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grow fast (m)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #128 on: November 29, 2007, 10:34 AM »

@all ---- your replies make me feel guilty,  and this will be the last time am going to read any reply here before am push to change my love toward this angel ,  like l said before,  l love her so much and nothing can ever change that OK even if l see any nairalander in person, 

Make l tell Una please this insult is enough OK,  am just too mad right now ,   

One question to all ----------- Do you want to separate us? l guess if l keep reading this, something evil could just happen l better leave before that happen

                         l love her and nothing can Chang that
                                                       thank you all for your insult.
oluwaseun8
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #129 on: November 29, 2007, 10:45 AM »

Man you are a disgrace to the nation, u had a sex with a 14years old girl. Huh, i guess you are old enough to be her father.

Man na wa for you , na because say naija don spoil ,if to say na another country u do that,them go jail you for real .
mellow (m)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #130 on: November 29, 2007, 12:34 PM »

You guys are too hard on this guy. what has he done? Is it is fault that he cannot toast

a mature lady? All this ladies where all here when this guy needed a woman and none

of them yieded to him and now he has gone psycho and ended up in the arms of an infant

child. Now this guy has gone crazy and needs rehabilitation and you girls are to blame for it.

@ Grow fast I don't honestly know why you are going contrary to your name but methinks there

is a nut let loosed in your blame and don't worry I am going to organise a charity fund that will

take care of your psycho bills.



 ewu akpukpantin
Gbemyte (f)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #131 on: November 29, 2007, 12:50 PM »

how cud u ve asked such a question,d girl in question is a stupid girl how cud she aloowed u to deflower her at that tender age
even d parent that said u should wait another year is a stupid parent.You want to tell me that since this year u didnt meet a woman of your choice,too bad.What u ve done is called child abuse.Dont ask such a stupid question again here.Dont corrupt young fellow out here.
sheisnice (f)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #132 on: November 29, 2007, 02:04 PM »

Please all, let us not criticize him but rather pray for him, i think he needs prayer not criticism. He may be going through some serious curse or smt, so please let use our Godly heart to pray and not Criticize him.
ndumart (m)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #133 on: November 29, 2007, 02:06 PM »

15? Thats wicked, callous and pathetic.It think the ministry of women affairs needs to hear about this.She could be your daughter.I pray u sire many daughters.
naijaborn (m)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #134 on: November 29, 2007, 02:29 PM »

@growfast, yu seem to hav grown too fast while that thing in yur skull's slow in growth,
yu claim to be 31 nd yur stil yarnin bluhhhhhh! Shocked yur case;more than a disgrace;is simply pathetic! Lips sealed Undecided Tongue
macozanini (f)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #135 on: November 29, 2007, 03:53 PM »

u are a serial PEADOPHILE   , you mmust be lock up. in fact im going to report you to the police. SHAME ON YOU!!!
karinkapo
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #136 on: November 29, 2007, 04:53 PM »


YES YOU CAN

HELLO ALL,
I WANT US ALL TO STOP POINTING ACCUSING FINGER TO THIS YOUNG GUY, EVERY ONE ON EARTH AS THE RIGHT TO DO AND UNDO WHAT EVER PLEASES HIM OR HER. HE HAS THE RIGHT TO MARRY ANYBODY AT ANY AGE. IN THE NORTH GIRLS DO MARRY BEFORE THEY SEE THEIR PERIODS(MENSTRUATION), I MEAN BEFORE PUBERTY AGE, SO WHAT HAS HE DONE WRONG, NEVER THE LESS I AM AGAINST HIM DISFLOURING THIS GIRL AT THE AGE OF 14, BUT LETS BE A BIT SERIOUS, HE MADE A MISTAKE, HE ADMIT IT AND HE WANT TO CORRECT HIS ERRORS BY MARRYING HIS GIRL FRIEND.


@POSTER,MY ADVICE FOR YOU, IS THAT, YOU CAN DO A COURT MARRIAGE FOR HER NOW SO THAT YOU WILL NOT LOOSE HER AND LET HER CONTINUE WITH HER STUDIES UNTIL SHE IS OLD ENOUGH TO HANDLE A HOME. I HAVE SEEN A MARRIAGE WHERE BY THE COUPLES WHILE THEY WERE STILL A TEENAGER WENT TO COURT TO FORMALISED THEIR RELATIONSHIP BEFORE THEY WENT TO UNIVERSITY, TODAY, THEY ARE HAPPILY MARRIED, IT IS WHEN THEY ARE ABOUT GETTING MARRIED(CHURCH WEDDING AFTER UNIVERSITY EDUCATION) THAT BOTH PARENTS WERE TOLD AT THE COURT THAT THIS CHILDREN OF THEIRS HAD FORMALISED THEIR RELATIONSHIP LONG AGO.


IF YOU ARE AFRAID OF LOOSING HER, THEN FORMARLISE IT BY TAKING HER TO COURT, MANY ADULT ARE OUT THERE BUT 80% OF THEM ALL ARE SECOND HAND MATERIALS, DIFFERENT MEN HAVE LIED ON THEM. DON'T BE ASHAME OF YOURSELF ONLY BE BOLD AND BE A MAN.



I WISH YOU THE VERY BEST I WISH MYSELF.
eiete (f)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #137 on: November 29, 2007, 05:44 PM »

At this rate i can see that you are only mature physically,

but mentally have the brain of a 15 year old.  Sad

So God help you is all i can say.

nwando
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #138 on: November 29, 2007, 05:54 PM »

Quote from: karinkapo on November 29, 2007, 04:53 PM

YES YOU CAN

HELLO ALL,
I WANT US ALL TO STOP POINTING ACCUSING FINGER TO THIS YOUNG GUY, EVERY ONE ON EARTH AS THE RIGHT TO DO AND UNDO WHAT EVER PLEASES HIM OR HER. HE HAS THE RIGHT TO MARRY ANYBODY AT ANY AGE. IN THE NORTH GIRLS DO MARRY BEFORE THEY SEE THEIR PERIODS(MENSTRUATION), I MEAN BEFORE PUBERTY AGE, SO WHAT HAS HE DONE WRONG, NEVER THE LESS I AM AGAINST HIM DISFLOURING THIS GIRL AT THE AGE OF 14, BUT LETS BE A BIT SERIOUS, HE MADE A MISTAKE, HE ADMIT IT AND HE WANT TO CORRECT HIS ERRORS BY MARRYING HIS GIRL FRIEND.


@POSTER,MY ADVICE FOR YOU, IS THAT, YOU CAN DO A COURT MARRIAGE FOR HER NOW SO THAT YOU WILL NOT LOOSE HER AND LET HER CONTINUE WITH HER STUDIES UNTIL SHE IS OLD ENOUGH TO HANDLE A HOME. I HAVE SEEN A MARRIAGE WHERE BY THE COUPLES WHILE THEY WERE STILL A TEENAGER WENT TO COURT TO FORMALISED THEIR RELATIONSHIP BEFORE THEY WENT TO UNIVERSITY, TODAY, THEY ARE HAPPILY MARRIED, IT IS WHEN THEY ARE ABOUT GETTING MARRIED(CHURCH WEDDING AFTER UNIVERSITY EDUCATION) THAT BOTH PARENTS WERE TOLD AT THE COURT THAT THIS CHILDREN OF THEIRS HAD FORMALISED THEIR RELATIONSHIP LONG AGO.


IF YOU ARE AFRAID OF LOOSING HER, THEN FORMARLISE IT BY TAKING HER TO COURT, MANY ADULT ARE OUT THERE BUT 80% OF THEM ALL ARE SECOND HAND MATERIALS, DIFFERENT MEN HAVE LIED ON THEM. DON'T BE ASHAME OF YOURSELF ONLY BE BOLD AND BE A MAN.



I WISH YOU THE VERY BEST I WISH MYSELF.

You are even more demented than the poster.
So because northerners,(some in their fifties)in Nigeria are subjecting little prepubertal girls to rape and call it marriage,that makes it ok.
You make me sick!
Go to the north and see countless little girls that ended up with connections between their vagina,rectum and bladder.
Leaking urine and feces,abandoned by the okongwu and his family and thrown out like a piece of trash.
read about vesicovaginal fistula before you talk like a street kid
VIC4U
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #139 on: November 29, 2007, 06:22 PM »

Another child abuse Huh Huh Huh
Elpee (f)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #140 on: November 29, 2007, 06:34 PM »

 Huh its obvious hes seekin attention,  why wuld u want to marry a 15 year old girl she doesnt even know her left from her right yet,  dast absurd gosh man u need to fix things put u 31 for chrsses sake gan,  gosh please look for a more suitable to be,  because i feel it wont work at all only if she ends up being a sex slave
Elpee (f)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #141 on: November 29, 2007, 06:35 PM »

imagine nd i was just tellin my boyfriend to wait ten years last night lol gosh pips r crazyyy,  d girl no gbadun sef, 
top_kin (m)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #142 on: November 29, 2007, 10:28 PM »

 Huh Bros, na wa to u o!!! Shuo!!! You be agbaya o Shocked your mate don finish for market? Grow up bro! Am sure all your mates av turned u down probably because daerz a lot of tins rung wit u!!!??? Paedophile!!!
FactorChic (f)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #143 on: November 29, 2007, 10:40 PM »

LMAO, are u kidding me??? Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

EWOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO, abeg this guys is just looking for attention, u even slept with her when she was 14, and u said u're older than her with almost 16 years, YOU ARE A SHAMELESS HE-GOAT! Angry

She loves you? are u ok? what does a 15 yr old know about love? Can't u find someone your own age? and her parents said u can marry her when she's 16, are they that poor? I bet u didn't ask that girl out, u are one of those old folks from d stone age who give their children to old wealthy men, i'm sure that's d case here, You should be ashamed of yourself, u even had d guts to come here and write this stupid post, I'm sure you're not in the states, because you will rot in jail!!!! Angry  GOSH!!! How can ube so cruel!!!


But I want to believe this is a joke, if not, May God punish u!, AMEN! Angry
FactorChic (f)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #144 on: November 29, 2007, 10:43 PM »

Quote from: karinkapo on November 29, 2007, 04:53 PM

YES YOU CAN

HELLO ALL,
I WANT US ALL TO STOP POINTING ACCUSING FINGER TO THIS YOUNG GUY, EVERY ONE ON EARTH AS THE RIGHT TO DO AND UNDO WHAT EVER PLEASES HIM OR HER. HE HAS THE RIGHT TO MARRY ANYBODY AT ANY AGE. IN THE NORTH GIRLS DO MARRY BEFORE THEY SEE THEIR PERIODS(MENSTRUATION), I MEAN BEFORE PUBERTY AGE, SO WHAT HAS HE DONE WRONG, NEVER THE LESS I AM AGAINST HIM DISFLOURING THIS GIRL AT THE AGE OF 14, BUT LETS BE A BIT SERIOUS, HE MADE A MISTAKE, HE ADMIT IT AND HE WANT TO CORRECT HIS ERRORS BY MARRYING HIS GIRL FRIEND.


@POSTER,MY ADVICE FOR YOU, IS THAT, YOU CAN DO A COURT MARRIAGE FOR HER NOW SO THAT YOU WILL NOT LOOSE HER AND LET HER CONTINUE WITH HER STUDIES UNTIL SHE IS OLD ENOUGH TO HANDLE A HOME. I HAVE SEEN A MARRIAGE WHERE BY THE COUPLES WHILE THEY WERE STILL A TEENAGER WENT TO COURT TO FORMALISED THEIR RELATIONSHIP BEFORE THEY WENT TO UNIVERSITY, TODAY, THEY ARE HAPPILY MARRIED, IT IS WHEN THEY ARE ABOUT GETTING MARRIED(CHURCH WEDDING AFTER UNIVERSITY EDUCATION) THAT BOTH PARENTS WERE TOLD AT THE COURT THAT THIS CHILDREN OF THEIRS HAD FORMALISED THEIR RELATIONSHIP LONG AGO.


IF YOU ARE AFRAID OF LOOSING HER, THEN FORMARLISE IT BY TAKING HER TO COURT, MANY ADULT ARE OUT THERE BUT 80% OF THEM ALL ARE SECOND HAND MATERIALS, DIFFERENT MEN HAVE LIED ON THEM. DON'T BE ASHAME OF YOURSELF ONLY BE BOLD AND BE A MAN.



I WISH YOU THE VERY BEST I WISH MYSELF.

YOU SHOULD BE SHOT DEAD FOR THIS STUPID COMMENT YOU MADE, i BET YOU SLEEP WITH 9 YR OLDS, HOW CAN You TELL HIM TO GO MARRY A 15 YR OLD, WHAT MAN IN HIS RIGHT SENSE WILL FALL IN LOVE WITH A 15 YR OLD, AND HE IS LIKE 30 SOMETHING, YOU ARE A BIG FOOL! Angry
top_kin (m)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #145 on: November 29, 2007, 10:50 PM »

This is not a time to condemm this insane fellow, what this pycho need frw us all is a holistic mental rehabilation, mad-men like
Clifford Orji and co started like this before they went haywire. so let us all prevent this one frm gettin lose on the society, it
is better handle now because his madness is just at the infancy at least he can still post on this forum. please save a derailing soul.
~Lady~ (f)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #146 on: November 29, 2007, 11:12 PM »

Chei grow fast

This thing is just vexing me, I have a 15 year old sister and I swear if any man were to try this to her, I will throw tires around him and set him ablase, such nonsense, if I see u I will set u ablase too, Nonsense

  Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
swiftycool (m)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #147 on: November 29, 2007, 11:46 PM »

Whats all the stress about? after all, a certain exhulted prophet once confisicated his young
aides 12 year old chick AND MARRIED HER!.
And since he was sooooo holy, i,d say it aint wrong to emulate that shit!
or what u think peeps?
Bros ride on jare You R more responsible than that prophet,
support your moves with the lifestyle of the Hallowed Prophet.
Undecided Undecided Undecided
grow fast (m)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #148 on: November 30, 2007, 09:15 AM »

@all ------ One more thing we are so happy with each other every minute,  l don't know what's you guys stress,
emelumgini (f)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #149 on: November 30, 2007, 09:45 AM »

grow fast, what tribe are u? are u sure u want to marry the girl or u have something else to do with her. because i can't imagin that.
gr8child (m)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #150 on: November 30, 2007, 11:29 AM »

Growfast you are a funny guy. And by funny I mean insane.  Cheesy
Mant
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #151 on: November 30, 2007, 11:32 AM »

Hi Nairalander,

It is not a crime to proposed any age, however it is a big SIN to sleep with lady u have not married.

Firstly, u need to beg for forgiveness from God and may Almighty God forgive u and me all our sin.

Sincerely yours to marry a 15yrs girl is not too alright, even if u have arrangement for her education and other, 'because education is only the key who can liberate someone. Please seek for education first.

I concurred with those who are of opinion of you be more patient till around 21yrs ie 5 to 6years to come.

Lastly, those big mouth u too u have your own atrocities. Undecided Undecided Undecided

Best wishes to husband to be,  Smiley Smiley Smiley
jeffoski
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #152 on: November 30, 2007, 02:29 PM »

wonders will never seize to end i wonder what kind of love G.u  have for this young girl.what is love in the first place?if you really love someone you wish the person well but in your case you want to destroy the life of the person you claim to love.first how can you sleep with her at 14 and now want to marry her if she get's pregnant what is the grantee that she will not have V V F and then i wonder if you'll still love her.then her parent that are tell you to wait till when she's 16 i wonder what they are thinking inshort wetin carry you go they look small pickin in the first place.you need deliverance seriously if you can't wait for her to be atleast 21 & find it so difficult to toast a big girl make use of technology(internet chat,sms)or read magazines there are millions of single big girls looking for husband.if you claim you love her wait and stop destroying her future.
davotico
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #153 on: November 30, 2007, 02:41 PM »

you dey craise
davotico
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #154 on: November 30, 2007, 02:45 PM »

you dey crAIZE
oyb (m)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #155 on: November 30, 2007, 03:02 PM »

everyone is knocking the posterwhat about the girls parents and immediate family? they are just as guilty .
Blackcat (f)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #156 on: November 30, 2007, 03:14 PM »

'grow fast' unlike the others I will not insult you. You came to us for advice and thats exactly what i will give to you. Marry the girl when she is 16 as advised by her parents ,afterall you have already done the worst by fucking her, the best you can do for her is marry her(thus making a decent woman of her), so her horny cunt does not go sharing all over the place but DO NOT TOUCH HER TILL SHE IS 18!!!!!!! Let her live with her parents after the marriage until she is matured to handle your-----  you catch my drift???
mekoyo (m)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #157 on: November 30, 2007, 03:50 PM »

Haba at fifteen.  Just give the girl some time. Even 18 in our Nigerian mentality its still not ok. Give her some man. See you sef, u deflower her at 14 and some months shame!!!

I beg leave d girl o
Real T (f)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #158 on: November 30, 2007, 04:05 PM »

the only thing you need to consider is love, if both of u love each other why noy u can get married to her. But never give her belly oh  Cheesy
luridguy (m)
Re: Can't I Marry My Girlfriend? She's Fifteen
« #159 on: November 30, 2007, 04:32 PM »

Quote from: Real T on November 30, 2007, 04:05 PM
the only thing you need to consider is love, if both of u love each other why noy u can get married to her. But never give her belly oh Cheesy

real T  no hard feelings you and the guy should share the same jail cell aba its not just that she is 15 but he said he is 16 years older o for crying out loud what is that ok lets even be a bit kind lets say to him wait till she is older lets say like 20 or 22 n lets see if she will still love his old behinde compared to some young guy her age. but wait o we are killing this guy what about the parents that say he should wait a year this life i don't know the more i think about it or maybe he some really wealty guy and the girls parents need money he Angry i have a little sister who let me just say me i will kill anyone who comes near my sister o Lips sealed be warned .if the guy is still reading he must feel really bad but the truth is no one is perfect and above mistakes but this was not a mistake its wrong its just wrong
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