Most Annoying Things Women Do

Punish a man with sex, yet dress to kill

Papabacs that's not true. I think women look for love and unfortunately our environment sometimes influences the meaning of the word. For example in my relationship I am even more of a bread winner than my man coz of my business. I love having money and the comfort that comes with it but I love my man too much to make it his sole number 1 and number 2 I might never live in the kind of comfort I want soon enough coz of waiting for him to make it. It doesn't matter who gets the mula as long as we are together to enjoy it.

I do nag him about where he is coz he nags me about where I am. He can call me 20 times in the space of an hour. The day I stop nagging is the day he should worry. That usually means you woman is finding something more interesting to give her attention to or she just don't care for you. You may not believe it but it's true.

I find that the more available you are to a man, does not necessarily mean good for you. He may start thinkin of gettin some hamburger instead of steak at home. As long as he realises that your life is so busy and you are exposed to the public, he will chase after his steak huni coz he realises when you are out there, another hunter may look at you and see hamburger.

Keep him on his toes girls, get yourself busy,  don't let him find you at home in the same condition he left you in this morning when you got outta bed. you'll start looking like stale steak and there is nothing appetising in that.

I would also like to point out that when I say get yourself busy, I mean it in a cconstructiveway. One of my greatest triumphs is knowing that with or without my man I can afford to live in the same comfort b'coz of financial iIndependence I don't need another man to be daddy to my kids for them to be fed.

Honesty is important, so be honest with yourself and know that no one is rresponsiblefor your success, sense of selfworth or aaccomplishmentsbut you. No one can determine the type of life you live but you. The other day, after 5 years of marriage, I received an msg from my Naija Hubby saying I was the greatest blessing of all to him and he loves me forever. Apparently he realised how good he has it after hearing his friends talk about their marriages and relationships.

So men, if you have a good woman, praise her and stop  on this site and she will hand you heaven. If you don't have one of these, do sumthin' about it.  One Luv