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peu (f)
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i am in love with my best friend's uncle
the uncle and i both know it ,we talk in code in thepresence of everybody
i am also dating my bestfriend cousin.
the cousin is too timid for a guy but the uncle is my kind of guy.
what do i do and is this normal because the uncle is nine years older than me
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Zahymaka (m)
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How old are you -- to start with? If you're still very young then I'd call that a crush -- just a harmless liking for someone else. I wouldn't recommend you going out with someone far older than you are.
Sitting down and examining just exactly what you find interesting about him might help.
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peu (f)
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one year remaining to be be away from teens age
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Zahymaka (m)
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Then it's very normal. Just wait it out girl -- he knows you're interested in him and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Wait it out and it will most likely pass.
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hot-angel (f)
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one year remaining to be be away from teens age
So u r 19 soon to be 20. Then the uncle is like 28 soon to be 29. I think that's okay. But daing, ur best friend is in trouble oo. lol, U dated her cousin, and now u'll leave him to date her uncle, sooner or later u'll choose her daddy. J/k. Anyways, i think since you both know you so much like each other, things will fall in their places. First of all, you have to leave ur presen boyfriend, because obviously u r not "in love" with him. Once that's done, ur friends uncle might understand that you need him to "move a step further", and then he can ask u out or something. But again, back to ur friend, do u think she'll approve? |
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Blackbuddy
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If this "uncle" gave you a green light, would you really begin to date him? No doubt, he's aware of your relationship with his nephew/cousin and this "coded talk" thing between you two is plain wrong. However, a little flirting never hurt anyone, it's when we let our emotions get the better of our rational thoughts that "wahala go shele" ( there'll be trouble). Check yourself before you wreck more than yourself.
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peu (f)
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the Uncle has already given green ligth but i did not follow
i respect my bestfriend and my dignity
the uncle refer to his cousin as "babybrother"
that is the reason why i stood at red when the green ligth was on
but i still feel for the uncle
i guess i need help
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Blackbuddy
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peu, I feel you sister. Just ignore those feelings and stick with your boyfriend until you meet someone else who can give you a more fulfilling relationship. And if your present boyfriend is just not it, dump him. Never manage second best or settle for less.
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gem87 (f)
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it's a crush girl wait it out u'll laugh about it one day and ask yourself wht ws i thining?
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snazzydawn (f)
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girlie,you got issues
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peu (f)
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i guess i will just laugh it out
i believe i have got issues so thank for pointing it out
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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no its not normal  |
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peu (f)
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if that is the way you see it, then thanks, i am only asking for ur opinion  |
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EbonymanUK
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@hot-angel
tHATS A BIT CRUEL, "SOON SHE WILL CHOSE HER DADDY"
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smooooooth
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get a hold on your feelings, na people like you dey encourage female circumcision.  |
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abikelat
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my dear it is very normal,if u both love each other u can gho ahead,but if u r below 20 better u watch it, it cud be mere crush
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chamotex (m)
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@ poster o ti like okunrin ju. . . . . . . . iwo nikan ni?  |
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Nautillus (m)
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Whats your own and the guys in your best friends FAMILY ? ? ?
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