Get Married To The One You Love Or The One That Loves You.

hi eclair,

My frank advice to ur friend is that he should not be deceived by physical appearance and merely fake look.

Take it or leave, your friend is still swimming in the ocean of an ignorance. This is because here is a poor lady dying for you and ready with all what she has to give you her life and you are still chasing a shadow (girl B). is it a crime for one to love sincerely?

Look marriage is not 1+1, it is far, far beyond that. I will advise him to really come up with his ideal wife and take it to God in prayer for perfect direction.

Base on what you posted friend, I believe the girl that love you( Girl A) will be a better house material because I can see  lots  of good qualities of a good wife in  her.

I observed also that your friend is a play boy and easily deceived with frivolious things. Man becarefull oo.

Please think about that.

Great!!!!

The one that loves me

Obey his heart,  The heart apparently tells him girl B is the one even though Girl A loves him more. From all indication, it appears girl B does love him but her pride hinders her from expressin it. more recently, she's beginnin to respond and it's easy to see that she's fallen but the problem is that my mate feels one of them will get hurt eventually. Girl A doesnt deserve to be heart broken from what I have seen of her and though no one deserves to be heart broken, he thinks he's chased girl B for too long to go bck especially now that she's beginnin to respond.

@ Fabiyi

You're perfectly rte. Girl A is a proper housewife material and I wonder how he got himself into this mess but like i alrdy mentioned, girl B came into the picture when it seemed like the relationship with girl A was comin to an end but now, the relationship is stil very much alive. I think girl A is even more attractive so I doubt it's got anythin to do with appearance. the problem now is that girl B is beginnin to respond and he feels either way one must get hurt. Both girls lik everyone of us have plus and minuses and I can confirm that girl B is more interestin and exposed whereas girl A is very preserve and passive which means she comes second in terms of beginnin a conversation.

My mate is actually a nice guy and though he admits he's been unfair, I hate to think he's a playa. I can confirm that he isn't sleepin with any of them.

@ vuitton.

I agree with u big time but assumin you don't grow to love and appreciate her. hvin that in mind, my mate does share your view and think he would be happy with girl A in the long term but since girl B's beginnin to fall (rem he loves girl B more), it's obvious that one of them would get hurt and though no one deserves to be heart broken, girl A deserves loads more than girl B.

i wish to settle down with somebody that loves me more than i do.
Tell ur friend to marry the woman he loves.Once a woman is married she will be commited to her home

neither,

continue searching, u  will find  the  person  that  u  love  n  loves  u  in  return,
pastor bimbo odukoyes take on finding a wife is

MARRY someone WHO U WILL LOVE/CHASE  4  EVER,

from the look of things you really seem to know much about this friends as in every single detail about his personal life which is quite strange. are you sure you are not trying to tell us something indirectly. are you sure this is not about you, just tell us.
abi o, tell us nd we will not let d cat out of d bag


but seriously, it is better to marry the one that loves u because when u f**k up she will forgive u, but d one u love more will kick u out when u f**k up, i think girl A is a better choice