please,help A Confused Lover.

Two guys are into  relationaship with a twin with the intention of getting marry the same day for various reasons.But now one of the guy has just gotten adimission to do his masters in sweden  till 2010.But the girls will be 28 by next birthday.Surely, the guys are older. So what advice do you have for them?Should the other guy wait for the guy going to sweden till he returns 2010? The guy is confused. What does he do because the sweden person seems not to take the ralationship seriously.

only iice finds and responds to meaningless threads like this. Is it maybe she's trying  to get her number of post up to beat the highest or what

@poster

If it is such a big deal--they should all get married before anyone leaves the country for a "picture perfect" scenario.
I hope you do not mean that the 2 guys are planning to marry "a twin"?

I am hoping you meant 2 guys marrying 2 girls who are twins?

In any case, no body leaves Nigeria till both couples are married. Period!

I believe this group is there to help us sort out difficult issues like this, not to rain insult on other people's view. I mean that 2 guys are into relationship with 2 twins, and one of the guys just got admission to do his masters in sweden and the programme ends by 2010 march. The admission takes effects from march next year. So the other guy is confused as to what to do since there in an understanding in the family of the ladies for them to marry same day, may be to cut down expenses and all that. You know if the guy who got admission leaves for sweden next year, the possiblity of coming back immediately after his masters is slim. So what advice do you have for them particuarly the other guy who is NOT going to sweden? Remember the ladies will be 28years old by feb next year. please, help out!