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CuteAngel (f)
He Shoots Too Fast
« on: December 04, 2007, 12:48 PM »

Am deeply in-love with this guy, we have been together for like 3 months but i have this problem with him, he shoots too fast  you know what i mean
What what do i do? I need your advice. 
Sweet T (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #1 on: December 04, 2007, 12:58 PM »

@Cute Angel

Just 3 months and the guy is already banging you ? Sweetheart you ain't no Angel. An angel dust may be. By the way your man is 2 minute brother !
ilugunboy (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #2 on: December 04, 2007, 01:08 PM »


'because you are still relatively new to each other and he still exploring all you have to offer.
Sooner, he will start staying there longer.

Just give him some more time to finish with his exploration ok?
rockiedink (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #3 on: December 04, 2007, 01:16 PM »

indomie ni bobo!!!


zheroes (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #4 on: December 04, 2007, 01:21 PM »

hello,

This condition is most probably due to anxiety performance. i will advise you to tell him to perform the start-stop technique during intercourse. This involves stopping thrusting once you feel that you are about to ejaculate for a few seconds till the urge to ejaculate fades and then re-starting thrusting once more. This is repeated five to six times (or more if needed) until you get satisfied.
The more it bothers him, if it does, the worse the condition seems to get. Also, the more frequent you have intercourse, the less likely this will become a problem. You can't ejaculate what'ya aint got!

it works okay.

take care.
rockiedink (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #5 on: December 04, 2007, 01:28 PM »

professor!!! mr lecturer!!! Grin Grin Grin
romeo (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #6 on: December 04, 2007, 02:22 PM »

Maybe he thrusts so fast trying to impress you, i would suggests a slower thrust and  this

Quote from: zheroes on December 04, 2007, 01:21 PM
hello,

This condition is most probably due to anxiety performance. i will advise you to tell him to perform the start-stop technique during intercourse. This involves stopping thrusting once you feel that you are about to ejaculate for a few seconds till the urge to ejaculate fades and then re-starting thrusting once more. This is repeated five to six times (or more if needed) until you get satisfied.
The more it bothers him, if it does, the worse the condition seems to get. Also, the more frequent you have intercourse, the less likely this will become a problem. You can't ejaculate what'ya aint got!

it works okay.

take care.

hollandis
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #7 on: December 04, 2007, 02:24 PM »

sorry are we in the sports section?  Lips sealed Grin Grin Grin
Nautillus (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #8 on: December 04, 2007, 02:35 PM »

Tell him to go get a "Desensitizer Spray" Trust me it works like Nitro is with hi-speed drifter cars.

It might not be an anxiety thing, he might just have very sensitive nerves or ur vigina feel and massaging ability is A gradethis same guy can last far longer with some other girl that doesnt have your kind " look and feel" Grin Grin

You Sex lives will never be the same again Grin Grin Grin
eddycapuro
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #9 on: December 04, 2007, 02:38 PM »

Go get another guy that can go all the way since that seems to be ur priority in a relationship of 3 months.
gosky (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #10 on: December 04, 2007, 02:53 PM »

I kept wondering what moral lessons we wil av for our children in this generation; and i continue to wonder whether its that difficult for some ladies to hold their legs tight instead of spreading it for every guy they are in a relationship with. I'm sorry @ poster, i don't av a solution to ur problem. But an advice- keep ur legs tight and save the pleasures till ur wedding day.
davidylan (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #11 on: December 04, 2007, 02:56 PM »

Quote from: gosky on December 04, 2007, 02:53 PM
I kept wondering what moral lessons we wil av for our children in this generation; and i continue to wonder whether its that difficult for some ladies to hold their legs tight instead of spreading it for every guy they are in a relationship with. I'm sorry @ poster, i don't av a solution to your problem. But an advice- keep your legs tight and save the pleasures till your wedding day.

What "pleasures" shld she save till her wedding day? The "pleasures" of premature ejaculation?  Grin
I don't approve of sex before marriage but what others choose to do is none of my business . . . but wait . . . telling her to keep her legs shut at this stage is simply telling her to postpone her worries and not necessarily solving it.
uncleb (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #12 on: December 04, 2007, 02:58 PM »

this society has lost all sense of decency

a lady  does nos blush to tell the whole world that sb

she met three months ago is already sleeping with her

and she is even complaining  the guy is not satisfying he, Aba!

Only God knows the number of men who have gone through u,

and u called yrself an angel.

As much as am very outgoing i still bliv that people should maintain a
high level of dignity.

2morrow u will become sb's wife, am sure u are less  TOKUNBO( 2nd hand)

HABA, angeeeeeeeeeel!
zheroes (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #13 on: December 04, 2007, 03:56 PM »

Quote from: uncleb on December 04, 2007, 02:58 PM
this society has lost all sense of decency

a lady  does nos blush to tell the whole world that sb

she met three months ago is already sleeping with her

and she is even complaining  the guy is not satisfying he, Aba!

Only God knows the number of men who have gone through u,

and u called yrself an angel.

As much as am very outgoing i still bliv that people should maintain a
high level of dignity.

2morrow u will become sb's wife, am sure u are less  TOKUNBO( 2nd hand)

HABA, angeeeeeeeeeel!
Quote from: gosky on December 04, 2007, 02:53 PM
and i continue to wonder whether its that difficult for some ladies to hold their legs tight instead of spreading it for every guy they are in a relationship with.  But an advice- keep your legs tight and save the pleasures till your wedding day.

  THIS IS DEMOCRACY. has she infringed on anybody's fundamental human right? if NO, she is discharged and acquitted.
D-reloaded (f)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #14 on: December 04, 2007, 04:03 PM »

I sometimes wonder why people bother reaidng and responding in this part of the forum if they are oh so moral.  This is a SEXUALITY forum. She didnt ask for your useless comments, she's asking for advice. Than again I'm sure the ones whining about how she's supposedly a whore are the same ones suffering from such inflictions hence the pitiful defensive replies.

oh and I agree with David. I assume her waiting for find out that he husband is a permature ejaculator would have been better
omega25red (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #15 on: December 04, 2007, 04:44 PM »

Quote from: D-reloaded on December 04, 2007, 04:03 PM
I sometimes wonder why people bother Reading and responding in this part of the forum if they are oh so moral. This is a SEXUALITY forum. She didn't ask for your useless comments, she's asking for advice. Than again I'm sure the ones whining about how she's supposedly a whore are the same ones suffering from such inflictions hence the pitiful defensive replies.

oh and I agree with David. I assume her waiting for find out that he husband is a permature ejaculator would have been better

I agree with you. some people on this site shouldn't even bother to respond because they think if they post first people would think they are smart and witty while all they spew is just nonsense.

@ poster be careful discussing this with your man because a man's ego is very fragile and you could actually suggest that or help him release on manually before you have sex. He would be less sensitive after releasing one and suggest lots of foreplay or better yet have him wear a less sensitivity enhancing condom.
pinfada (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #16 on: December 04, 2007, 05:43 PM »

Try viagra Smiley
saucekid (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #17 on: December 04, 2007, 05:51 PM »

@ poster,

 na gun e dey shoot?? makes to alert the SSS incase
menix (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #18 on: December 04, 2007, 05:58 PM »

Home of pretenders,   
              @poster advice him to stay away from sweet stuffs, especially soft drinks
toy boy
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #19 on: December 04, 2007, 06:57 PM »

@poster,
tell ur guy to take it easy n to take his mind off it when doint it wit ya, that way he will v longer staying power
tonte (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #20 on: December 04, 2007, 07:59 PM »

tell him 2 smoke @ least 1 small ghana must go of weed den drink 1 geepee tank of shepe even after 10 rounds no shakin den come bac 2 thank miii
passionwit (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #21 on: December 04, 2007, 08:33 PM »

Na wa oo,

Give it to him regularly, 3times daily will do with time when your pussy get's so used to him, he will stay longer because by then all the sweetness of your pussy don finish,

I wonder the sweetnest your future husband go come get out of you, lol
D-reloaded (f)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #22 on: December 04, 2007, 10:54 PM »

Try again

This time in English.
IykeD (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #23 on: December 04, 2007, 10:59 PM »

what's he shooting and what kind of gun is he using? Just curious Huh Grin
ariblaze (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #24 on: December 04, 2007, 11:06 PM »

Quote from: uncleb on December 04, 2007, 02:58 PM
this society has lost all sense of decency

a lady  does nos blush to tell the whole world that sb

she met three months ago is already sleeping with her

and she is even complaining  the guy is not satisfying he, Aba!

Only God knows the number of men who have gone through u,

and u called yrself an angel.

As much as am very outgoing i still bliv that people should maintain a
high level of dignity.

2morrow u will become sb's wife, am sure u are less  TOKUNBO( 2nd hand)

HABA, angeeeeeeeeeel!



am sorry but

this written above

is total and totally HOGWASH!!

what is it with this double standards

Quote
As much as am very outgoing i still bliv that people should maintain a
high level of dignity


and tha EFF is this posed to mean?

it irks me when people speak like this

yeah sex after 3months big deal!

let me ask you uncleb(by the ways whose uncle sef

if you date a girl for a month and she aint dropping some wont you bounce?

and who says women are not posed to enjoy sex,she has every right if not

more right than you to enjoy sex, am usually not in the habit of personality attcks

but i dare say your post deserves this very response, so uncle if you you act like a

Chauvinistic brother to your little nieces and neighbours don't bring to an arena where

you would be chastised.better yet don't even shag anyone if you marry woman we no
be virgin go return am back to her mama and papa i feel an intense urge to call you silly boy

so what the heck silly boy don't come here and spew rubbish Grin

ariblaze (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #25 on: December 04, 2007, 11:11 PM »

@POST

just tell him to ease up abit

a little bit of brandy does help

or let him shoot the first load

during fore play and re-cork(cock)

for the for the main drill afterwards
uncleb (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #26 on: December 05, 2007, 09:36 AM »

omega25red, td-reloaded,ariblaze and the rest

please keep ur dirty mouths and don't

protrude ur razor like tongues at me


who is quoting law, please remember that there are limitations

to ur  so called fundamental  human rigts

and one is repugnance to public feeling
zheroes (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #27 on: December 05, 2007, 09:50 AM »

Quote from: uncleb on December 05, 2007, 09:36 AM
omega25red, td-reloaded,ariblaze and the rest

please keep your dirty mouths and don't

protrude your razor like tongues at me


who is quoting law, please remember that there are limitations

to your so called fundamental human rigts

and one is repugnance to public feeling

There is no monopoly when it comes to the use of abusive words, but as adults(18 and above) the use of such words wont build us up, this section is SEXUALITY if am not mistaken ,so lets be sure we are where we intend to be on nairaland.
ilugunboy (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #28 on: December 05, 2007, 10:42 AM »

@uncleleb(u) Grin

please go and sit in the religion section and do all ya morality preaching there, and leave us alone here!. Remember this section is all about SEX! and sexuality!!!
segun4God (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #29 on: December 05, 2007, 10:55 AM »

My Dear Brother i want you to know somethings, you are in a sexual room good and nice.
But I want you to understand this if you allow your life for sexuality I tell you it may lend you bad place or let me say to Hell fire. So in this case I want to use this opportunity to tell you that Christ Loves you and He did not want your life to destory. I don't preach to you ok but I love you so much please repent from your sin tomorrow may be to late for u


May God bless you
ilugunboy (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #30 on: December 05, 2007, 12:40 PM »

Segun4gods or whatever you call yourself,

wetin concern you with my life, i be your brother, leave me alone before i call seun for you! Angry. You can't even string your composition very well.Shio!!
dewaledeyi (m)
Re: He Shoots Too Fast
« #31 on: December 05, 2007, 01:45 PM »

Get more foreplay, It really helps and makes it sweeter. He should also cuddle and finger you more so that before he comes in you would have come several times, You may even find that he's still hard even after you av come over 4 times.

I'm talking from experience.
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