Is This Going To Be A Happy Home

Hello Nairalander,

I have a friend and she is into a relationship for about five years now, actually the relationship have not being going fine because the girl said she didnt love the guy, I tols her to leave the guy but she said she can't because the guy made her swear that she will marry him. finally she want to drop the guy but she is afraid of what will happen to her, and she even tell the guy that she didnt love him but the guy said even if she didnt love him she will marry her because he love her. And i don't think the marriage will work because the girl didnt love the guy and i think it will not be a happy home.

please she need some advise please

kindly help out.

First of all, she's been in this relationship for FIVE years.FIVE good years o!!!!!!!!!! ^HABA?N now she suddenly realised she's not in love after Five good years!!!!!!!! ???was she sleepin all the while??? some peeps jus don't kno time wait for no one especially ladies.

Listen sis,in situations lik this u've got ta b really careful while handin out advice,cus it can  backfire and lik a boomerang,hit u right in da face,Pow!!! lets face itif this same girl God forbid ends up not getting another man to marry nko,don't u think an accusing finger wil be pointed your way??

What's wrong wit this guy anyway??is he into beating,cheating lying etc ?? u never mentioned why she suddenly felt she does not love him anymore after five good years??

Wo if she has another who she is in lov wit and who loves her bac,n wants ta marry her,then why not??^{she can zap if she wants} but if otherwise,then go about it wisely o,do not go all out and tell her to leave but rather make her understand the fact that its her life n she has every right to do what she thinks is best n wil mak her happy,cus ma sis anything can happen.we r mere mortals remember,not God.We do not kno tommorrow,so cannot predict if a marriage will be a happy one or not.After all we fall in n out o lov every day.

<sup>Jus me n what i think.

MY GOD! after five gooooooood years!!!Oooh some peeps</sup>

Maybe the guy is pocketsome but not handsome. Maybe there is another man she met recently with a better prospect. Love don't make marriage happy. People make it happen. It is by choice and not by chance.