Should I Tell My Ex-Boyfriend That I Want Him Back?

he will prbly take advantage of you. it shows you r begging to get back together. give it time. u might prbly find the right person for u. u prbly miss him so much that is why u want him back. u will get over it soon. just hang in there.

I do not give people a second chance.

please go my sister, don't let anyone stop u from doing what u have to do to save your relationship, those people sayin should not go ,don't mind them o, because most of them will do that to save their relationship, my dear go,  he might end up been your husband

I don't think its a nice plan, the guy may take advantage of you and probably hit you and run again, so just be patience if he truely love you he will definately appologies.

why should you tell him that you want him back when i here for you _{i am big strong and reliable} abeg fashi the guy jo

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Yep, If he's worth the effort. It makes life a little easier. But whenever he takes you back and the first thing he wants is ex, run baby girl. He's just trying to get a piece of @ss and dump you. If he is patient and tells you things that makes sense and not sex sex and sex. If he treats you with respect and takes you out to nice and decent places then he is willing to rekindle the fire of love. Good luck. 

Hello girl, i feel for you. because i have expirence this exact feelings before, my girl cheated on me and got me infected with a minor which i hav take care of. though she told me with her mouth and apologies. it took a while about 7months and i forgaved her. during those 7months i was missing her. but i cud not tell her. though she was callin on one or two occasions  i had nothing to tell but insults. so oneday it got out of hand, i mean the missin. i called her and told her i would love to see her she came and we went somewhere 2gether we  talked and had fun after talkin. but after that encounter and many others my feelings for her are no longer thesame. i don't love like i used to but we are still lovers. with all future plans thrown to the dustbin unknown to her but know to me. so think very well about your act.             

Hot-angel said it well. The worse thing someone can suffer is self inflicted regret. Living your life wondering if making the move would have gotten you someone you truly love. Going ahead with your plan will have a benefit both ways. if he doesnt accept you back, atleast you freed your conscience, and hopefully if he does you get the one you love
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  Re: Should I Tell My Ex-Boyfriend That I Want Him Back?
« #17 on: April 05, 2006, 06:19 PM » 

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Don't let pride stop you from getting back the one you love.  You love him dearly, giving it a try won't hurt you. Just go back n tell him how you feel. Infact, even if he doesnt' feel the same way right away, he'll prolly start developing new love and be interested in giving your relationship another try n he'll want to make it work this time just because you have genuine feelings for him.

Most people on here would tell  you not to do it (i would tell u that too, if i didn't know what it really means to be hurting inside about loving someone who has no idea that you do), Anyways,  they'll all tell u not to do it, because well guys are stereotyped to make yanga of girls that want them desperately. it's like if you tell him u want him, he'll prolly keep u to the curb n make u hurt more, or he'll accept u n treat you like trash just for telling him u want him back.

the truth of the matter is, Go back tell him u still love him, go through with your plan,  Youu'll be able to tell if he wants you back. if after telling he still doesn't want you, you have nothing to lose, rather he has lost a girl who truely loves him. Infact you haven't lost your pride, because love made you do what you did. ,  not what people would say.

This topic can go on for 13 to 16 pages,  you'll hear different opinions, but the best thing i'd say you should do is go with what your heart tells you. your heart would continue to ache if you don't do what it tells u. Right now, u can't think straight except you tell that dude how u really feel, and tell him u want him back. if you don't do that, you'll continue to blame yourself for not trying. trust me hun, it's not an easy thing to do, but you should do it.

My two cents. 

Hey girl, you can listen to a lot of people telling not to make the move, my advice is don't allow pride come in your way, the only way you can move on without looking back is if you go over and tell him how you feel. However, you must watch out for his sincerity so he doesn't play with your emotions.
I assure you no matter how it turns out you feel better in the long term.
good luck.

I really hate 2 rain on your parade, but take it from someone who knws, a guy would not appreciate u just turnin up unannounced. If u intend 2 c him, by all means let  him knw.

Can a dog eat it his vomits?  if yes! then go but if not, then i suggest stay clear of him. there are thousand and one men out there who can give you the same feelings like the one you having for your ex. even more.