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olorioko1 (m)
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 hey people, i really need help in this area of my life, Am a 23 year old graduate with prospects, and i really can't keep a long term relationship,every relationship i have been i just fade out after a couple of month,i lose interest the whole thing just seems like am wasting time and i get to find faults in the lady which has always been there but i never noticed them, i get to envy my friend for keeping their relationship.Please i need help , am really open for suggestions and will love to amend please, Thanks  |
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olanajim (m)
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Tell us a little about your last relationship. Maybe we can get a clue from it. Be honest.
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rosquare (m)
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@olorioko maybe you should take a break from the relationship thingy and just settle down for friendship. it will help you appreciate the female folks. they are wonderful friends you know |
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olorioko1 (m)
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ok,my last relationship, sincerely i don't know what to tell you, she was not what she seems to be projecting, i don't know if you get what am trying to say here,She looks to good be be true in terms of looks and the character is nothing to write home about, i get to hear different stories, They just don't seem to come out plain.Guess that all i have to tell you .
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ufobabe (f)
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@ POSTER
go on vacation like 6months. ask yourself what u really want from a lady.
discover yourself and u will be fine again.
enjoy ur cruise.
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doyin13 (m)
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I think if you change your mind state and realise you also have faults,
you might be more patient with your relationships.
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zheroes (m)
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sort yourself out first, ask yourself what you want in a lady, i guess you don't even know for now, no relationship, even 50years old marriage is bed of roses, people put up with one another, your growing up wasnt smooth completely, was it? when you had problems did you kill yourself that life isnt what it you expected? "it is what you put into a viable project that can yield dividends"
find out what you want from a girl, then play your part, believe it will work, and you will be there.
"as far as you can see is where you will get", you have limited yourself already by believing you can't have a long term relationship, CHANGE YOUR MINDSET BEFORE YOUR MINDSET CHANGES YOU.
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yimiton (f)
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Alright. This is not a very large problem, people get tired of their partners now and again but the big problem is if you move when ever you feel tired of a relationship, you'll keep moving, you'll never stop!
You are still pretty young but you must know that no woman on man has it all. There's always something not so cool about the person. If you move from one to the other, you'll find some personalities you loved in the last person missing from the next and that she has some possitive personalities that were missing in the former.
What you should do is to know what you want and if any woman posses about 70% of them, settle for her and don't start looking for faults and falling out of love now and again.
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uchetobi (f)
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well don’t rush into any relationship, take your time, meet a girl, be friends first before you take it to the next level, cheers brother
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