When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?

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hipcaramel (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #32 on: September 19, 2005, 02:59 PM »

it's never ok to cheat on your partner. if u're no longer interested, just say so and end it instead of doing something so nasty.
hopy2005 (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #33 on: October 05, 2005, 02:04 PM »

There is no time that is ok to chect on your partner, come to think of that both of you are one, and if one thing that he is cheating on his partner his also cheating him/her self. it's just like where they said any guy that do bits his wify is beating him self that is it co's they are one.
nferyn (m)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #34 on: October 14, 2005, 11:41 PM »

It's never OK to cheat on your partner.
The question is: What is cheating? What do you consider cheating?
ocho (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #35 on: October 14, 2005, 11:44 PM »

IT IS NEVER OKAY TO CHEAT. and saying to cheat is okay so long as you're not  in love with the person(you're cheating with)? oh please!what has become of the true meaning of love and relationships? your partner is bound to get hurt so why risk it if u really love your partner and supposedly do not love the person you're cheating with?
nferyn (m)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #36 on: October 14, 2005, 11:49 PM »

Quote from: ocho on October 14, 2005, 11:44 PM
IT IS NEVER OKAY TO CHEAT. and saying to cheat is okay so long as you're not  in love with the person(you're cheating with)? oh please!what has become of the true meaning of love and relationships? your partner is bound to get hurt so why risk it if u really love your partner and supposedly do not love the person you're cheating with?

Then you're not really cheating. promiscuous yes, but not cheating
Greatpeter (m)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #37 on: October 16, 2005, 08:26 AM »

Never a right thing to do.
Never cheat on your love.

No right time to cheat, it hurts.
kikelomo (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #38 on: October 24, 2005, 04:09 PM »

I guess sometimes when you are not happy in a relationship, u become tempted to cheat on a guy who gives u the attention u lack or supposed happiness you desire. But really, why don't u call it quits instead of cheating. Besides for a lady, it is a bad reputation to be known as a cheat. It is okay for guys, not only because it is in their genetic make-up, but also because we leave in a society that makes "men cheating", a generally acceptable norm.
Greatpeter (m)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #39 on: October 24, 2005, 04:11 PM »

When he/she dies! Grin
Seun (m)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #40 on: October 28, 2005, 12:19 PM »

kikelomo: the reason why society accepts male infidelity more than female infidelity is simply because women are more tolerant of infidelity in men.  Women make up 50% of society, you know, and if women decide to be less tolerant of male infidelity, "society" will follow suit!

I think it's wrong to cheat on your partner if you're married, or if you're not married but your partner is a virgin.  If you've given your partner the impression that you're not sleeping with anyone else, but you go ahead and do it, then you're lying, which is wrong!
WesleyanA (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #41 on: October 28, 2005, 11:48 PM »

it's okay to cheat on your partner when you're practicing an open marriage/relationship  Grin
nferyn (m)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #42 on: October 29, 2005, 12:10 AM »

Quote from: WesleyanA on October 28, 2005, 11:48 PM
it's okay to cheat on your partner when you're practicing an open marriage/relationship  Grin

Then it's not cheating , but rather sports  Grin
ocho (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #43 on: October 29, 2005, 12:55 AM »

Quote from: nferyn on October 14, 2005, 11:49 PM
Then you're not really cheating. promiscuous yes, but not cheating
promiscous, cheating, what's the difference?
nferyn (m)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #44 on: October 29, 2005, 01:04 AM »

Quote from: ocho on October 29, 2005, 12:55 AM
promiscous, cheating, what's the difference?
When you're cheating, you're being unfaithful to someone you promised to be faithful to. This a breach of trust and thus not acceptable
When you're promiscuous, you're just sleeping around and as long as nobody's hurt it's nobody's business
Queenzy (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #45 on: November 17, 2005, 03:24 AM »

Its never ok to cheat on your partner,its better to end the relationship and mingle with whoever u want to than cheat
Z4M4eva (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #46 on: November 17, 2005, 09:56 AM »

Neva do it my dear Shocked
Rhodalyn (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #47 on: February 17, 2006, 12:39 AM »

its never ok 2 cheat on ya partner
evn if u do nt love da guy u're cheatin on him wit,it's still nt right
he wldnt see it that way
monie0078 (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #48 on: February 17, 2006, 04:52 AM »

It's never ok to cheat on your partner,  there's no justification for it, it's just not right, 

Formal definition of cheating: To deceive by trickery

Informal Definition of cheating: To be sexually unfaithful

Being that both definitions have the words 'deceive' and 'unfaithful' in them, it's safe to say that cheating is wrong and unfair to the other person. Simple and short.
Queenzy (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #49 on: February 17, 2006, 04:55 AM »

You've said it all
SIBLI_06 (m)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #50 on: February 17, 2006, 12:15 PM »

It's never OK and should be frowned upon.
alheri (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #51 on: February 17, 2006, 12:33 PM »

Its never Okay!
eslynera (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #52 on: April 17, 2006, 03:12 PM »

No, it's never okay Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided
MissAlissa (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #53 on: April 18, 2006, 07:14 AM »

I don't know why my opinions are so different to those who have spoken on here so far, 

i cheated on my last boyfriend. the concept is so subjective that there is no right or wrong answer. did i have sex, or was it just a meaningless drunken kiss? did i want more, or did i regret it straight after? how serious was our relationship?

it is the answer to these types of questions which will give you the answer to whether it was ok or not, and if not, how bad it really was. i don't think it is ever ok, but the question is when is it forgivable, and when is it not?

personally, i only kissed another guy. for me, it was only to feel some kind of affection from someone other than my cold, distant, unaffectionate boyf. he and I were both aware that the relationship was about to end.
I am not looking for someone to tell me what i did was ok. i now feel that what i did was wrong, but i do not feel that what i did deserved the kind of punishment i received.
eveseh (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #54 on: April 22, 2006, 11:46 AM »

i've never cheatend be4,

but i'mma bad player

if the boy thinks he can do all that kind of nasty things behind me and try
to cover it up,

if i find outmam going to take it with his bestfriend
#1Lola (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #55 on: May 18, 2006, 03:43 PM »

Are you people serious, its never OK for you to cheat on your   boyfriend/girfriend , lets be serious her ok if  your going to eventually chet on them why would you be with them
dachosen1 (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #56 on: May 18, 2006, 05:30 PM »

it is never okay to cheat on your parenter. if u feel that u need to cheat get out of the relationship.
diddy4 (m)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #57 on: May 19, 2006, 02:28 AM »

this is the simple answer.

when your partner starts cheating on you. fini, chikina. pronto. ogwula.  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
babymine (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #58 on: May 19, 2006, 09:48 AM »

It's never okay.
kilo4uall (m)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #59 on: May 19, 2006, 11:30 AM »

there is never a time is Okay.
omogenaija (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #60 on: June 13, 2006, 05:00 AM »

It is never ok to cheat on your partner. if u know u don't love him/her anymore then just break up with the person because what u do after that is called moving on.

if u cheat your only making things worst. because some people don't handle cheating very well (i'm one of those people)  and their reactions  will might be bad. Lips sealed Lips sealed Lips sealed 
Coco29 (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #61 on: June 13, 2006, 06:20 PM »

seun

who said all woman are interested in the emotional side of a relationship. 

we cheat because women can be just as promiscuous as men (and the other man was fiiiiiiiine) Grin is there a reason to cheat?
Big Shishi (m)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #62 on: June 13, 2006, 06:21 PM »

WHEN UR PARTNER IS NAMED rHODA Grin Grin Grin
Damsal (f)
Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner?
« #63 on: June 13, 2006, 06:31 PM »

i agree with omogenija, why bother to cheat when you can just end the relationship. then you would'nt be diong something vulgar  Undecided Undecided   
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