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ike mighty
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am in love wit a lady very much older than me.and i intend to marry her.
she often remind me that she is older than me
when ever we have arguments and that annoys me.
and i love her.
what do i do.
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yimiton (f)
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How ready are you for marriage? are you looking at getting married in the next few months?
If yes, then, there's already the question of age here. The fact that she reminds you often that she's older simply shows that you guys might not be able to handle the age difference after marriage.
If you're young and thinking of marrying her 'in the future', you don't have anything to worry about. You guys will break up before future comes.
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rosquare (m)
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@mighty ike
i hope you are mighty enough to handle this.
what exactly is the age difference between both of you?
how soon do you intend to marry her?
is she also ready to marry you?
could you please give info on the questions above so that
we can analyse the issue properly.
but if she keeps reminding you(if not jokingly) that she is
older than you,then you better think twice
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sylvex (f)
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Marry me because i'm still very much green and young and i wont also av to remind u weneva we argue that i'm younger than u. 
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victor4u (m)
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@ Ike The fact that she is reminding you that she is older is enough signal for you to think twice. I was in love and in fact stl in love wit a lady much older thn me although she looks young, we actually dated. she is very humble and nver for once utter d word "am older", instead anytime we av arguement which is bound to occur, she says "am sry", and she knws aw to cool me down anytime am angry. Evry1 knws us together and evn when i ws in problem, she hs always been there 4 me. She is an accountant so am i, we vry compatable and men if nt because of this 1 challenge, i 4 marry her  The only challenge really now is that she is talkin about marriage this yr which i ws nt ready 4 everything ws movin smoothly until pressure from friends n relative made her start reconsiderin. Rite nw, evn though we no more datin , we stl 2gder as best pals, because i stl very much love her  I myself can't start a lady tellin me she is older not evn jokingly, because vry soon she wl start exchangin blows, so ma bros i understand u love her bt run before its 2 late |
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yimiton (f)
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@ victor4u,
You don bash my car! . . .la. la la
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raginheart (f)
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since she keeps reminding u of that then it means she is always thinkin about it
and it might be an issue to her too
i think u two need to talk about it before u take a serious move like marriage
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zignor (m)
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Marry me because i'm still very much green and young and i wont also av to remind u weneva we argue that i'm younger than u. you don't mean it  |
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victor4u (m)
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@ yimiton which 1 that kon mean now  i no understand oooo, abeg decode am  |
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ike mighty
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???slsvex i would have married u but i don't know how old u are presently. i know even know if ur older than me.sorry oo |
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