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timimaybac (m)
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I SEE A LOT OF LADIES FLAUNTING THEM, EVEN WEN ITS AN ENGAGEMENT RING, U WOULD RARELY CATCH A MARRIED WOMAN WITHOUT HER'S
BUT WHY CANT THE SAME BE SAID ABOUT THE MEN. I LOOKED AROUND, AND FOUND THAT A LOT OF MARRIED MEN DONT WEAR THEIR RINGS.
IF U GAT REASONS WHY DIS IS, HOLA @ ME. AIGHT
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jkpretty (f)
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I'm speaking for the guys
Becos, the ring is too tight.
Becos, the ring is not gold & has washed.
Becos the ring got lost, & no need of replacement.
Becos they don't love their wife any more.
Becos they just got a hot chic that must not know they are married so they remove it.
@ poster i don't think their can be anymore reason other than this.
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tumzy (m)
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we forgot them in the bathroom , besides the game still continues, abi?  ? |
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jkpretty (f)
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we forgot them in the bathroom
That's an unadulterated lie & highly used   |
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efuah (f)
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I'm speaking for the guys
Becos they just got a hot chic that must not know they are married so they remove it.
@ poster i don't think their can be anymore reason other than this.
there's my dear, this particular one i quoted is mostly the reason, but sometimes it's becus he simply w0ona cheat  that's all, no other reason is accepted we forgot them in the bathroom , besides the game still continues, abi? ? didn't u forget to wear your panty/boxers as well  the game still continues, yeah, sure! so if your wife forgets her own roams about with no ring, it's cool abi  what's good for the goon is also good for the gander |
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Nautillus (m)
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Have you gals/Ladies ever considered that guyz are not just "Into jewelry???"
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jkpretty (f)
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Have you gals/Ladies ever considered that guys are not just "Into jewelry???"
Nah! i don't buy that, "wedding ring is no jewelry" |
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Nautillus (m)
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Ok, if you say so, Anyway, most Nija guys dont like the feel of cold steel on the fingers especially when you are always in an airconditioned enviromentI know i dont, |
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tobigirl (f)
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but they can wear gold wristwatches and chain right
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ThoniaSlim (f)
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there's no excuse for it, except they want to cheat and see the ring as a barrier. shikena.  |
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Nautillus (m)
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Do you gal think that "Wedding bands slow guy down???" Believe me, it doesnt, in fact, it helps to drive home the point that all the guy wants is a good lay and not a relationship ok. gbam |
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flyKUDE (m)
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i noticed that up north, a ring or no ring is no way of telling whethter or not a (wo)man is married, very few people actuallly wear them here.
, and of the origin of wearing rings in the first place? i also learnt that in rccg these days,they give bibles instead of wedding rings,so in that case,what do you expect?
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passionwit (m)
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1. Becos the Ring is too Tight
2. Becos the Ring isnt pure Gold
3. Becos he is too stupid to know he is meant to wear it
4. Becos he feels it will stop outside runs
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bebe2007 (m)
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Maybe there are just not comfortable with rings. Am like that too cannot wear a ring to save my life, feels very uncomfortable. Its not because they want to cheat or something, the ring does not stop anything do you know that??
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btayo1 (m)
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Married Men do Cheat;
Married Women do Cheat;
And both do it Wearing or Not wearing a ring;
Some Guys are just not into jewellery; A some lock it up safely at home for the fear of losing and facing eternal nagging on the fact that they lost their ring.
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ifyalways (f)
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Married Men do Cheat;
Married Women do Cheat;
And both do it Wearing or Not wearing a ring;
Some Guys are just not into jewellery; A some lock it up safely at home for the fear of losing and facing eternal nagging on the fact that they lost their ring.
hmmmmn |
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iice (f)
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Hmmmm know couples who don't wear their bands. . .doesn't necessarily mean the man/woman is cheating. . .they just don't wear it
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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I think its a personal thing.
Deeper-life Christiansamongst other religious cultures don'twear wedding bands . . . . you do know that
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lilrukevwe (m)
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A guy not wearing a ring means that he goit a hot chick he wanna date its true and false at the same time some girls are in the habit of dating married men reasons becos they are really committed becos if u are like 40 and u dnt have a wife or a very serious relationship and u approach a girl a girl wud take u 4 a player or a cursed person
so they got reasons 4 not doing tht though am nt married if i am i wud wear 24/7 cos i must love my wife come rain or sun oh
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Terminator
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I find it astonishing that ppl esply ladies can jump to conclusion about a man not wearing a wedding ring cos he want to cheat. In Nigeria, the married men are the ones that flirt the most with their wedding rings on. Not wearing a wedding ring is not necessary indicative of a man that wants to flirt cos it does not prevent it if you wear one.
A lot of girls in Nigeria do not care about your marital status except the ones that are in their late 20s or 30s and still single. The young ones that are between 18 and 26 0r 27 don't care about a man marital status as long as u can tk care of their needs.
I don't wear my wedding ring always cos I don't like it. I am always aware that it is on my finger and it makes me feel very uncomfortable, a kind of claustrophobic feeling. If I want to flirt which i completely detest, it wont prevent me even if i had one on my finger.
Women wear theirs cos the culture in Nigeria is that men chase. So the married ladies has to signify that they are not available. For a man, its left to u if u want to wear it or not. A man looks more responsible wearing one but if dont feel comfortable about it dont ve sleepless night over it.
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Zandra1 (f)
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@ poster, I guess my case is the opposite  . My fiance wears the engagement ring always while I don't. Actually, he reminds me to wear mine when he sees that Ive taken it off. @ Terminator, I also have a kind of a claustrophobic or uncomfortable feeling about it though I love the ring. I just had to explain that to my man. |
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eddycapuro
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Basically to cheat.
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IykeD (m)
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The ring is too tight and could cause some discomfort, moreover guys are not known to be so much into jewelries.
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timimaybac (m)
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CHECK THIS OUT, I REALISED THAT IN THE EARLY PART OF MARRIAGE, MOST OF THE MEN ACTUALLY DO WEAR THEM, EITHER THEY DONT WANNA GET THEIR WIVES UPSET OR EVERYTIN IS STILL ROSY. BUT AS THEY TEND TOWARDS THE SO CALLED "MIDLIFE" STAGE, ALOT STOP WEARIN THEM, SUM L8ER PICK EM UP WHILE SUM LOOSE IT 4 LIFE, REASONS I DONT KNW, BUT I GUESS IT HAS TO DO WIT THE IDENTITY SHA'. AT A POINT MEN BELIVE DAT THEY DNT HAV TO CARRY THE MARRIAGE THING ON THEIR HEAD, JUS MA OPINION SHA,
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NaJa HaJe (f)
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CHECK THIS OUT, I REALISED THAT IN THE EARLY PART OF MARRIAGE, MOST OF THE MEN ACTUALLY DO WEAR THEM, EITHER THEY DONT WANNA GET THEIR WIVES UPSET OR EVERYTIN IS STILL ROSY. BUT AS THEY TEND TOWARDS THE SO CALLED "MIDLIFE" STAGE, ALOT STOP WEARIN THEM, SUM L8ER PICK EM UP WHILE SUM LOOSE IT 4 LIFE, REASONS I DONT KNW, BUT I GUESS IT HAS TO DO WIT THE IDENTITY SHA'. AT A POINT MEN BELIVE DAT THEY DNT HAV TO CARRY THE MARRIAGE THING ON THEIR HEAD, JUS MA OPINION SHA,
are you speaking to from experience? moreover guys are not known to be so much into jewelries.
speak for yourself |
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omoge (f)
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interesting, Oyinbo men wear theirs.
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janami (f)
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wedding bands on men? i really respect guys that wear theirs. I really do  |
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IykeD (m)
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@NajaHaje
I am speaking for the men folk and i am a subset of the set men.You don't have to tell me that cos u ain't no guy.
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ilugunboy (m)
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If it's not lost, then only a man not proud enough to show off his wife will hide the ring.
My wife is beautiful, my band is 24k white- gold, and so i proudly wears it.
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stillwater (f)
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I don't think I like the idea of wedding rings. (I'm a lady)
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