Do You Believe your Girl Do Only You?

Falling in love could be the simpliest thing in the world,  you don’t need to think to just slip over. But staying in it could be a real homework. I had been in a relationship for 2+years and haven’t had another relationship,  but I've been tempted to be with others and sometime I let it take over. And here's where the questions arises. Have my girl been with someone else? Even I was the first guy in her life (not first boyfriend, but did deflowered her), even we are barely apart,  I still have this thought in my head that she could had be with someone else through the years.
I trust her and her words,  but I also gave her my word and over the years, at a point in time (out of count), I've been in closed door with other girls even if it leads to nothing but a one night stand.
Guys are easily attracted by what they see (ass and all that & free drinks),  girls! that’s a difference ball game, anything could build up attraction in her. Now I ask myself my own question,  do I believe my girl sex only me? I would want to believe so, on this grounds (1) I deflowered Her (2) We are mostly together (3) Am cute (4) I haven’t had any reason to doubt.

I guess when I posted this, a lot of people read it and misjudged. So I have to modify it and clearify some points,

(1)Malubia, I typed in disvirgin and I guess the website mosified it to this-virgin. Check you reply and you would see the joke's on you.

(2)Jkpretty,  I am not digging here and yes you actually did made a point.
(3)YIMITON,  no its not guilty conscience. Please read the headline, then the story. And if you still can't figure this out, read no. (8).
(4)IT GURU,  You are a very deep thinking, judging from you reply and brother/sister you make too much sense.
(5)IFYALWAYS,  Nigerians are very judgemental, so I couldnt possibly expect more or less from you.

(6)FACTORCHIC,  I know you are a girl and definately would know how to spell deflowered like the back of your hands *winked* Please read below before you play God and judge me.

(7)ADICK,  don't be A privates head *smile*

(8)My post headline was "DO YOU BELIEVE YOUR GIRL DO ONLY YOU" and not "DO I BELIEVE MY GIRL DO ONLY ME" and I did answer my own question "Now I ask myself my own question, do I believe my girl sex only me? I would want to believe so, on this grounds (1) I deflowered Her (2) We are mostly together (3) Am cute (4) I haven’t had any reason to doubt" So Guys, what the heck? You are to ask yourself the same question and think aloud HERE!

It's "this-virgin" not "this-virgin".

What I see here is guilty conscience.
Keep your guilty conscience to yourself and don't go digging what you can't handle.
Keep trusting her and keep enjoying your relationship but stay away from all those other extra curriclar activities or you might get into trouble soon.

there is a law somewhere;

HE WHO DIGS WITHOUT CAUSE SHOULD NOT BE SUPRISED IF HE FALLS INTO IT.

@poster i wonder what you are trying to get 

Poster,

don't worry bout your girlfriend, let her shag whoever behind your back.  You carry on wid your own adventure. don't confuse yourself with all this. These things are normal amongst you lot.

isnt it still same digging without cause or what 

punnana is elastic
why would a man think na him
be the only person wey de shag am?
she can shag anyhow she like for my back, make I no see am


WHAT THE EYES DOSEN'T SEE, THE MIND DOESEN'T GRIEVE ABOUT

what if u found out she is not 'doing' only u. what would u do is d big question here bro!

A female friend read this post and she kinna agree with Sweet T, but I wouldn’t want to agree to that,  but its 98% of pure truth.
Love doesn’t keep lovers faithful, but self-discipline. Sometime self-discipline is not effective enough. But the best way to keep your partner in check is to always put a check on them.

So if your girl do someone else and you found out,  it probably cause you weren’t doing you home work or cause punnana na elastic (pardon me ettehgate, I need borrow your words there) and she need stretch am.

I would really be betrayed if I discover my girl is seeing someone else, but in a way… I am neither to be blame or she’s just being adventurous. Probably we’re not meant for each other?
My bad, I am not doing my homework… Her bad, she needs to stretch and be free. So neither way, it’s ciao to her!

GBAM, u have said it all