so high, it will drive your bride price down to decimals in Cedis!!! LMAO! 5 - 10 bfs, if i can control it, will be perfect However, my capacity can only take 3 at a time. No more than that There will be nuisance value on my stuff. There's enough technology to take the decimal point off, convert to dollars and add about 6 zeros at the end. |
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