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snappy (f)
Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« on: November 29, 2007, 09:10 AM »

just wondering, because now every guy i mean every guy would want to have sex with u d moment they started dating u why is it so hard for them to wait for the right time i mean yr wedding night. guys doesnt want to wait again they want to 'eat' d thing first before saying i do

guys what do u think
yimiton (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #1 on: November 29, 2007, 10:05 AM »

This is true but it's not applicable to ALL guys. Some guys are ready to wait if you want to.

Come to think of it, we all complain that in the good old days, ladies marry as virgins, like our grand mothers and in the days of the Bible. But has it ever occured to anyone that those people actually marry at a very tender age, just when they begin to have sexual feelings. Back then, marrying at 17 was rather late!

Don't get me wrong, am an advocate for celebacy until marriage but, let's look at it the way it is above.

So girl, if you don't want a guy demanding so much and you falling, marry as early as possible.
ndumart
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #2 on: November 29, 2007, 03:08 PM »

To be sure the "i do" would be worth it.
yimiton (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #3 on: November 29, 2007, 03:11 PM »

Quote from: ndumart on November 29, 2007, 03:08 PM
To be sure the "i do" would be worth it.

Nonsence talk! Looong hhhiiiiiiisss
stillwater (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #4 on: November 29, 2007, 03:22 PM »

Men are ruled by their "mmmmhhh" Wink Wink Wink
ndumart
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #5 on: November 29, 2007, 03:31 PM »

Quote from: yimiton on November 29, 2007, 03:11 PM
Nonsence talk! Looong hhhiiiiiiisss

hey relax, just speaking my mind.
Or would u prefer a man to say "i do" then keep doing it outside because their spouse wont satisfy them?
I would rather cut it off than make her miserable.
rockiedink (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #6 on: November 29, 2007, 03:41 PM »

Quote from: ndumart on November 29, 2007, 03:31 PM
hey relax, just speaking my mind.
Or would u prefer a man to say "i do" then keep doing it outside because their spouse wont satisfy them?
I would rather cut it off than make her miserable.

what a faithful man!

@topic
guess they want to be sure of the goods than buy some worthless 'oja okunkun' black market. Grin

Lola4eva (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #7 on: November 29, 2007, 03:56 PM »

@topic
guess they want to be sure of the goods than buy some worthless 'oja okunkun' black market.

 Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry, why bother dating if u feel they might prove to be worthless
btayo1 (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #8 on: November 29, 2007, 04:14 PM »

It is simply because most girls would have done it before; so the guys sees it as if you have done it before with someone else why should i wait to say `i do´ before doing it with you. Most guys would be willing to wait if the know or are Convinced that their girl is a virgin
cybersleek (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #9 on: November 29, 2007, 04:20 PM »

 Why bother to buy the cow, when you can have the milk for free! Grin
ndumart
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #10 on: November 29, 2007, 04:27 PM »

Quote from: cybersleek on November 29, 2007, 04:20 PM
Why bother to buy the cow, when you can have the milk for free! Grin

I dey your side
cybersleek (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #11 on: November 29, 2007, 04:29 PM »

 Thank you jare my guy, make you leave all the babes here make them dey talk wetin dey sef no go do.
yimiton (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #12 on: November 29, 2007, 04:33 PM »

Quote from: cybersleek on November 29, 2007, 04:20 PM
Why bother to buy the cow, when you can have the milk for free! Grin

Will someone be kind enough to join me to strangle cybersleek?
This guy is getting deep into my nerves. They are at breaking point!
ndumart
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #13 on: November 29, 2007, 04:46 PM »

Quote from: cybersleek on November 29, 2007, 04:29 PM
Thank you jare my guy, make you leave all the babes here make them dey talk wetin dey sef no go do.

Ladies, how will u feel if you marry and discover ur man can't do? Hellish, I think? Better u find out if he can do before its too late. Marriage no b beans
stillwater (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #14 on: November 30, 2007, 01:16 AM »

Is marriage all about sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex,sex,sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex,sex,sex, sex, sex, sex, sex,sex and sex Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh Huh
snappy (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #15 on: November 30, 2007, 09:16 AM »

i wonder oh abeg help me ask the guys
them and sex sef
snappy (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #16 on: November 30, 2007, 09:22 AM »

i wonder oh abeg help me ask the guys

i tire for this their sex sex sex sex all d time
zignor (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #17 on: November 30, 2007, 09:23 AM »

Quote from: snappy on November 30, 2007, 09:22 AM
i wonder oh abeg help me ask the guys

i tire for this their sex sex sex sex all d time

But you too like sex . . .don't you? Tongue Tongue Tongue
rockiedink (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #18 on: November 30, 2007, 09:46 AM »

Quote from: zignor on November 30, 2007, 09:23 AM
But you too like sex . . .don't you? Tongue Tongue Tongue

thank you my brother. i wan bin ask her if she no dey do at all all, or she no plan to ever do.
2dye4 (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #19 on: November 30, 2007, 09:53 AM »

very crazy thread. Grin
noel76 (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #20 on: November 30, 2007, 11:17 AM »

@ Stillwater and snappy tru marriage is not about sex sex sex, bt u gals should realise that this is africa, a white couple can decide not 2 hav children bt its african counterpart can not and again it has to do wit d individuals involved ie it is a thing of the mind. U know 2 me marriage is meant 2 be enjoyed not endured.

Come 2 think of it, hw will feel 2 find out that, that particular girl whom u cherished so much,pampered and kipping ur self for, waiting 4 ur wedding night is been fucked (sorry 4 my lan.) seriously witout respect by another guy.

Guys want 2 taste! taste!! taste!!! before saying i do because  some gals once they milk u and run they label u mumu.please don't get me wrong because writting from experience u know this is NIG, these things happens life.

SO WANTING 2 DO before SAYING I DO IS A THING OF D MIND AND D INDIVIDUALS INVOLVED.
yewa-man (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #21 on: November 30, 2007, 11:39 AM »

the wait is sure worth it.  Cool
ozigbo (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #22 on: November 30, 2007, 11:57 AM »

Is very important that u confirm the package first.
ndumart
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #23 on: November 30, 2007, 10:56 PM »

Quote from: ozigbo on November 30, 2007, 11:57 AM
Is very important that u confirm the package first.

To know if it is intact or it has been tampered with.

(During a wedding ceremony, The brides father passed a note to the groom which read "Goods once delivered cannot be returned", the groom sent another note back saying "Contract void, if seal is broken")
NaJa HaJe (f)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #24 on: November 30, 2007, 11:12 PM »

why do guys talk like they are the only ones who are authorised to do the testing. I really hate the saying "before you buy a car take it for a test drive"

una boys no say if you no fit knack woma propa your own don finish be that!

Babes if una wan wait make una wait. na una get toto, na una get key. shakara dey our body na so our mama born us. NO SHAKING!!!

There are so many exercises a woman can do enhance her pre-sexual life without actually masturbating or doing the act. So you know ladies. . . . . . .  we have the upper hand.

A.OYEGBESAN@YAHOO.COM (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #25 on: December 01, 2007, 12:12 AM »

Naja Haje

You are right there when you said that if a woman does not want it, should not do it but for guys it is nothing about a test drive or checking out the goods. These day, as most people know, 'marriage'  is the last thing in a relationship, specially in any western society. Sex, in these circumstances, before a person say  I DO does not count much. 

It is funny when you say that women have a upper hand and that they can survive without the need of sexual activities.  My personal opinion is that it is very very difficult in real life. How many women you think out of say 100 can follow your line of thinking? 
stephen2 (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #26 on: December 01, 2007, 02:22 AM »

well,whats the point,telling a girl you want to wait for her till your wedding night,men grow up, not in this global village, Okay

if you leave your woman dey wait till wedding night,another man go dey one side dey mess her clean and neat,and at the end of the day,she might say she no won marry again,tell me,who loss??

So all the brodas,i will adbise that you ROD your woman or girl before any wedding night,leave that lady that posted this topic, as if she never or no dey mess, swear say you never mess before, MAGA
ettehgate (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #27 on: December 01, 2007, 02:23 PM »

e good make man test and see before marriage o

if you wan buy suya for abuja here them go give you test

if you wan buy okirika  you go test am

99% of our babes now na belgium

make man no go pick XXXXXXXL WHEN HIM BE XL
tlops (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #28 on: December 01, 2007, 02:48 PM »

I trhink any guy will wait if he's sure the seal is not broken, but why wait when its not cha-cha (new), if  she is not v why spare her,
, the stmt above is very unusual of me, 
ettehgate (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #29 on: December 01, 2007, 02:52 PM »

make man no go put round peg in
square hole in future

if you waist be 32, make u no go pick 42!
ettehgate (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #30 on: December 01, 2007, 02:54 PM »

make man no go put round peg in
square hole in future

if your waist be 32, make u no go pick 42!
saucekid (m)
Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'i Do'
« #31 on: December 01, 2007, 02:57 PM »

funny thread  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

*na sex una dey always wan discuss??*
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