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igbi
Met A Guy On Nairaland Who Wants To Marry Me But: Advice please
« on: November 30, 2007, 02:35 PM »

In my quest of job,i was invited for a bank test, i browse through nairaland and someone one who works with the bank for kind enough to give me the fomat,  as time went on we kept mailing each other then calls till we started seeing each other recently he told me that he loves me and whats to marry me, i appreciate his kind of personand loves him to ,but i need ur advice, he is a catholic while i am a protestant and wont want to CHANGE my belief, i ve grown in this faith and don't know how to handle this issue please advice me, its not because he works in the bank, because i work with a Federal parastatal and they settle us well,  so nairalanders i need uy advice.
kellorah (f)
Re: Met A Guy On Nairaland Who Wants To Marry Me But: Advice Please
« #1 on: November 30, 2007, 02:37 PM »

wot has ur different faiths got to do with anything?
if u love him as much as he claims to love u, go ahead and marry him.
olabowale (m)
Re: Met A Guy On Nairaland Who Wants To Marry Me But: Advice Please
« #2 on: November 30, 2007, 02:59 PM »

Protestant/catholic, whats the difference? None. Mother and daughter are almost alike.
That is the case of Mother Catholic and daughter Protestant. I wish I can sow a seed of
true belief, in the Oneness of God, Who is indivisible and always complete and does not
depend on any of His creation. Yet, maybe this is the forum. All in all it is natural for man
and woman to become husband and wife. So marry him, if you find him a good possible
future partner.

But I am against premarital sex. So after you are married, or better yet, now you can
investigate Islam. This is the way that can bring you a very happy ending in this life and
after this world. I wish you well and a success in your decision.
bluehorizo (m)
Re: Met A Guy On Nairaland Who Wants To Marry Me But: Advice Please
« #3 on: November 30, 2007, 03:43 PM »

You know best for yourself and religion no suppose be a barrier for everlasting happiness which is love. When you found true love you found happiness. Best of luck
igbi
Re: Met A Guy On Nairaland Who Wants To Marry Me But: Advice Please
« #4 on: December 03, 2007, 11:19 AM »

thank you all for your contributions, i really do appreciate it.
efuah (f)
Re: Met A Guy On Nairaland Who Wants To Marry Me But: Advice Please
« #5 on: December 03, 2007, 12:19 PM »

Quote from: olabowale on November 30, 2007, 02:59 PM
Protestant/catholic, whats the difference? None. Mother and daughter are almost alike.
That is the case of Mother Catholic and daughter Protestant. I wish I can sow a seed of
true belief, in the Oneness of God, Who is indivisible and always complete and does not
depend on any of His creation. Yet, maybe this is the forum. All in all it is natural for man
and woman to become husband and wife. So marry him, if you find him a good possible
future partner.

But I am against premarital sex. So after you are married, or better yet, now you can
investigate Islam. This is the way that can bring you a very happy ending in this life and
after this world. I wish you well and a success in your decision.
Word!! u're on in a million, but the sis bro thingy hurt ma ribs. . . . very funny Cheesy
ajadrage
Re: Met A Guy On Nairaland Who Wants To Marry Me But: Advice Please
« #6 on: December 03, 2007, 02:05 PM »

If christianity claims to worship one deity, then why would one look out for differentiation a la denominational affiliation? Except perhaps the catholic deity is different from the protestant deity. You all are not serious at all
Kobojunkie
Re: Met A Guy On Nairaland Who Wants To Marry Me But: Advice Please
« #7 on: December 03, 2007, 02:10 PM »

Quote from: igbi on November 30, 2007, 02:35 PM
In my quest of job,i was invited for a bank test, i browse through nairaland and someone one who works with the bank for kind enough to give me the fomat, as time went on we kept mailing each other then calls till we started seeing each other recently he told me that he loves me and whats to marry me, i appreciate his kind of personand loves him to ,but i need your advice, he is a catholic while i am a protestant and wont want to CHANGE my belief, i ve grown in this faith and don't know how to handle this issue please advice me, its not because he works in the bank, because i work with a Federal parastatal and they settle us well, so nairalanders i need uy advice.

If you have really grown in your faith, you would know that asking mere humans for their opinions will not help you much. If you are troubled about your relationship, best person to ask is God. Ask him to set you on the right path in this. Why marry someone when you do not have peace at all about the relationship?? Wait till you hear from God and then go ahead and do what He wants you to do instead. Even if the man was a protestant, does not make him the right man for you automatically. Ask God if He is the right one and then make your move based on what you hear from him and not what people say please.
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