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Hannibal
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #64 on: July 20, 2008, 12:35 AM »

Quote from: j-girl on July 20, 2008, 12:29 AM
LMAO!

5 - 10 bfs, if i can control it, will be perfect
However, my capacity can only take 3 at a time. No more than that Tongue
There will be nuisance value on my stuff.
There's enough technology to take the decimal point off, convert to dollars and add about 6 zeros at the end. Cheesy

You can play 3 geezers at a time??  Sweeeeeeeeeeeet Jesus!!!!!

Enough technology to eliminate the decimals?? I agree.
What about the legendary status that follows u everywhere. . . . . .Posterity will surely judge.
Take a cue: When u like a guy enough to the point of your heart skipping 2 beats when he calls, go for IT!!!!
You have nuthing to LOSE.
j-girl (f)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #65 on: July 20, 2008, 12:39 AM »

Quote from: Hannibal on July 20, 2008, 12:35 AM
You can play 3 geezers at a time??  Sweeeeeeeeeeeet Jesus!!!!!

Enough technology to eliminate the decimals?? I agree.
What about the legendary status that follows u everywhere. . . . . .Posterity will surely judge.
Take a cue: When u like a guy enough to the point of your heart skipping 2 beats when he calls, go for IT!!!!
You have nuthing to LOSE.
The status can be claimed to be just rumours. Nothing serious.
My hubby has to believe me over them. If not ehn! . . . . . . he'll tell the story.
When a girl likes a guy and he's making her feel all the right jitters, that's exactly when she needs to play hard to get.
She'll be able to control herself and be able to gain the kind of respect she deserves.

If she does not play hard to get, it will be very hard to get a guy who loves her as much as he would if he got her easily.
Guys love the chase and they appreciate the fact that they had to chase to get the girl.
Nothing good comes easy. . . . . . that's what they say.
Hannibal
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #66 on: July 20, 2008, 12:45 AM »

Quote from: j-girl on July 20, 2008, 12:39 AM
If she does not play hard to get, it will be very hard to get a guy who loves her as much as he would if he got her easily.
Guys love the chase and they appreciate the fact that they had to chase to get the girl.
Nothing good comes easy. . . . . . that's what they say.

I agree witcha!!!

The chase is fun. . . . . . .every man enjoys it but if it stretches too long, it becomes watery.
Let a guy chase for 3 days and decide what u want to do with him.
Even if u are not ready to date yet. . . . . .Leave hints for him to know u are interested but not 100% sure yet.
Closing doors on him all the time and expecting him to come back for more is R-I-S-K-Y.
Before u know it, your home-girl is sneaking behind u to see the dude. Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
Remember, the ratio is huge. 7:1. Grin Cheesy
StephenP (m)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #67 on: July 20, 2008, 12:47 AM »

Ladies, please do play hard to get but don't play too much or too hard.
j-girl (f)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #68 on: July 20, 2008, 12:51 AM »

Quote from: Hannibal on July 20, 2008, 12:45 AM
I agree witcha!!!

The chase is fun. . . . . . .every man enjoys it but if it stretches too long, it becomes watery.
Let a guy chase for 3 days and decide what u want to do with him.
Even if u are not ready to date yet. . . . . .Leave hints for him to know u are interested but not 100% sure yet.
Closing doors on him all the time and expecting to come back for more is R-I-S-K-Y.
Before u know it, your home-girl is sneaking behind u to see the dude. Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
Remember, the ratio is huge. 7:1. Grin Cheesy
Finally!
Leave hints like what?
No real friend sneaks behind her friend's back to get a dude she knows loves her friend
The dude has to be smart too. If he truly likes the girl, he won't be swayed easily.
As huge as the ratio is, there's still a possibility.
Guys are real pains, I swear.
I wonder why on earth they cannot define what they want and stick to it.
They want girls who play hard but drop hints.
Jeez! Every married woman deserves a medal.
Hannibal
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #69 on: July 20, 2008, 12:57 AM »

Quote from: j-girl on July 20, 2008, 12:51 AM
Finally!
Leave hints like what?
No real friend sneaks behind her friend's back to get a dude she knows loves her friend
The dude has to be smart too. If he truly likes the girl, he won't be swayed easily.
As huge as the ratio is, there's still a possibility.
Guys are real pains, I swear.
I wonder why on earth they cannot define what they want and stick to it.
They want girls who play hard but drop hints.
Jeez! Every married woman deserves a medal.

We are more sure of what we want than women.
Men don't ask hypothetical questions like y'all do. . . . . they spot their targets and they go for 'em ASAP.

The ratio is very much against em females. The odds are stacked against y'all!!
Men's patience are receding. . . . .It used to be 1 month back in the days. . . . . now it's 1 week. Tongue Grin
eldee (m)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #70 on: July 20, 2008, 12:59 AM »

Quote from: j-girl on July 20, 2008, 12:51 AM
Finally!
Leave hints like what?
No real friend sneaks behind her friend's back to get a dude she knows loves her friend
The dude has to be smart too. If he truly likes the girl, he won't be swayed easily.
As huge as the ratio is, there's still a possibility.
Guys are real pains, I swear.
I wonder why on earth they cannot define what they want and stick to it.
They want girls who play hard but drop hints.
Jeez! Every married woman deserves a medal.
Try

'Dude, I know you're one legendary chap, and I know how many women will beg to go out with you . . . but erm, let's cut the chase, I'm in love with you and you kind of like me, let's make this work' Cheesy

This is a good hint . . . 99% efficient Grin
j-girl (f)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #71 on: July 20, 2008, 01:02 AM »

Quote from: Hannibal on July 20, 2008, 12:57 AM
We are more sure of what we want than women.
Men don't ask hypothetical questions like y'all do. . . . . they spot their targets and they go for 'em ASAP.

The ratio is very much against em females. The odds are stacked against y'all!!
Men's patience are receding. . . . .It used to be 1 month back in the days. . . . . now it's 1 week. Tongue Grin
Men do not commit. Most women have the intention of viewing relationships as commitment. That's why guys go into relationships anyhow.
They should allow their patience to keep receding, the divorce rates are increasing.
Explains why they marry jezebels before they figure it out.

Quote from: eldee on July 20, 2008, 12:59 AM
Try

'Dude, I know you're one legendary chap, and I know how many women will beg to go out with you . . . but erm, let's cut the chase, I'm in love with you and you kind of like me, let's make this work' Cheesy

This is a good hint . . . 99% efficient Grin

Lol! That's so weak!
You flatter yourself wayyyyyyyy too much.
Hisssssssssssssssssssss! Women beg to go out with you?
Na wa!
I'm in the midst of hot items shey? Grin Grin Grin Grin
Go and sit down jare.
eldee (m)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #72 on: July 20, 2008, 01:08 AM »

Quote from: j-girl on July 20, 2008, 01:02 AM

Lol! That's so weak!
You flatter yourself wayyyyyyyy too much.
Hisssssssssssssssssssss! Women beg to go out with you?
Na wa!
I'm in the midst of hot items shey? Grin Grin Grin Grin
Go and sit down jare.

Come . . . let me be  Tongue
Sumone asked me for hints and I gave the one that works for me
Hannibal and Sly have theirs . . . ask 'em, they'll tell you

And yes . . . you're in in the midst of hot items Tongue Tongue
Hannibal
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #73 on: July 20, 2008, 01:12 AM »

Quote from: j-girl on July 20, 2008, 01:02 AM
Men do not commit. Most women have the intention of viewing relationships as commitment. That's why guys go into relationships anyhow.
They should allow their patience to keep receding, the divorce rates are increasing.
Explains why they marry jezebels before they figure it out.

Women contribute more to divorce more than men. . . . .What have u got to say to that??
Besides, is there any guarantee that a guy u played hard for won't break your heart atomically?? Tongue Tongue Tongue
Some men are vicious. . . .the more u play them. . . the more they want to leave your heart broken/bludgeoned and ripped apart. Grin Cheesy
j-girl (f)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #74 on: July 20, 2008, 01:16 AM »

Quote from: eldee on July 20, 2008, 01:08 AM
Come . . . let me be  Tongue
Sumone asked me for hints and I gave the one that works for me
Hannibal and Sly have theirs . . . ask 'em, they'll tell you

And yes . . . you're in in the midst of hot items Tongue Tongue
Lol! Sorry o!
Keep your hints to yourself jare! They don't work for me Grin Grin Tongue

Quote from: Hannibal on July 20, 2008, 01:12 AM
Women contribute more to divorce more than men. . . . .What have u got to say to that??
Besides, is there any guarantee that a guy u played hard for won't break your heart atomically?? Tongue Tongue Tongue
Some men are vicious. . . .the more u play them. . . the more they want to leave your heart broken/bludgeoned and ripped apart. Grin Cheesy

Women contribute more to divorce than men? If they spent more time playing hard to get and more time courting, maybe they would have realized that they needed more time apart.
There is no guarantee about breaking of hearts when it comes to men which is why you should have many backups. All of them cannot break your heart at the same time. It is impossicant.
Some women are vicious because they know how to be discreet in shattering the hearts of men. They also know how to do it in such a way that no man will know he's getting played.

Trust me. . . . . . .I know Wink Grin
stillwater (f)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #75 on: July 20, 2008, 01:21 AM »

Quote from: j-girl on July 20, 2008, 01:16 AM
Lol! Sorry o!
Keep your hints to yourself jare! They don't work for me Grin Grin Tongue
Women contribute more to divorce than men? If they spent more time playing hard to get and more time courting, maybe they would have realized that they needed more time apart. There is no guarantee about breaking of hearts when it comes to men which is why you should have many backups. All of them cannot break your heart at the same time. It is impossicant.
Some women are vicious because they know how to be discreet in shattering the hearts of men. They also know how to do it in such a way that no man will know he's getting played.

Trust me. . . . . . .I know Wink Grin

That's true. You got to filter the wheat from the chaff and analyse. A lot, I say, a lot of psychopaths abound Lips sealed
A-40 (m)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #76 on: July 20, 2008, 01:22 AM »

Of course yes we guys respect the challenge but ladies don't overdo it because it will come back and bite ya thats for sure
j-girl (f)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #77 on: July 20, 2008, 01:26 AM »

Quote from: stillwater on July 20, 2008, 01:21 AM
That's true. You got to filter the wheat from the chaff and analyse. A lot, I say, a lot of psychopaths abound Lips sealed
Abi.
Playing hard to get reveals if the guy has enough tolerance and love to be able to handle you.
Quote from: A-40 on July 20, 2008, 01:22 AM
Of course yes we guys respect the challenge but ladies don't overdo it because it will come back and bite ya thats for sure
You respect the challenge but you complain when it's too much. How can you do such?
All guys are different. To some guys 3 days is too long, to others 3 months is just right.

That's why I said you guys are confused.
eldee (m)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #78 on: July 20, 2008, 01:31 AM »

Quote from: j-girl on July 20, 2008, 01:16 AM
Women contribute more to divorce than men? If they spent more time playing hard to get and more time courting, maybe they would have realized that they needed more time apart.
There is no guarantee about breaking of hearts when it comes to men which is why you should have many backups. All of them cannot break your heart at the same time. It is impossicant.
Some women are vicious because they know how to be discreet in shattering the hearts of men. They also know how to do it in such a way that no man will know he's getting played.

Trust me. . . . . . .I know Wink Grin
Playing hard to get does not affect the future relationship positively
Man is programmed to cherish what he doesn't have, it's natural
When he gets it, that's a new question

C'mon that period is just a time when you show a false image of yorself
You only start understanding each other when the relationship starts

So you still believe that a 21st Century Ahab exists?
Nah . . . Lets get it straight

A bloke has three backups, he's a playa
A lady has two, she's the office biatch

Even Lil Kim agreed Cheesy
j-girl (f)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #79 on: July 20, 2008, 01:36 AM »

Quote from: eldee on July 20, 2008, 01:31 AM
Aight then . . . I'll just save my hints for
Playing hard to get does not affect the future relationship positively
Man is programmed to cherish what he doesn't have, it's natural
When he gets it, that's a new question

C'mon that period is just a time when you show a false image of yorself
You only start understanding each other when the relationship starts

So you still believe that a 21st Century Ahab exists?
Nah . . . Lets get it straight

A bloke has three backups, he's a player
A lady has two, she's the office biatch

Even Lil Kim agreed Cheesy
Save your hints for who? Oniranu! Cheesy Tongue
I agree with you sha.
If a girl is playing hard to get and the guy is not patient enough to give her time to think, I think that's part of what I am saying. Some characteristics reveal themselves during the 'playing hard to get' stage e.g. verbal abuse
I'D rather be the office biatch than be a pathetic woman at the age of 40 still single and searching all because I put my eggs in one basket.  Smiley
Hannibal
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #80 on: July 20, 2008, 01:37 AM »

Quote from: j-girl on July 20, 2008, 01:16 AM
Lol! Sorry o!
Keep your hints to yourself jare! They don't work for me Grin Grin Tongue
Women contribute more to divorce than men? If they spent more time playing hard to get and more time courting, maybe they would have realized that they needed more time apart.
There is no guarantee about breaking of hearts when it comes to men which is why you should have many backups. All of them cannot break your heart at the same time. It is impossicant.
Some women are vicious because they know how to be discreet in shattering the hearts of men. They also know how to do it in such a way that no man will know he's getting played.

Trust me. . . . . . .I know Wink Grin

Women are vicious. . . . . Let em continue.
The end shall surely justify the means.

20 men can break your heart at the same time.
Ever heard of tag team?? Do u know it's possible for 6 friends to be dating u without your knowledge?? Tongue Tongue
They jam each other in your crib, pretend they don't know each other but laugh behind your back!!!
If i tell u the kind of stuffs i did in ma Uni days, u would go to the abbey and become a nun.
eldee (m)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #81 on: July 20, 2008, 01:47 AM »

Quote from: j-girl on July 20, 2008, 01:36 AM
Save your hints for who? Oniranu! Cheesy Tongue
I agree with you sha.
If a girl is playing hard to get and the guy is not patient enough to give her time to think, I think that's part of what I am saying. Some characteristics reveal themselves during the 'playing hard to get' stage e.g. verbal abuse
I'D rather be the office biatch than be a pathetic woman at the age of 40 still single and searching all because I put my eggs in one basket. Smiley
Wrong again . . . 'em ones that 'play' three guys with 'em knowing never end up marrying
They end up as pub gist ladies . . .
'I saw her with A and B, I must try my luck too'

Quote from: Hannibal on July 20, 2008, 01:37 AM
20 men can break your heart at the same time.
Ever heard of tag team?? Do u know it's possible for 6 friends to be dating u without your knowledge?? Tongue Tongue
They jam each other in your crib, pretend they don't know each other but laugh behind your back!!!
If i tell u the kind of stuffs i did in ma Uni days, u would go to the abbey and become a nun.
Yeah . . . those names that come up in pubs before football matches Grin
After everything the 'playa chics' end up as ushers in church

Afterall God loves everyone Cheesy
Hannibal
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #82 on: July 20, 2008, 01:55 AM »

Quote from: eldee on July 20, 2008, 01:47 AM
Yeah . . . those names that come up in pubs before football matches Grin
After everything the 'playa chics' end up as ushers in church

Afterall God loves everyone Cheesy

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin  . . . . . .You catch ma drift.

I laugh me ass out whenever girls try to play men within the same city.

Men for what they are love socialising. . . . .within minutes a dude can make 20 friends in a pub and merry.
While referencing and cross-referencing. . You find out that u and 3 other guys are paging the same chic and we all come to an agreement to stay mute!
The funniest one is meeting your friend in your girl's room and pretending u guys don't know each other. . . . . Tongue Grin Cheesy
Blimey. . . .the chic in question tells the other guy u are her cousin/admirer and vice versa(what a cheap method).
Oblivious to her, when em geezers go back to the pub, they compare notes and laugh it off. Grin Cheesy Grin
A-40 (m)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #83 on: July 20, 2008, 01:56 AM »

@j-girl
Noo you guys are the confused ones see what you girls don't understand is sometimes we even act interested especially when we see she is playing hard to get and then the moment yall let your guards down and give us that funk that sweet that nasty and gushy stuff we are out the door.Some guys will calculatively wait while some will just walk out what matters to me is chemistry if you like a dude don't hide it
Hannibal
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #84 on: July 20, 2008, 01:59 AM »

Quote from: A-40 on July 20, 2008, 01:56 AM
@j-girl
Noo you guys are the confused ones see what you girls don't understand is sometimes we even act interested especially when we see she is playing hard to get and then the moment yall let your guards down and give us that funk that sweet that nasty and gushy stuff we are out the door.Some guys will calculatively wait while some will just walk out what matters to me is chemistry if you like a dude don't hide it

Touche. . .

eldee (m)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #85 on: July 20, 2008, 02:06 AM »

Quote from: Hannibal on July 20, 2008, 01:55 AM
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin . . . . . .You catch ma drift.

I laugh me ass out whenever girls try to play men within the same city.

Men for what they are love socialising. . . . .within minutes a dude can make 20 friends in a pub and merry.
While referencing and cross-referencing. . You find out that u and 3 other guys are paging the same chic and we all come to an agreement to stay mute!
The funniest one is meeting your friend in your girl's room and pretending u guys don't know each other. . . . . Tongue Grin Cheesy
Blimey. . . .the chic in question tells the other guy u are her cousin/admirer and vice versa(what a cheap method).
Oblivious to her, when em geezers go back to the pub, they compare notes and laugh it off. Grin Cheesy Grin
Exactly . . . and there are some times guys just decide to have fun
They all invite the 'playette' out at the same time, laughing at the different excuses she doles out Cheesy

Meanwhile, our pimpette is there amusing herself with her 'intelligence' Grin Grin
Hannibal
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #86 on: July 20, 2008, 02:18 AM »

@ Eldee,

Exactly ma sentiments!!!

The same intelligence possessed by a church mouse. . . .Poor, watery and uncouth.
Guys can be deadly. . . . .Trust me!!!

Without any prior arrangement. . . .You meet your friend dilly-dallying with your supposed chic and u keep a straight face. . . .
He sees u, he reads your body language and he leaves immediately to let u have your time n space with her.
After the whole rendezvous. . . . . . .You meet him at the pub, compare notes and work together as a unit to make her pay.
Meanwhile, the nymphet is right there believing stupidly that she is a playette. . . . . What a laugh!!!
A-40 (m)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #87 on: July 20, 2008, 02:21 AM »

You even see guys running bets on who would bone the chic quicker! and there the girl sits  thinking she is doing the playing.Pathetic
chika98
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #88 on: July 20, 2008, 02:37 AM »

So long as you don't over it do then it's cool
HCH3COO
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #89 on: July 20, 2008, 02:49 AM »

Quote from: chika98 on July 20, 2008, 02:37 AM
So long as you don't over it do then it's cool
Wink
Ruby_Pearl (f)
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #90 on: July 20, 2008, 03:34 AM »

Mr.Modifier
HCH3COO
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #91 on: July 20, 2008, 03:52 AM »

whatever man
topup
Re: Guys, Do You Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes?
« #92 on: August 26, 2008, 05:24 AM »

This stuff is sick!

You guys sure love to talk and gossip!  Tongue
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