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Evept (f)
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #64 on: March 28, 2008, 10:44 AM »

@ flakylady  ,
i met my man in portugal ,i lived there for 4 years and he come´s working there and we became inseperatable since them,do you guys have kids?
Blackcat (f)
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #65 on: March 31, 2008, 12:15 PM »

Quote from: ifyalways
am having a sizzling affair with a swiss man and am really enjoying it though i do secretly pray it doesnt lead to marriage God forgive me


Follow your heart if its an African man you want to spend the rest of your life with, God will answer your prayers Grin

Quote from: Leilah
why do you not want it to lead to marriage? would you rather be treated like a slave by an african man?

I pray these  four years of marriage to an African remain tortuous.

Quote from: Leilah
Yeah, if he is good enough to have sex with now why is he not good enough for marriage.  Are you going to look for an african hubby and pretend your all innocent

ify, is an adult.  She knows  exactly what she wants.
Moreover did you marry my bros as a virgin?

Quote from: Leilah
, naija men are extremely prone to cheating (so are all men) but exeptions for the naija man

White women are extremely prone to cheating

Quote from: Leilah on March 20, 2008, 02:29 AM
blatant, its vice versa! Shocked

Are you saying I sleep around?

get lost,

Yes

Quote from: Leilah
We all know how the cookie crumbles with naija men

You have been married to one for 4 years. Hope it really crumbles soon. We will be waiting to hear all about it.

Quote from: Leilah
Oh yeah Nwando its better to be with someone thats circumcised that will treat you like a concubine as opposed to being with some 'philistine' who is not. bet that 'philistine' is not treating her like a chattel.

rubbish

Quote from: Leilah
I hate this talk of white chicks love black Diks. Not all of them. Sure I coldn't care if he had none at all.  Love his heart.

Let your naija husband see this comment and we will see if he cares about not having a di*k at all.
That big di*k produced Aisha don't forget


ifyalways (f)
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #66 on: April 01, 2008, 09:51 AM »

rofl.
Memories from yesterday,happiness for today and joy for morrow.  Tongue
came,saw and conquered.
only a fish knows the splendour of the sea.  Kiss
Amiga (f)
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #67 on: April 03, 2008, 01:46 AM »

@ Evept

My babies (plus my husband aka big baby) are doing great!

Thanks for asking.

Whoever told you that is a lair, and should stop generalizing. If she was unfortunate with one or two dutch men does not mean they are all the same

BTW, we live in Spain but holland was fine last time I visited   Smiley

Hope you are doing fine
Evept (f)
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #68 on: April 03, 2008, 01:08 PM »

Quote from: Amiga on April 03, 2008, 01:46 AM
@ Evept

My babies (plus my husband aka big baby) are doing great!

Thanks for asking.

Whoever told you that is a lair, and should stop generalizing. If she was unfortunate with one or two dutch men does not mean they are all the same

BTW, we live in Spain but holland was fine last time I visited  Smiley

Hope you are doing fine

Hi Amiga,
im glad you agree with me that all dutch men are not the same ,im sure they were unlucky with the dutch men they got involved with and they generalize it to all.
im with a norwegian man and im a girl who always go interracial ,we also live in spain and it will be nice to know you better since we both live in the same country,yes holland is a nice country and a very mixed country.i travel down there sometimes.
do you have yahoo messenger? we can chat there sometimes.

hope your hubby and kids are doing fine ,how old are kids and how long have you been in europe?
cheers,
Evept

Amiga (f)
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #69 on: April 04, 2008, 02:03 PM »

@ Evept, would you give me your yahoo id so we can chat
Evept (f)
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #70 on: April 05, 2008, 04:35 PM »

Quote from: Amiga on April 04, 2008, 02:03 PM
@ Evept, would you give me your yahoo id so we can chat
Hi Amiga,
my yahoo ID is : naevelyn@yahoo.com
hope to chat with you soon,if im offline just drop a message and i will get back to u.
cheers,
Eve
benincitys (f)
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #71 on: July 09, 2008, 02:53 PM »

i am married to a white man who is very nice to me  , i am finding it great  .
dudu-bobo
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #72 on: July 15, 2008, 01:36 PM »

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7505305.stm

A British man is appealing against a conviction in Ghana for indecently assaulting a three-year-old girl.

Thomas Tichler, 57, a retired banker from Hertfordshire, was jailed for two years in February.

The charity Fair Trials International has disputed the medical evidence used to convict him and says the girl was too young to give evidence.

The appeal court, sitting in Accra, is reserving judgement on the case until later this year.

Medical evidence

The case stems from an invitation accepted last year by Tichler, who was in Ghana at the time volunteering for a charity.

He was invited to a local man's house, where he was left to play with the family's children.

When the family's three-year-old daughter went to the toilet, her mother found blood in the little girl's urine and her underwear.

Tichler was convicted of indecently assaulting the girl and causing her harm and sentenced to two years for each offence, to run concurrently.

His defence team says the blood could have been the result of innocent horseplay, as Tichler lifted the girl onto his shoulders.

It says the medical evidence presented by the prosecution could equally support its explanation of what happened.   

Defence lawyers argue the girl's testimony in court was an important factor in Tichler's conviction and are concerned that she may have been too young for her evidence to have been relied upon.

Joe Stone, a barrister at Doughty Street Chambers, has been advising the Tichler family on their appeal.

He said: "[Children] start speaking at two and being able to articulate with something as sensitive as this, there really is some concern as to whether the child understands what is being said."

Child's evidence

The Ghanaian legal system is based upon the English courts, which is a legacy of its colonial past.

When children give evidence in courts in England and Wales, the judge has to determine whether the child understands the questions put to them and whether the answers they give are comprehensible.

"That two-part competency test, which is standard and mandatory here didn't take place," Mr Stone said.

"I think the judge asked whether the child understood the importance of telling truth and lies but there was no further investigation into the child."

  My own view is that you've at least as much chance of a fair trial in Ghana as you would have in the UK

Craig Murray
Former UK diplomat
The London-based charity Fair Trials International has taken on Tichler's case.

The head of the legal team, Sabine Zanker, is worried about political interference.

She said: "This was hyped up by politicians, including the attorney general, who in Ghana is also the justice minister.

"When Tom was initially charged with a lesser offence, he went public and said it was very important to protect Ghanaian children from white paedophiles and he thought he should be charged with a much more serious offence."

'Fair hearing'

Craig Murray, a former diplomat who was deputy high commissioner to Ghana, says he does not know of a single incident involving a British national where there was reason to suspect they had not received a fair hearing.

"My own view is that you've at least as much chance of a fair trial in Ghana as you would have in the UK," he said.

Two of Mr Tichler's sons have been in Accra to see their father's appeal.

The eldest, James, insists his father is innocent.

"He's certainly never displayed any behaviour like what he's been accused of towards me or my brothers," he said.

"I don't think I'll accept that he's guilty unless he came and told me he was."

The attorney general of Ghana, Joe Ghartey, told the BBC that he could not comment directly on the case.

He said the country had a very independent judiciary and that any comments he made would not have made any difference to the outcome of the trial.

His team has been appealing for a longer prison sentence for Tichler, arguing that the circumstances of the case do not support the length of the sentence originally handed down by the judge.

Blackcat (f)
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #73 on: September 01, 2008, 03:17 PM »

Quote from: dudu-bobo on July 15, 2008, 01:36 PM
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7505305.stm

A British man is appealing against a conviction in Ghana for indecently assaulting a three-year-old girl.

Thomas Tichler, 57, a retired banker from Hertfordshire, was jailed for two years in February.

The charity Fair Trials International has disputed the medical evidence used to convict him and says the girl was too young to give evidence.

The appeal court, sitting in Accra, is reserving judgement on the case until later this year.

Medical evidence

The case stems from an invitation accepted last year by Tichler, who was in Ghana at the time volunteering for a charity.

He was invited to a local man's house, where he was left to play with the family's children.

When the family's three-year-old daughter went to the toilet, her mother found blood in the little girl's urine and her underwear.

Tichler was convicted of indecently assaulting the girl and causing her harm and sentenced to two years for each offence, to run concurrently.

His defence team says the blood could have been the result of innocent horseplay, as Tichler lifted the girl onto his shoulders.

It says the medical evidence presented by the prosecution could equally support its explanation of what happened.

Defence lawyers argue the girl's testimony in court was an important factor in Tichler's conviction and are concerned that she may have been too young for her evidence to have been relied upon.

Joe Stone, a barrister at Doughty Street Chambers, has been advising the Tichler family on their appeal.

He said: "[Children] start speaking at two and being able to articulate with something as sensitive as this, there really is some concern as to whether the child understands what is being said."

Child's evidence

The Ghanaian legal system is based upon the English courts, which is a legacy of its colonial past.

When children give evidence in courts in England and Wales, the judge has to determine whether the child understands the questions put to them and whether the answers they give are comprehensible.

"That two-part competency test, which is standard and mandatory here didn't take place," Mr Stone said.

"I think the judge asked whether the child understood the importance of telling truth and lies but there was no further investigation into the child."

 My own view is that you've at least as much chance of a fair trial in Ghana as you would have in the UK

Craig Murray
Former UK diplomat
The London-based charity Fair Trials International has taken on Tichler's case.

The head of the legal team, Sabine Zanker, is worried about political interference.

She said: "This was hyped up by politicians, including the attorney general, who in Ghana is also the justice minister.

"When Tom was initially charged with a lesser offence, he went public and said it was very important to protect Ghanaian children from white paedophiles and he thought he should be charged with a much more serious offence."

'Fair hearing'

Craig Murray, a former diplomat who was deputy high commissioner to Ghana, says he does not know of a single incident involving a British national where there was reason to suspect they had not received a fair hearing.

"My own view is that you've at least as much chance of a fair trial in Ghana as you would have in the UK," he said.

Two of Mr Tichler's sons have been in Accra to see their father's appeal.

The eldest, James, insists his father is innocent.

"He's certainly never displayed any behaviour like what he's been accused of towards me or my brothers," he said.

"I don't think I'll accept that he's guilty unless he came and told me he was."

The attorney general of Ghana, Joe Ghartey, told the BBC that he could not comment directly on the case.

He said the country had a very independent judiciary and that any comments he made would not have made any difference to the outcome of the trial.

His team has been appealing for a longer prison sentence for Tichler, arguing that the circumstances of the case do not support the length of the sentence originally handed down by the judge.



What has this got to do with the topic?
Evept (f)
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #74 on: September 01, 2008, 03:31 PM »

@ dudu-bobo ,
what does that have to do with our interracial post,please if u don't know what to say don't say at all,
Evept (f)
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #75 on: September 01, 2008, 03:35 PM »

Quote from: benincitys on July 09, 2008, 02:53 PM
i am married to a white man who is very nice to me , i am finding it great .
your welcome to our interracial group ,please to meet you and hope we will get to know each others with time
dudu-bobo
Re: Are You In Black And White Marriage Or Relationship? How Are You Finding It?
« #76 on: September 01, 2008, 04:01 PM »

That's a result of inter-racial relations  Lips sealed
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