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britgirlee (f)
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I have noticed It is becoming increasingly common for diffrent races to inter-date form meaningful relationships, have a family and live happily ever after  But in your own words what is your own personal opinion? FOR , for example you would mind dating outside your race, so along as you maintain your cultural backgrounds beliefs, your happy in your relasionship AGAINST, for example it will never work, causes problems within the family, extended etc,cultural beliefs are lost, children often get complexes about there upbringing, identity crisis etc INDIFFERENT, Doesn't bother you at all so long as every one is happy healthy and living normal lives etc Personally it makes no difference to me , your views please |
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iice (f)
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Makes no difference to me. . .
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omoge25 (f)
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I'm indifferent in the ways others choose to live there lives, if it makes them happy so be it. As for me personally all i know is I betta not bring a non naija into my parents house and say this is the man i want to marry my parents don't play that.
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britgirlee (f)
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wow, What if you absolutely fell head over heels with a guy from another race,,,,,,,,you never no  who was not from nigeria would you still not take him home, or youll just avoid it??  to suit your mum and dad |
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Siena
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I'm not particularly bothered, either way. Everyone has a choice. But, for me, not just black'll suit me, she's got to be Nigerian too, love them!  |
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toyinrayo (f)
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i dnt care . . . but i dnt mind alsobut i'll like to marry within my own people. . . .he must be tall, dark, handsome and nigerian. its a must!!!  and from my town, must speak yoruba too. |
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omoge25 (f)
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wow, What if you absolutely fell head over heals with a guy from another race,,,,,,,,you never no who was not from nigeria would you still not take him home, or youll just avoid it?? to suit your mum and dad I understand the point you are making but I can't image being with someone else from another race or culture. Akata guys ask me out but i always turn them down. So to answer your question hypothetically if i met someone from another race/culture no i wouldnt take him home to my parents. |
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wendymanda
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@ Siena I'm not particularly bothered, either way. Everyone has a choice.
But, for me, not just black'll suit me, she's got to be Nigerian too, love them! I thought your girlfriend was white or was it your fiance? But who ever she was I thought she was a white woman? |
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Siena
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@ Siena
I thought your girlfriend was white or was it your fiance? But who ever she was I thought she was a white woman?
Yes, she was white. But, things have changed a lot since then, now it's Nigerian girls all the way for me. But, I've got nothing against white women. Just not "wife" material for me, and casual dates don't do it for me. |
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stefykarl
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wherever you are from does not matter to me so far as you are a human being, and if i love you that is it, your colour or locality is not a determinant to me, just someone i care for, love and ready to spend the rest of my life with and we are compatible, to hell with any other thing.
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Blatant
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white women are good for pleasure, not as wives.
We are not compatible
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Siena
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Hey, Biola, what's wrong?  |
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ifyalways (f)
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anyone can serve as long as he lives up to my expectations  |
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britgirlee (f)
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anyone can serve as long as he lives up to my expectations True words,,,,,  |
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Leilah (f)
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oh you would be surprised now Siena. I'm sick of some naija people saying white gals they can't cook or respect their naija men thats not true at all some of them do including myself who can cook naija food list as long as my arm is and would allow my husband to make decision before me (mainly because he's better at it). But I guess I can see where you are coming from Siena in saying that. In the sense that naija culture is quite different from english one lets say its probably better for you to choose naija lady who has the patience of a saint. I think how I got by was coming from a muslim background were women are also in subservient roles and can also play both as in full time worker and full time housewife too. Bottom line white women are good for please to most naija men why is that my dear gentlemen? It is simply becasue naija ladies put up with all your shits unlike the white women who would tell ya to get lost in a heartbeat.  |
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britgirlee (f)
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white women are good for pleasure, not as wives.
We are not compatible
girl that was harsh and uncalled for , what about the Nigerian girls who will do anything to take a man off you despite knowing the guy is in a relationship or married or vice versa the Nigerian guy that only wants to have a so called 'no strings attached relationship the so called other woman What would you call that That is accepted in the Afican society , you could say the 'unseen rule'  I don't think the racial stab was nnecessary, Sienna that was very unlike your response you of all people , but again its your view guess it has to be respected Yes, she was white. But, things have changed a lot since then, now it's Nigerian girls all the way for me.
But, I've got nothing against white women. Just not "wife" material for me, and casual dates don't do it for me.
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diva_naija
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@ Poster - Oh am not againt it o,since ma family has a little bit o this n a little bit o thatbut no Kurukere interacial moves for moi please. Jus cus ma Dad did a little kurukere moves within Africa, n ma mums parents also did a little kurukere interacial moves,n it seem ma bro is into the kurukere movement too doesn’t mean I’ll do da moves too yak!!.Its got ta b BLACK N NAIJA ALL DA WAY Inshort na only Naija man fit handle moi sef. n that's for shizzy |
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Siena
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Leilah, I did NOT say white women can't cook. I was just stating my preference, it was not a personal dig, everyone has a choice.
@ Fox: My comment wasn't intended to be inflamatory, I was just speaking from personal experience, the details of which I won't go into here.
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davidylan (m)
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Yes, she was white. But, things have changed a lot since then, now it's Nigerian girls all the way for me.
But, I've got nothing against white women. Just not "wife" material for me, and casual dates don't do it for me.
oops ya broke up? I thot you said you both were getting married next yr. Sorry buddy, stuff happens. don't know, i'm sitting on the fence here but secretly i'd love a Nigerian woman but i'm open to whoever i end up with. |
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JustGood (m)
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The thing no dey work. If all statistics prove that it doesn't work, I don't want to start it at all.
No point in starting something which will not work out long term.
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Leilah (f)
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Yes thanks Britgirlee a civilised woman with sense here!
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Leilah (f)
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I nearly jumped out of my chair! Siena I actually thought you were my husband you look exactly like him I would love to post his picture jeez thats is worrying he looks exactly like you! sorry you finsihed with your white lady I;m sure you will have no problem finding a 'real wife'. |
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holythug (m)
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@leilah ow sure r u his not d 1
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holythug (m)
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@leilah ow sure r u his not d 1
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Leilah (f)
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don't know but I tell you his looks very very like him. I am tempted to post my husbands picture but I can't do that. Ah i know my baby he is never even on the net.
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britgirlee (f)
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leilah, thats not a problem, ps girl stop flirting with sienna, Sienna , i did wonder but your explanation is good enough, how are you anyway, |
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Siena
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Hey Fox, I'm fine, thanks. What have you been up to? Haven't heard from you in a while. |
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Leilah (f)
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Flirting is that what you call flirting no I was just saying. Jeez shouldn't have said anything.  |
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Leilah (f)
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Back to the topic you said these mixed couples form meaningful relationships. don't know about that as so many of them are temporary maybe like one out of a hundred maybe meaningful I'm talking in black and white.
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ikamefa (f)
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@topic i can't be bothered oh! whether na chico! ,kokoye! britico! or jappy! " " what matters to me is the individual., totally indifferent jare! if this interracial dating thingy works for yah please go for it. |
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britgirlee (f)
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lialah come on quite a few interacial relasionships work, a lot actually, don't judge all by one or two bad experiances and their meaninful |
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