I'am 27, She Is 16: I Did It And She Is Not A Virgin.

clap for ya self. you shld be ashamed that you did it with a minor. i thought at 27 you would have known better and after doing it you want us to tell you whether you shld keep her or not. even if she was a virgin, u were doing it to satisfy your insatiable lust for sex so settle your problem alone and don't involve us. afterall we werent there when u did it.  rubbish

THIS IS JUST THE KIND OF REPLY, WITH ADDITIONAL WORDS OF MINE, THAT I WOULD GIVE. SOME GUYS ARE SO SELFISH AND SILLY, THEY DISVIRGIN THE ONLY VIGINS WE HAVE LEFT AND WONDER WHY THERE ARE NO VIRGINS TO MARRY.

@poster,

e be like sey u knw knw sey ur mates don b grandpa

Omoovie,

How is that pedophilia?

Negro? HOW is that pedophilia???! She's 16 and he's 27! That's an 11 year difference for Heaven's sake and it's not just the fact that there's an 11 year difference (after all I'm not going to pretend that older men haven't been sleeping with and marrying much younger girls since time immemorial in many societies _{although when the reverse is the case Heaven must fall down!} but she's still too young! If she were 23 and he were 34 I will be uncomfortable but I would try not to judge, if she were 36 and he were 47, I won't even blink but she's not out of her teens yet! That's just so predatory!! If it's his daughter, niece, sister, cousin nko?! Please don't get me started abeg men like this make me violently ill! IT'S NOT OK!


I second.

karma will come and bite you when your daughter is 16.

There are many issues to tackle in the post.  

1. Age
2. Motive
3. Direction

On age, are you all saying that a 16yr old girl is too young to have sex?  Is this coming from biological facts or are you reflecting upon western society's dogma on attainment of maturity?

When this guy turns 51 years old, the girl would be 40 years.  As they progress in age, that 11 yr gap will never change. In that future time are you going to condemn him for having ses with a woman 11 years his junior?

All I have seen so far is emotional responses.  What are the biological contentions for why that 16yr old girl is not ready for sex.  I don't want fairy tales about 16yr olds are prone to have std.  Any age is prone to have std.  

@poster

You went out with this girl with the intention of sleeping with her at 16. While maturity varies with age, anyone at 27 should have been capable of making better better decisions about relationships and sex, especially at 11 years her senior. You then decided to make the irresponsible choice of sleeping with her, and are upset afterward because you realized she had sex with someone else before you. What this looks like to me is that you were trying to play her, but instead, she played you. It seems to me that she was more of a target, rather than a potential spouse, as the only reason or your being with her was to take her virginity. You tried to play a game and you lost. If you are genuinely interested in her, you should just accept the fact that things did not turn out the way you expected it to, and the two of you should work to make your relationship work. If not, I don't know what to say, she never told you how many people she's been with, and it's quite possible that you are just another trophy on her wall. I honestly don't understand why you are so surprised that she was not a virgin, when there are people like yourself going after them all over. You should understand by now that there are consequences to actions that you take, and this is one of them.

That is the bad thing to do, you are wicked. Okay what goes around comes around.

@Negro_Ntns, am not even annoyed that he had sex with the gurl because even 12 yr olds have sex these days. Rather, am upset because he had sex with her having in mind to be da one 2 disvirgin her. When he discovered that she aint, hez back asking us if he should dump her or abi hes leaving her, itz very sad that a man at this age who is suppose to be planning on how to settle down, hez still looking for virgins to disvirgin, NEMESIS will catch u with him, NONSENSE